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How To Approach Women During The Daytime (Honest + Infield Footage)

Today’s content is all about how to approach women during the daytime! (Video footage included, man!) Approaching women and talking to girls isn’t only done in bars or clubs. In fact, we have had more authentic, memorable and enjoyable experiences when we approach women during the daytime.

Check out coach Jules Bia explaining his methods on how to approach women during the daytime, complete with footage of him approaching girls during the day in Playa del Carmen, Mexico:

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HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN DURING THE DAYTIME
with Coach Jules Bia

In today’s video, we show:
– how to approach women during the daytime
– how to approach girls during the day in the street, the beach, shops and malls
– how to approach a girl without being a creep
– how to approach girls during the daytime and get her number
– how to approach women in public places
– how to approach a girl NOT in a bar or club
– how to approach women in the street
– how to talk to a girl during the day
– infield footge from Jules Bia of The Attractive Man team
– examples of daygame approach,
– how to talk to girls with confidence
– how to talk to women and charm them

Here are Jules’ principles to keep in your mental checklist when you want to practice how to approach girls during the daytime:

WARM UP

Just like workouts. Just like public speaking.. Top athletes do it before game time, teachers and professors do it before major events, actors and performers do it before the big curtain rises. It makes TOTAL sense how important warming up is when mastering how to approach women during the day.

So, we love to warm up by talking to random people we meet everyday. Regardless of who they are, if they don’t look completely busy, give them a greeting – talk to them, give them a wave. Its a great warm up to set your mood and activate those happy hormones.

During nighttime approaches, we go and talk to everyone right from the start – if its in the bar or club, we talk to the bouncer, the first person we meet when we enter, the first group we meet.

Once you’ve warmed up, you won’t be so jumpy, anxious, fidgety. I almost never get tongue tied if I had an awesome warm up before I approach gorgeous women. So I want you to be more social, be a bit more dynamic, and warm up! Its going to help overall confidence, and social skills.

FEEL IT IN YOUR BODY

Ever heard the phrase “its all in your head”? Years of coaching men has helped us understand, majority of men’s problems are internal. They keep overthinking, they keep relying on mental cues, they keep thinking “what do I do now?” “what happens if I do this?” “what if she says this?” “should I do this after this and this?” “what if she says no?” “what if she says yes?”

The problem is.. All of your thoughts aren’t happening in the REAL world. You’ve beaten yourself up before you even made a move.

You’re supposed to FEEL it. You’re a human, with feelings, with sensors, with hormones that activate, with a body that responds to stimuli. Attraction is supposed to come naturally, not from a book that you pull out in your head. Being too much in your head? Overthinking? Believe me, it won’t end up well.

You see, some BAD advice would be “memorize this” and “practice this line and routine”. Imagine how that would feel like – are you some robot that only responds with a specific line or when a specific input is given?

So men, make sure to feel it in your body. Sure you might feel scared at first..you might have some jitters, but I want you to feel that and own it. Don’t lock yourself out of your feelings because you’ll never be able to tap into that natural, attractive you if you shut all of that out.

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TAKE CHANCES

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” True. Most men want to play it safe. Also true.

Risk taking is never easy. It requires you to exit your comfort zone. But what that does is it opens up new and amazing oppurtunities for you. And effort plus oppurtunity always equals success.

Sometimes, all guys need is a good push. You could be hanging on the edge of your safe bubble, almost ready to break your limits and become better – but you can’t find it in yourself to bust through. Why? It could be the fear of pain, the fear of rejection, afraid you’ll be humiliated, or afraid you’ll get hurt.

Men, life has been throwing curveballs all this time. And the “no pain, no gain” mantra was created for a reason – not just for the gym and working out – it applies in real life as well.

Approaching beautiful women that you might feel are out of your league is a complete risk on your part. But you know what? Experiencing the pain of rejection and learning from it is better than feeling the regret of not doing it. And most of the time, interactions even end well for our clients.

