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why do girls like bad boys

Why Do Girls Like Bad Boys? | The Dark Side Of Attraction

Why do girls like bad boys so much? Do nice guys always finish last? What you’re about to hear is controversial.. because you’ve probably never heard this before. So let’s get right to the interview, shall we?

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WHY DO GIRLS LIKE BAD BOYS?
The Dark Side Of Attraction

Matt: I like how you said “be yourself,” because a lot of people have heard that advice.. And don’t understand it because they say, “Oh, I’m always being myself. I’m being so nice and sweet to women.

And really, are they being themselves, do you think?

Robert: They are not. And you know that that applied to me as well. And yeah, that’s that’s the advice. You know, we used to hear from our mother or something like that “just to be yourself,” you know, and guys will tell me, you know, “I’ve heard that all my life and that sucks. That’s not accurate. I myself and women still don’t want to give me a number. I still don’t want to go out with me.

And and what’s happened is how can a woman be attracted to a chameleon? How could she be attracted to something that has no life energy
about it? No edge to it? No. No darkness to it. Right? No fierceness to it.

Nice Guy vs. Bad Boy – The Truth Behind What Women Want In Men

Robert: The feminine is attracted to all of those things. And nice guys, just unfortunately. Nice, niceness.. nice is not a turn on to the majority of women, even though women say, “Oh, I want to be with the nice guy” even though they like the idea of being with a guy who treats them well..

And again, I’m not talking about guys being jerks, but unfortunately, oftentimes that is what women get attracted to.

They get attracted to the man that’s unavailable – that they can’t trust, that sleeps around on them, that steals their money, that doesn’t follow through. Why? Because there’s some energy to it.

There’s an edge to it. There’s a vibration to it. And women need that kind of emotional tension for attraction and attachment and sexual arousal. Niceness creates no emotional tension.

Matt: Flat line.. Like it’s so predictable, the asshole, even though, you know, we don’t want to actually become an asshole, but he’s like, nice at some times. But then he’s an asshole and he’s unpredictable and, you know, he’s sweet to her.. But then he doesn’t call her back for a week. He disappears.


Robert: But that what drives them crazy. A woman would rather be driven crazy than be driven bored. Right? And that’s a problem with nice guys, We’re born.. Trying to please other people is always kind of a one-down type of thing.

“Oh, I’ll do nice things for you. I’ll listen to you talk. I’ll do whatever you want, blah, blah, blah. Because I have you up here and I want you to want me.”

But it makes the woman the decider. It gives her all the power. It makes her the Alpha, you the Beta. And and so trying to, you know, be that nice guy to be what we think women want us to be, paradoxically just doesn’t work.

Now, part of the problem is we don’t know what else to do because we’ve been hiding all those other things about ourselves that might actually be a little bit attractive to women.

And what is amazing to most guys, like it was to me, is that women are drawn to the darkness in us.

They’re drawn to to the part of us that can be an asshole. They’re drawn to us. The part that that, you know, wants to f*** them to god, they’re drawn to us that would protect them from threat that, you know, would draw a sword and cut someone’s head off!

You know, they’re drawn to something fierce and bold and strong.

My wife is younger than me. Mexican woman, grew up in poverty, had to learn to fight. She grew up in her white bred neighborhood suburb of Seattle. And she even says, “I know I got bigger balls than you, but I don’t want to ever feel like my balls are bigger than my man’s.

It is all in Spanish. And she’s telling the truth.

She is a strong, strong woman, but she wants to know that I’ve got some fierceness about me and she
likes the dark side of me. She likes me to tell her dark, nasty stories. And then this is all stuff I didn’t think, well, women more like that kind of stuff. And it’s been throughout my life as women that have begged for that kind of energy, that kind of darkness.

And finally, it kind of sunk in after a while. Well, why am I hiding that from them? Why am I afraid of them thinking I’m a bad man? They’re drawn to that, that they crave it.

Matt: Hey, man, I hope you enjoyed this topic. Make sure to subscribe to this channel on YouTube so that you can watch the other episodes from the Robert Glover interview and make sure to hit that Bell notification icon.

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– Matt

how to approach during the daytime

How To Approach Women During The Daytime (Honest + Infield Footage)

Today’s content is all about how to approach women during the daytime! (Video footage included, man!) Approaching women and talking to girls isn’t only done in bars or clubs. In fact, we have had more authentic, memorable and enjoyable experiences when we approach women during the daytime.

