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Turn Ons For Women – This Phrase Made Her RIP MY CLOTHES OFF..

What are some of the best turn ons for women? I’m going to share a 5 word phrase I said, that turned a girl on so much that it made her want to rip my clothes off then and there!

I’ll also reveal the psychology behind why this worked. AND teach you how you can use this as a great way to turn a girl on. She’ll be begging for you to take her to bed with you:

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This Phrase Made Her Want To Rip My Clothes Off!

What comes out of your mouth when you talk is powerful.

The different ways to turn a girl on aren’t that hard to master once you understand how it works. Your words alone can already arouse and excite her if you know how to use them right. AND if you know WHEN to say them. You too, can make her rip your clothes off by knowing exactly the things to say to a girl to turn her on.

In the video, I share ways and words that are turn ons for girls. Actions, behaviors and traits of men who women absolutely adore. Plus the words that are turn ons for women. These actually turn a woman on psychologically, emotionally, mentally, and even physically.. but is only as effective as the way you say it, the way you do it, as well as the timing.

Watch the video and carefully take note of what I have to share about the principles of attraction; the reasons why some men attract the women they want effortlessly, and naturally.

We’ve got more weekly content coming out all about how to turn a woman on with conversations, how to turn a woman on with touching, as well as motivation and exercise videos designed to help you become the confident, mature, powerful man that deserves to be with an amazing woman that won’t manipulate or leave you!

More videos about how to turn a girl on here:
How To Turn Her On Through Text | Texts That Turn A Girl On
5 Ways To Turn A Girl On Instantly | Best Turn Ons for Women
DON’T Do These 7 Turn offs, these destroy your chances of Attracting Women

A woman wants to be turned on. Don’t tell yourself you can’t do it, because with our years of experience and coaching, we KNOW that most men lose the battle even before it is fought.

Majority of guys approach and interact with women with an “I’ve already lost” mentality. Truth is, women know that. SO my last words of advice for this time is – NEVER, ever, beat yourself up by doubting yourself. The hardest battles fought, and the ones most satisfying to win, are mostly internal.


That’s all for now, man.


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How to Date Alpha Women (Here’s What It Takes)

If you are someone who is drawn to the magnetic strength and sexiness of a strong woman, and you want to learn exactly how to date Alpha Women… then you will know that these type of girls won’t respond to run of the mill dating protocol.  

Again.. I’m talking about how to date an Alpha Woman, and in this video, I’m going to reveal how to win her over and handle her strength so that you still come out as the hero she is looking for!

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As an alpha woman myself, I can testify that what I am about to tell you in this video are vital inside secrets on how to win us over and still be the strong male that she wants.  And to clarify what I believe an Alpha woman is , it s a woman who has both strength and femininity and is able to lead and love at the same time. 

So, if you are ready to learn about how to date strong Alpha women who keeps you on your toes, then make sure you stay right to the end, because the last point is the most important! 

Alright let’s do this!


1: Initiate and communicate – we don’t waste time on trivial conversation 

The first thing you should know about Alpha women is that we don’t have time to waste. The majority of us are building careers, leading companies, pursuing our passions and filling our life with meaningful actions and achievements .

We want a man in our lives, but only if he is on the same page and is ready to add value to us.   Meaning he is ready to head in the same direction of building a strong , loving relationship and he can communicate that through the way he treats us and make us an even better version of ourselves.

So when it comes to talking with us , we want to build some rapport but then we want you to cut to the chase and just ask us out. 

If you have started a conversation online, then don’t wait weeks till you finally ask her out. She will get bored, assume you aren’t interested and basically swipe you away. 

Be assertive and confident by asking her out after a few conversational messages back and forth. 

A strong woman will also initiate conversation and dates, but she appreciates a man who does the same and isn’t afraid to just be a grown up and communicate. 

Which brings me to the second part in this first point. Clear communication is vital with an Alpha woman. She isn’t into games and she likes certainty and transparency. 

I had a client who was a millionaire and gorgeous woman and she had this man in her life who earn less than her and lived with his grandmother . Now this guy was actually an awesome guy the only issues was , was that he keeps being indecisive and was always hot and cold. I told my client to let this guy go and thankfully when she did that he stepped up , got his act together and was able to bring all his value to her. 

The reason I’m telling you this is I don’t want you to delay or lose a good woman like this guy almost did just because you think you have to have the same status as her or need to try and play hot and cold to keep her on her toes. 