It was only after stepping out of their comfort zone that our men have realized that they can do better in dating and in their lives. It is by taking chances that we truly improve. It is by facing your demons and fears, where you can find the courage and confidence to be the best version of yourself.

“It is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all”


INVEST IN YOURSELF

Now, this is self-explanatory but I’ll have to emphasize this. Don’t make “how to approach women during the daytime” or flirting, dating, approaching women your main focus in life. That will create a needy mindset, and will set you off.

What you should be doing, is investing in yourself. Its YOUR life, and YOUR happiness. Don’t think that people-pleasing will always lead to your happiness. Seeking others approval, and doing things for them rather than yourself will lead you to a depressive state.

Invest in yourself, man. That’s the best piece of advice I can give you right now. Seek out a better you everyday. Physically, mentally, emotionally. Develop yourself, and natural attraction will follow.

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Dating Coaches React To 90 Day Fiance – Ed and Rose

We’ve got a special episode today.. our Dating Coaches React to 90 Day Fiance – Ed and Rose!

Lynn shows Kal 90 Day Fiance, Big Ed and Rose meeting in person for the first time. Watch his reaction and the team’s tips on why they agree/disagree with what Bid Ed and Rose are doing:

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DATING COACHES REACT:
90 Day Fiance – Ed and Rose

In The Attractive Man team, our coaches react to a variety of videos, and today we want to cover the ever so popular 90 Day Fiance. What better way to start our ‘coaches reacts to 90 day fiance videos’ than with Big Ed and Rose!

Well, big Ed is what he likes to call himself, but the internet has actually named him no neck Ed.. why is that, you ask? Check the video out an you’ll know right away.

This particular couple from TLC’s 90 day fiance, before the 90 days, is an American citizen – Edward Allen Brown, and his Filipina girlfriend Rosemarie Vega. 90 day fiance’s Ed and Rose shot up in popularity simply because of how viral their interactions were on the 90 day fiance tv show.

An American finally meeting with his Girlfriend from the Philippines? Add an age gap.. How would you think that would play out?

While Ed and Rosemarie could have been a happy power couple, when you look at what happened before the 90 days, Ed and Rose cleary had some huge problems to face. Whether it was Ed’s or Rose’s fault, that is up to you to decide – but our coaches and dating experts Lynn and Kal, will have to watch them and explain to you their thoughts on why this couple tandem won’t work!

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If you want to learn more on how to date women, and if you want dating advice for men, make sure to check out our other videos on the channel.

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That’s all for now, man! See you on our next post.
Hope you had some valuable insights.

Cheers,
Matt

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Best Texts to Send a Girl You Like | 7 First Texts That Make Her Interested In You

What are the BEST texts to send a girl you like? Have you ever sent kind of a lame or boring first texts and immediately wished you could take it back?

Your first text is crucial because it sets the frame for your textual relationship. (Did you see what I did there? That nice little play on words? *sigh* Nevermind.) Look, man, most guys sent a very boring or average first text and the girl quickly loses interest. So here are my 7 BEST First Texts to Send a Girl You Like – so your first text will almost always make her excited and interested to reply to you:

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BEST TEXTS TO SEND A GIRL YOU LIKE
7 First Texts That Make Her Excited and Interested In You

NUMBER 7 – Something Naughty

Alright, number seven is something naughty. This is a really great one, but it’s all about the setup. You have to plant the seed or it’s not going to make any sense. And of course you always have to be careful sending an unsolicited sexual text message, but don’t worry..

You’re not going to be sending her a naked selfie of yourself. Please don’t do that as the first text, that would probably not work very well. So it goes like this:

You get her phone number, you’ll save it in your phone. And then you say something like, “Okay, you know what? I’m going to text you something naughty.” The reason I like this is because you’ll see her reaction. It’s either going to be something like, “Ooh, okay. I like that. Yes. Send me something naughty.” Or it’s going to be a, “That’s a little weird..” Either way. It’s going to give you an idea of how naughty she is now with this one, you can’t wait too long to send her the something naughty texts. You should do it in about 10 or 15 minutes. While the idea of you texting her something naughty is still on her mind. And you simply just text her the word something and the word naughty with a smiley face or a winky face emoji.