Check out coach Jules Bia explaining his methods on how to approach women during the daytime, complete with footage of him approaching girls during the day in Playa del Carmen, Mexico:

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HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN DURING THE DAYTIME
with Coach Jules Bia

In today’s video, we show:
– how to approach women during the daytime
– how to approach girls during the day in the street, the beach, shops and malls
– how to approach a girl without being a creep
– how to approach girls during the daytime and get her number
– how to approach women in public places
– how to approach a girl NOT in a bar or club
– how to approach women in the street
– how to talk to a girl during the day
– infield footge from Jules Bia of The Attractive Man team
– examples of daygame approach,
– how to talk to girls with confidence
– how to talk to women and charm them

Here are Jules’ principles to keep in your mental checklist when you want to practice how to approach girls during the daytime:

WARM UP

Just like workouts. Just like public speaking.. Top athletes do it before game time, teachers and professors do it before major events, actors and performers do it before the big curtain rises. It makes TOTAL sense how important warming up is when mastering how to approach women during the day.

So, we love to warm up by talking to random people we meet everyday. Regardless of who they are, if they don’t look completely busy, give them a greeting – talk to them, give them a wave. Its a great warm up to set your mood and activate those happy hormones.

During nighttime approaches, we go and talk to everyone right from the start – if its in the bar or club, we talk to the bouncer, the first person we meet when we enter, the first group we meet.

Once you’ve warmed up, you won’t be so jumpy, anxious, fidgety. I almost never get tongue tied if I had an awesome warm up before I approach gorgeous women. So I want you to be more social, be a bit more dynamic, and warm up! Its going to help overall confidence, and social skills.

FEEL IT IN YOUR BODY

Ever heard the phrase “its all in your head”? Years of coaching men has helped us understand, majority of men’s problems are internal. They keep overthinking, they keep relying on mental cues, they keep thinking “what do I do now?” “what happens if I do this?” “what if she says this?” “should I do this after this and this?” “what if she says no?” “what if she says yes?”

The problem is.. All of your thoughts aren’t happening in the REAL world. You’ve beaten yourself up before you even made a move.

You’re supposed to FEEL it. You’re a human, with feelings, with sensors, with hormones that activate, with a body that responds to stimuli. Attraction is supposed to come naturally, not from a book that you pull out in your head. Being too much in your head? Overthinking? Believe me, it won’t end up well.

You see, some BAD advice would be “memorize this” and “practice this line and routine”. Imagine how that would feel like – are you some robot that only responds with a specific line or when a specific input is given?

So men, make sure to feel it in your body. Sure you might feel scared at first..you might have some jitters, but I want you to feel that and own it. Don’t lock yourself out of your feelings because you’ll never be able to tap into that natural, attractive you if you shut all of that out.

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TAKE CHANCES

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” True. Most men want to play it safe. Also true.

Risk taking is never easy. It requires you to exit your comfort zone. But what that does is it opens up new and amazing oppurtunities for you. And effort plus oppurtunity always equals success.

Sometimes, all guys need is a good push. You could be hanging on the edge of your safe bubble, almost ready to break your limits and become better – but you can’t find it in yourself to bust through. Why? It could be the fear of pain, the fear of rejection, afraid you’ll be humiliated, or afraid you’ll get hurt.

Men, life has been throwing curveballs all this time. And the “no pain, no gain” mantra was created for a reason – not just for the gym and working out – it applies in real life as well.

Approaching beautiful women that you might feel are out of your league is a complete risk on your part. But you know what? Experiencing the pain of rejection and learning from it is better than feeling the regret of not doing it. And most of the time, interactions even end well for our clients.

It was only after stepping out of their comfort zone that our men have realized that they can do better in dating and in their lives. It is by taking chances that we truly improve. It is by facing your demons and fears, where you can find the courage and confidence to be the best version of yourself.

“It is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all”


INVEST IN YOURSELF

Now, this is self-explanatory but I’ll have to emphasize this. Don’t make “how to approach women during the daytime” or flirting, dating, approaching women your main focus in life. That will create a needy mindset, and will set you off.

What you should be doing, is investing in yourself. Its YOUR life, and YOUR happiness. Don’t think that people-pleasing will always lead to your happiness. Seeking others approval, and doing things for them rather than yourself will lead you to a depressive state.

