how to touch a woman

How to Touch a Woman | 10 Ways to Touch Without Creeping Her Out

Asking yourself How to touch a woman nowadays? There are TONS of ways to touch her. But do you know how to touch a woman the RIGHT WAY?

Guys are oftentimes scared s^&*less when it comes to touching women. One small mistake and BOOM – no more attraction or worse..A slap to the face.

That is why the team, especially Matt, is dedicating our next few videos to help teach guys how to touch a girl. We’ll cover the proper ways of touching a woman. How to touch her to turn her on, how to touch her without getting creepy, how to touch her like a MAN..

The answers to your “how do I touch her?” are found here – Matt explains the different ways to touch a girl, and the different kinds of touch during the interaction:

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HOW TO TOUCH A WOMAN
10 Ways to Touch a Woman without Creeping Her Out

Here are 10 ways to touch a girl starting from the more casual platonic touching and moving up to more intimate forms of touch because just like any form of escalation, you need to start small and increase the escalation over time as she feels more and more comfortable with you:

10. GREETING and SAYING GOODBYE

Handshake – FIRM, STRONG. Not too much, remember to be dominant without being domineering. You want her to feel safe and secure, not like someone who can hurt her. (Don’t crush her hand)

Kiss on the cheek – Depending on the culture, a kiss on the cheek is quite a common greeting. To other countries, its already an intimate gesture. Most of the time when I say goodbye I give a nice kiss on the cheek (that’s if we weren’t smooching already if the date went well)

Hug – When you meet her for a date always hug even if you met online. No hovering hand, okay? A nice bear hug, or if that’s too much, even a side hug works great.

9. CONVERSATION

Using your hands as you talk and touching her arm, shoulder or hand to emphasize a point. Example: “And you won’t believe what happened next” as you touch her arm for emphasis. Touch her waist or lower back at a loud club, which is a very sensual spot of her body, as you lean in to tell her something.

8. UNINTENTIONAL

Examples of situations where Unintentional Touch can happen are:

Standing near each other and your arms are touching

Sitting and your legs are touching 

Being close to each other

Can happen while walking

So if you are looking for a dating location, like a dinner or lunch date – Pick a venue with couches where your legs can touch

7. INQUIRING

Touch her hair, nails, or something she’s wearing and make a comment about it. Example: “Wow those are some interesting nails” as you hold her hands and examine them. Complementing her figure works as well, just like how women use “have you been working out?” as an excuse to touch your biceps. You can say the same line as you touch her abs.Wow, you are so fit” “Flex your arm Make sure she has a flat stomach before you do this. Pinching her belly flab won’t be such a turn on.

6. CORRECTING

Fix something about her like her clothing, hair or posture. Example:Hold on let me fix your shirt. Okay there, much better.

5. PLAYFUL

If you are at a bar or on a date you can play a Fun game-like thumb wrestling or slap hands. At bars it’s all about being playful. 

4. REWARDING

When she does or says something you like, simply reward her with a hug, high-five or kiss. Example: “Nice, high-five!” I know it seems childish but that’s the point. Who doesn’t want to be a little childish every now and then?

3. LEADING

While leading her from one place to the next you can hold her hand, go arm-in-arm or place your hand on her lower back.

2. MASSAGE

Hand massage 

Full massage (learn some techniques; take a class)

1. DIRECT

Where she just knows that you are really attracted to her so you make your move. You typically need a higher level of attraction and compliance for this to work.


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Anxiety Cure: The HELLO CHALLENGE

Anxiety cure? I want YOU to do Jules’ HELLO CHALLENGE…

Its simple, man. And its one way to help cure fear, cure anxiety, improve your social skills, and increase your confidence.

As you can see in the video, the HELLO CHALLENGE comprises you, going out there and meeting people – or simply give them a nice hello. You don’t have to expect a reply, you don’t have to expect them to even react. Just go out there and say hello to them!

By doing this everyday for a set number of days, its guaranteed to improve your communication skills, your confidence, and help you conquer that social anxiety and fear of talking to people.

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How to be a Player (Ethical)

Want to know how to be a player? We can tell you – but let me ask you. What KIND of PLAYER do you want to be? What kind of player is most attractive to women?

Do you want to be the lying, manipulative, disrespectful kind? OR do you have what it takes to be the honest, genuine, ethical kind?

I know what you’re thinking. How can a “player” be the honest type? Isn’t being a “player” all about deception and lies? Well, you probably haven’t really understood what it truly means to be one. And this video will clear things up for you:

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Hope this video cleared things up for you! Till next time, man. Cheers!

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Practice Eye Contact Video (Part 2)

Hey man! Use this “Practice Eye Contact Video” to help you master looking into her eyes during a conversation!

Practicing eye contact can be tough especially when you’re not used to doing it. It may sound hard, but it’s actually quite easy with constant practice.