Do you get it? She thought you were going to text her, actually something naughty like a naked picture or who knows what she’s thinking. And instead you just texted the words, something naughty I’ve even had girls reply with. “I wish you would have sent something a lot more naughty than that.” Again, it’s a good way to find out how naughty she is.

NUMBER 6 – Callback Humor

Number six is using callback humor. If you meet her at a bar or club, it should be a fun, playful interaction. It shouldn’t be super serious. Therefore, there should have been some things that you laughed or joked about. All you need to do now is just text her something that relates back to that funny thing that you guys joked about.

For example, maybe you and her role play that you were going to get married in Vegas and find the fattest Elvis impersonator you could find or something like that.

Then you could either keep going with that marriage role play as your first text, or you could even send a divorce roleplay as your first text. Like:

Hey wifey, I’ve been thinking, and I don’t know if it’s working out between us. I think we should get a divorce, make sure to use an LOL or a smiley winky face or some kind of emoji. So she knows you’re just kidding. It’s all part of the roleplay.

Here’s another example. This is from my book, Turn Her On Through Text. Let’s say you met a girl from England and she happens to be a nanny. So naturally you gave her the nickname, Mary Poppins, and you teased her all night long about it. Then of course, the next day you would text her something like, “Hey, Mary Poppins, don’t forget to give your kids their spoonful of sugar today.”

So just notice how these texts are more playful and fun because most guys send really lame, boring texts, which makes the woman assume that he’s lame and boring.. And then they go on a date with him. It’s just going to suck. Versus you who sending her a few fun and playful texts here and there.. now not ALL the time, but she’s at least going to assume that going on a date with you is probably going to be fun and playful, and she’ll be more likely to say yes to you.


NUMBER 5 – Cheeky Texts

Number five, cheeky texts. These are just some more fun playful, one liner, copy paste, kind of texts, the messages that use a play on words, for example: “Hey, crazy pants too soon for casual texts or are you textually active?”

Actually, I’m not super crazy about that one. I would probably send that as a second text. If she didn’t reply to my first text, I’d wait a day or two and then send her, are you textually active?

A better one is: “Hey, it’s Matt. Guard this number with your life.” which is sounds confident and presupposes that your number is important, A.K.A. YOU are very important.

NUMBER 4 – Endless Options Text

Number four is the endless options text. This one works great when you met a woman online on Tinder, Bumble hinge, whatever app there is nowadays, and you don’t want to seem like you’re taking online dating seriously.

Because if you do, it presupposes that you have no other options in real life because mobile dating apps, for sure, to beautiful woman, it’s kind of like just a game. She’s not taking it seriously. She goes on at once in a while just to see if there’s any options out there, but she’s probably not expecting too much.

And you should have that same mindset. It really shouldn’t be your number one source for meeting women.

The text is very simple. It’s just: “Hey, it’s Matt..” or whatever your name is, then “..from the thing“, which is just kind of a playful way of saying “Hey, it’s Matt from Tinder” or “Hey, it’s Matt from Bumble” but it just shows you that you’re not taking online dating so seriously because you can’t even remember the name of the app.

NUMBER 3 – Cliffhanger Texts

Number three is the cliffhanger texts. This one is really great for getting a reply back. In fact, I normally reserve it for sending it to a girl who hasn’t text back in a couple of days or numbers that have gone cold because it works so well for getting a reply.

It’s basically just sending her an incomplete sentence. It’s where she wants to know what you’re going to say next. For example, let’s say earlier today you met a cutie down by the pier. You could text her “Hey, it’s Matt. I think you have a confession to make…” So notice the cliffhanger there. She’s going to be really interested and eager to know what her confession is.

And then you can say something like “I think you have a huge crush on a man you met earlier down by the pier.” Notice how that’s a little cocky, but it shows confidence. Plus you’re doing it in a fun flirty way.