So, if you want to date an Alpha woman make sure you are open and honest with her all the way.  

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2:  Always be leading – even when we try to take over 

So typically, Alpha women have leadership qualities and therefore will have the default behaviour to want to take control and lead. For example, she might open the door instead of letting you, or try and organise the date or just take the initiation herself. 

At times an Alpha woman can be seen as too assertive, almost bossy  because she has a strong conviction about herself and is assertive by nature. But this is where you need to take the reins back!

If she goes to grab the door, step in front and say gently “I think that’s my job” and then open the door or pull out the chair etc. 

If she starts to step too much into the masculine role, take over by gently placing your hand over hers and then saying “here I’ll do it” or “Let me do that” it’s that gentle assertiveness that will make her feel like you are someone who can take control and be there to lead her. That’s something to keep in mind when knowing how to date alpha women. 


3: Tell her no- don’t be a doormat 

An alpha woman will most likely have an opinion and a strong energy, so the last thing she wants is a man who she can walk all over. We aren’t looking for a puppy dog, we are looking for a man who can equal us in strength whilst also making us feel weak at the knees. 

Don’t be afraid to disagree with her or tell her that you have something else in mind if she suggests something different. Show her that you also have standards and strengths and one of the easiest ways to do this is to not become a YES man or someone who just passively agrees with whatever she wants 

Now if you are someone who struggles with confidence and being able to be assertive, then I want you to download our Free Confidence Cheat Sheet:

4: Add some romance in – we crave to feel feminine 

Just because we are strong women, does not mean that we don’t appreciate being made to feel girly or giggly. Truth is we love being made to feel special and feminine. 

Now wanting to be romanced doesn’t mean we want you to do ridiculous gestures like buying one of those giant teddy bears and a heart necklace saying “you complete me “, but rather we appreciate thought that goes into gestures or dates.

 Like remembering her favorite wine, or organizing a sunset picnic.

You see being romanced offers us a rare opportunity to switch off from being the strong woman all the time and just indulge in being vulnerable, so If you can create that for her, you will win her over!


5: Be organised with your dates – we have higher standards  

Ok let me just say higher standards doesn’t mean we are high maintenance, we just don’t put up with no or little effort.

We want to know that we are a priority not just an option because we will not settle for second best

So, don’t leave things to the last minute, plan in advance and dress to impress, because an Alpha woman will always bring her A Game and so she expects the same. 


6: She wants you to be her hero – even if she pretends she doesn’t  

How to date alpha women right off the bat with probably most important lesson – we may look like we don’t need saving, but secretly we want a man to go to at the end of the day to hold us and tell us everything will be ok. 

We will put on the brave face and are used to doing a lot of things in our own strength, but every strong woman wants a man who makes her feel like she is special and that she can rely on him to be her strength at times. 

Now the best way to communicate that you can be this man for her is by asking her “do you need help with that? “or being an active listener when she wants to talk and if she says “sorry I shouldn’t be talking so much or saying all this “smile and softly encourage to keep talking. Make her feel like it’s ok to be human and that you are there for her. 

Well guys this is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to dating a strong woman, so make sure you subscribe to our channel and why not check out my other video how to become an Alpha man, because it will help set you up even more for dating an Alpha woman. 


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How to Impress a Girl on the First Date | 5 Things Women Instantly Look For in Men

Dating is like a dance between the prey and the predator. You may not know this, but women actually want to be caught and devoured but by the right man!

To find the right man, women are instinctually and subconsciously looking for specific traits in men they meet.

So all you need to do then is know what those things are and how to embody them so that you can have her wanting you more without having to try and convince her!

I’m Renee Slansky with The Attractive Man Team, and I’m going to give you 5 things that women instantly look for in a man on a first date:

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How to Impress a Girl: The First Date

Ok so first dates really matter and here’s why; this is where you are giving your first impression. And just because you like the girl and want a second date, doesn’t mean she is going to feel the same….UNLESS you know what she is looking for and able to tap into that, triggering her response to want to know you more.

Not going to lie, what I’m about to reveal to you is pretty much what most women are looking for in a first date, and truth be told it’s not as complicated or as scary as you think.