I created this video to help you practice eye contact while talking with girls – so make sure you pay attention to what I say at the start. If you missed Part 1, make sure to watch it first here.

Watch Part 2 of the Video below:

That’s all for now! Stay tuned for part 3 coming soon!

-Matt


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Signs She Is Using You

Are you sure a girl is being true to you? Here are some signs she is using you…

No one wants to date a time waster or someone who isn’t who they really are.

So how can you be sure the girl you are dating isn’t just putting on an act?
How do you know if she is putting on a façade just to please you?
And are you sure that you won’t get surprised later on when the real her comes out?!

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SIGNS SHE IS USING YOU

Is she being Real or is she Playing you?!

Let’s talk about FAKE women, the ones who seem to change as soon as you commit to them! If you have ever dated a girl who seems happy, flirty and amazing in the beginning and then changes later on after a few months , then you will want to stay to watch this entire video ….because I’m going to give you some awesome tips on how to identify those types of girls and make sure you don’t get caught out! So make sure you subscribe now and give us a big thumbs up!

One of the reasons I wanted to do this video was because I asked over 1200 men what they wanted me to talk about and this is the one thing that keeps coming up!

So, here are my tips to being able to identify if she is the real deal or an imposter!

TAKE YOUR TIME TO KNOW HER REAL DEFAULT BEHAVIOR

There are two types of female simple behaviors when it comes to relating to men :

1: When they want something from you
2: When they don’t want something from you

If you think you know someone after a few dates let alone 2 months you are wrong! And, just because you’ve gotten to third base still doesn’t mean you know her.

When a woman first meets you she will be smiley, feminine and flirty, but that’s because she wants something from you. Problem is, you think that’s her normal default character, so when she gets what she wants which might be marriage or babies, she then switches to her normal default behavior which could be totally the opposite, hence feeling like you have gotten two different women!

The only way to get to know someone’s true intentions and character is over time.

Don’t feel that just because you are the man you have to rush into making her feel in a secure relationship, you have every right to take your time and also get to know who you are committing too.  

If she’s pressuring you to speed things up then you have to ask yourself why and if she seems too good to be true ( because the real ones will have some flaws but still be a good woman) then she probably is!

SEE HER IN DIFFERENT SCENARIOS

The best way to get to know someone’s character and intentions is to look at who they hang with, how they respond and what they are consistent in.

If you really want to get to know a girl for who she is and not who she pretends to be, then date her in different circumstances.

Don’t just go on dinner and drink dates, see how she responds when you do things that you enjoy (like a baseball game or hang with your mates) does she put on an act even though you can tell she doesn’t like it?

Does she turn into a yes girl even though you saw her tell her friends she hates sport?

Does she complain or act like high maintenance when she doesn’t get her way? or is she flexible, gracious and know how to see the positive in each situation.

Someone who has a hidden agenda or only wants something from you will usually be more high maintenance and demanding. Which leads me to my next point…

TEST HER

This isn’t about playing games, but rather getting to know who she really is. One way to test her is to ask contradicting questions to see if she just agrees with whatever you say. Then call her out on it!

If she has a wishy-washy doormat answer every time then you can guarantee that she is just trying to please you to earn brownie points.

Ask her questions which you might already know the answer to eg: if she watched the game and if she said yes, asked her who won…to see if she is telling the truth or not.

Guys, a woman who doesn’t always agree with you doesn’t mean she’s high maintenance, it means she is being real and isn’t afraid to say it. Plus, you guys like a bit of a challenge, right?

DOES SHE HAVE HER OWN PURPOSE?

A woman who doesn’t have her own thing going on will automatically make you her focus. This means she will start to do what she thinks you want her to do and probably start to lose her own identity.

If you want a real woman, then a big sign she is one is that her life won’t stop when she meets you! She won’t put you on a pedestal and still have her own career, friendships, hobbies and goals because she loves what she is creating and isn’t trying to live for a man!

WHO ARE HER FRIENDS?

You can tell a lot about someone by who they associate with. Are her friends fake and opinionated or are they genuine and nice? People become a product of their environment, so make sure her crowd is full of decent women who have their own thing going on and not just a girl gang who are hunting down men.

LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS

If you really want to know if she is real or not then take note of what she talks about. Is she always talking about just being in a relationship? Does she often compare you and her to her friend’s relationships?  Does she say one thing and then do something the complete opposite?

Women who are focused solely on having a relationship will often talk about it more than they need too. There will also be some insecurity and be constantly trying to prove to you that they are the right girl.

Guys, it’s a tough game out there sometimes because some women can be really good at hiding the real them, so if you haven’t had any luck then do yourself a favor and attend one of our Bootcamps or intensive workshops.

In the meantime make sure you download our free conversation cheat sheet. This will help you know exactly what to say and when to say it so that you can help work out which girl is worth perusing!

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