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NUMBER 2 – Sniper Text

Number two is the sniper texts. You should be doing this every time you get a woman’s phone number. Just like the “Something naughty” texts, it’s all about the setup.

Instead of you asking for her the phone number, you have to give her your number. So just say “Here, let me see your phone. I’m going to give you my number.” And then you take her phone. You can save your number in it if you want.

But the key to send yourself a text from her number that says, “Hey, you are so hot” – signed her name. And then about 10 or 15 minutes later, text or something like, “Aw, thanks. You’re not too bad yourself.” Trust me, man. This one works so well. That always get texts back. Cause it’s just so damn funny and they’re not expecting it.

NUMBER 1 – Recall Her Reaction

Number one is just recall her reaction. I put this at number one because it’s the one I use the most because it’s not so gimmicky. Like some of the others, it’s more of normal and natural.

It’s kind of like callback humor, but you’re not necessarily recalling back anything funny that you joked about because if you met her during the day, it might not have been such a playful interaction as it would be at a bar or club.

So instead of doing what everybody else does and say “Hey, nice meeting you!” STOP using the word “Nice.” It’s so overused. Instead say “So random meeting you” or “So unexpected meeting you” or “So fun meeting you” and then just recall her reaction. Did she seem really startled when you approached her? If so, say “It was cute how nervous you were when I said hi.” or “It was funny how shy you were when I said hi.” or if she seemed really friendly and flirty right away, then say that “You always flirt with cute guys at the mall?” or simply “Are you always so friendly to guys that you meet?” It’s simple, it’s intriguing. And if you made a great impression, when you first met her, she will text you back.

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If you didn’t make a great impression and you’re not getting a lot of replies back from your first text, then it’s probably not the first text that’s the issue. It’s the initial interaction.

You’re being way too friendly and platonic.

And so she feels like she wants to reciprocate by giving you her phone number, but she doesn’t feel any romantic feelings towards you. So if you want to master that, if you want to learn how to spark sensual attraction immediately and get her feeling desire from the moment that you say hi, then make sure to check out our live workshop schedule because we have workshops all over the world. And we also have online virtual mentorship programs where we still work with you one on one and help you get this part of your life handled for good.

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Cheers,
Matt

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Best Messages That Get a Reply

I get it man! It flat out sucks! Texting with a hottie and she seems super on and then bam! She doesn’t text you back. (Makes you wonder – What are the best messages that get a reply?)

You start freaking out and start over analyzing  – What the heck did you do wrong in the last text? No period?? That’s probably why? Nah. What was it?

Look man, I know how aggravating it must be when a girl you really like doesn’t text you back, so in this video I show you exactly what to text her when she doesn’t reply back to reignite that smoking hot flame of desire and get her eagerly texting you back.

I’m giving you 5 texts that you can send her when she doesn’t reply that will get her texting back.


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Best Messages That Get a Reply

Before we dive right in you need to understand why women wouldn’t text back.. Remember men, if she’s a beautiful woman she probably had a lot of other guys texting her and buying for her attention so just because she doesn’t text back doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you it just means she has a lot of options.. which is why you need to watch my other videos on how to text girls so that you’ll be in the situation where you’ll be the one getting a date with her instead of her ghosting you.

Also just remember man that people seem to be busier nowadays than ever and there’s so many distractions – so maybe she had every intention to text you back but NOT instantly. That’s even if you’ve used this, the best messages that get a reply.

One time I was in with my ex girlfriend and her best friend suddenly texts, she had every intention to text back a little later because our group was busy at the time. But she just forgot it! Took her over a week to finally text her best friend back.

A lot of times what happens is the girl actually likes the guy but he just forgets to text them back and then he gets all aggravated and pissed off and end up sending a pissed off text message.

Don’t do that. First impressions matter – they last, and they can make or break all the attraction and potential attraction you may have.