Invest in yourself, man. That’s the best piece of advice I can give you right now. Seek out a better you everyday. Physically, mentally, emotionally. Develop yourself, and natural attraction will follow.

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turn ons for women

Turn Ons For Women – This Phrase Made Her RIP MY CLOTHES OFF..

What are some of the best turn ons for women? I’m going to share a 5 word phrase I said, that turned a girl on so much that it made her want to rip my clothes off then and there!

I’ll also reveal the psychology behind why this worked. AND teach you how you can use this as a great way to turn a girl on. She’ll be begging for you to take her to bed with you:

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TURN ONS FOR WOMEN
This Phrase Made Her Want To Rip My Clothes Off!

What comes out of your mouth when you talk is powerful.

The different ways to turn a girl on aren’t that hard to master once you understand how it works. Your words alone can already arouse and excite her if you know how to use them right. AND if you know WHEN to say them. You too, can make her rip your clothes off by knowing exactly the things to say to a girl to turn her on.

In the video, I share ways and words that are turn ons for girls. Actions, behaviors and traits of men who women absolutely adore. Plus the words that are turn ons for women. These actually turn a woman on psychologically, emotionally, mentally, and even physically.. but is only as effective as the way you say it, the way you do it, as well as the timing.


Watch the video and carefully take note of what I have to share about the principles of attraction; the reasons why some men attract the women they want effortlessly, and naturally.

We’ve got more weekly content coming out all about how to turn a woman on with conversations, how to turn a woman on with touching, as well as motivation and exercise videos designed to help you become the confident, mature, powerful man that deserves to be with an amazing woman that won’t manipulate or leave you!

More videos about how to turn a girl on here:
How To Turn Her On Through Text | Texts That Turn A Girl On
5 Ways To Turn A Girl On Instantly | Best Turn Ons for Women
DON’T Do These 7 Turn offs, these destroy your chances of Attracting Women

A woman wants to be turned on. Don’t tell yourself you can’t do it, because with our years of experience and coaching, we KNOW that most men lose the battle even before it is fought.

Majority of guys approach and interact with women with an “I’ve already lost” mentality. Truth is, women know that. SO my last words of advice for this time is – NEVER, ever, beat yourself up by doubting yourself. The hardest battles fought, and the ones most satisfying to win, are mostly internal.

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That’s all for now, man.

Cheers,
Matt

how to not be boring

How to Not be Boring (Especially During a Date)

Now’s the perfect time to learn how to not be boring (especially to a girl you like!). So don’t be the Boring Guy that gets Friend Zoned! Our top coaches show you how to stop being boring and how to carry the conversation with interest and charisma.

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HOW TO NOT BE BORING
Be Interesting Especially to a Girl YOU Like!

Are you the type of guy who goes out to the bar and you start a conversation with a girl it seems like it’s going really well but then she turned her back and leaves? Doesn’t talk to you for the rest the night? Well you know what? We’re gonna help you!

In this video we’re gonna teach you how to stop being so boring. Our top coaches from The Attractive Man Team are here to talk about why guys sometimes bore the sh*&t out of women and how you (a guy that’s watching our videos and reading our blog) can avoid making that mistake.

Listen to Matt, Josiah, Jules and David talk about their experiences with coaching men and what best to do to keep the conversation going, and how to never run out of things to say.

How do you stop being boring? How do you keep things interesting? How to be more interesting to women? Sometimes the key to not be boring lies in a mans ability to be comfortable with his emotions and his stories.

Matt talks about conversation flows, Josiah and Jules about being in the moment and making funny banter, and David about just not caring too much what others think because that creates mental barriers that are unecessary to begin with!

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how to gain courage to approach women

How to gain COURAGE to APPROACH WOMEN in DIFFICULT SITUATIONS.

Want to be UNSTOPPABLE with women? Here’s how to gain courage to approach women in difficult situations.


It’s time to get comfortable with the uncomfortable. Here’s how to approach girls during uncomfortable situations and get the best results out of it!

Coach David is here to help you gain the confidence to approach a girl in any uncomfortable situation. This will help you learn how to start a conversation with a girl, and how to talk to girls with confidence! It’s all about how to be alpha during the approach. And no, we’re not talking bout being a big douche in front of women. WATCH THE VIDEO:

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