Number 5 – Any Random/Funny text

So number 5 is basically just enter any kind of out of the blue random text. I don’t mean like “Hey how’s your day going!” or “Hey what’s up!”.. I mean something cheeky funny or witty. I prefer a role play such as “Hey I’m bored lets rob a bank!”

It’s all so random she just feels compelled to write back thinking like “Is he serious?” I’m pretty sure its not serious and sometimes she’ll just go along. If one time they say “sure I’m in!” and you just keep the role play going great. Like a funny scenario about how you both go shopping for ski masks together, something you pick up the pink one for her if I could take it so far. I use it as a way to meet up with her and I told her to meet me at the bar that’s across the street from the bank of America so we can plan our heist. It was great because when she showed up we only had this kind of Bonnie and Clyde vibe going on.

Number 4 – Cliffhanger Text

Number 4 is the cliffhanger text which is kinda like a sentence that’s incomplete and she really wants to know what you’re going to say next. For example, “You know what I like about you?” then “…” 

IF she does reply back you can always say “You like the play hard to get”. If you haven’t been replying back lately for another good one is – “you know what I think about you?…” 

People love to know what others think about them. Maybe you’ve heard that everybody’s favorite subject is themselves? What people love more than actually talking about themselves is hearing about themselves.

Another good one is –  “Would you like to hear a secret?…” I’m actually using this one as my tinder openers and they almost always reply with something like “yeah sure what is it?” and I say “I kinda have a crush on this girl..” I describe her a little bit and say “shhh don’t tell her” and almost always gets a laugh and of course a reply back.

Number 3 – Post Something Cool on Social Media

First of course the girl has to actually be following you on social media or it will not work. You can play the long game.. maybe she’s not texting you back right now but maybe she has a relationship now. You met her, she’s into you but for whatever reason she just didn’t meet up with you maybe she was already kind of more involved with another guy – then that relationship turned sour and she’s single again.

That’s why this makes part of the best messages to get a reply, even when its not simply just a message.

Even when she was in a relationship she might still look at your post on social media so as long as you’re posting interesting things.. things that are more interesting than the food you’re eating! Like traveling or just hanging out with friends and she sees that you have a relatively interesting life. All she has to do is reply to one of your stories or one of your posts and boom you’re back in the game this can also make her see that you’re not just sitting around and waiting for her to text you back she, sees that you’re going out with friends are doing things you’re living your life that.

Oftentimes a girl just randomly hit me up and replied to my stories after I post something cool on my Instagram.


Number 2 – Call it Out in a Funny Way

Word of warning I only recommend doing this after you sent either a random text or cliffhanger text.. and she didn’t reply back.

Wait a few days.. and then text something funny to call out the situation. Here’s one my favorites – “Amber alert – says the hot nerd who I’m going to school in Pool is missing, text me if you see her”.

The key is to be descriptive and customize it to her and that way.

You have to do it in a silly funny way like I said earlier. The best messages that get a reply won’t work IF you seem upset about it you’re gonna shoot yourself in the foot. She’s gonna think you’re needy. She’s gonna think you have 0 other options and she’s going to lose attraction for you.

Number 1 – These 4 words:

Here’s a text that can actually work. It’s very simple. 4 words – “Are you still alive?”

The reason this works is because after she hasn’t replied to 2 or 3 or more of your texts back to back it looks kind of needy because you’re giving to her and you’re not getting anything in return. So this text kinda presupposes that a word about her and beat them up doesn’t make sense that women wouldn’t text amazing awesome guy like yourself back.. so maybe something bad happened to her and you just checking it.

I got several women who didn’t reply to my past previous text messages over the past week or two to reply to this text. Yep sometimes that reply is “Oh sorry I’m in a relationship now” but a few times it rekindled the interaction.

The point is don’t be caught up on just one girl or 2 girls that you’re texting.. do you really want a girl you’re trying so hard to attract and she keeps running the other direction? You want to give and take. You don’t wanna be the one chasing, chasing, chasing.. she’s running, running, running.. 

You want to be a man that has some options.

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