So let’s unlock the vault and jump in:

Here is what women are looking for – someone who can protect, provide, lead, love and listen ( in a nutshell) and here is how that translates to the first date:

1:  Confidence – not just in your appearance and body language but also in your actions, words, and decisions. We don’t want ego, but we do want a man who we feel has a sense of direction and is able to take charge and lead. This really comes across more in your energy and presence …if you can walk into a room and have a sense of confidence and leadership about you without coming across as arrogant, then we will swoon.

2: Decisiveness – nothing sexier than a man with a plan who can just make decisions and lead the way.  We want to know you are able to help us and be the man we crave and that comes across so easily if you take decisions ( like ordering the wine or choosing the restaurant etc) …again you come across as a leader who can take control. And it makes us feel like a damsel…it also gives us a hint you can take control in the bedroom

3: Security – we want to feel safe to be ourselves and not be compared to other women. Whilst we also want to feel you could protect us physically and care about our safety. If you come across too domineering then we can feel unsafe in your presence and want to retreat. But if you shrink back from the confrontation hiding behind us then we won’t see you as a man who can fulfill our primal needs to be kept safe.

4: Listening skills –  If you can actively show interest in what we are saying it makes us feel like a priority. It also sends the signal that you care about what we say and who we are which are indications of the ability to love.  And listening also makes us feel safer around you and being able to trust and open up to you.

5: Chivalry – we don’t want a hero, but we do want a man who makes us feel like a lady. Simple things like opening the door for us, pouring the water, taking the bill, are all signs that you want to make us feel valued and special. It’s also an indication that you have the possibility to give us romance which is what women crave.

Final Thoughts

The thing is guys, tapping into what makes us tick makes us also want to do the same for you. Relationships aren’t just about giving so you can get, but by stepping up and playing your role so that you can build a solid foundation right from the first date.

The amount of women that are literally out there looking for just these 5 basics is incredible. So if you want to set yourself apart from the others and get her thinking about you, all you have to do is focus on those 5 things to create a lasting first impression.

When you are on the date, a woman wants a man who isn’t afraid to make a move, that’s why we created…


Download the Escalation Cheat Sheet for more on what to say to take things to the next level! 

We created a “Free Escalation Cheat Sheet” that lists out some of our best ways to spark sexual tension and escalate to the bedroom.

It’s filled with Advanced Escalation Techniques that will help you turn a platonic – friendly interaction, into a more sexual – “I want to rip your clothes off” vibe.

This is very useful when you’re talking to a girl but it’s going nowhere.

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5 Secrets to Make Her Fall In Love with You

Here are my 5 secrets that will make her fall in love with you!

Whether you just met, it’s your first date, or you’ve been dating a while, girls want a story. They fantasize about a fairytale romance.

Do what I tell you in this video, and you will be able to create feelings of intense connection and love very quickly.

Some guys tend to believe that there’s an elaborate formula to make a girl fall in love with you. Or that it’s all about money, fame, or looks for them. They couldn’t be more wrong:

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5 Secrets To Make Her Fall In Love With You

Create a Story

Girls want a good story of how you guys met.

Think about it, women are conditioned by romance movies, and even by Disney movies as a kid, and the prince and princess never meet on tinder or at a club.

Women fantasize about a movie moment where they meet their prince charming in a romantic way, like a bookstore or salsa class or any random unexpected way during the day where the man needs balls to approach her.

Like for me, I get approached way more at night, but it rarely happens during the day, and I wish a charming guy would just come to say hi.  And the same is true for a date, which creates lots of moments for her throughout the date, for example, if you take her to the movies and make her miss a good scene because you are trying to kiss her, it’s not going to be as special or memorable as going for the kiss on the beach under the stars or while dancing to a romantic song in the park.

Chivalry isn’t dead!

Bring her fairy tale to life

Pay close attention to what she says to ultimately figure out her goals and dreams in life. Then create an alignment with her future and your future.

For example: after a couple of dates and she tells you she wants kids, you can ask her “do you think I’d be a good dad?” Therefore, you are getting her to start thinking about you as a fatherly-like figure. But make sure always to be real and authentic.  

Another example could be if she wants to be an entrepreneur, you could talk about, how fun would it be to work on your businesses together on the beach.  But make sure to be real and authentic, just don’t make stuff up. You don’t want to waste both your time if you are not compatible.  

Create an adventure

The point here is to create great memories together because the more great memories you create, the more invested and connected she will feel.

So, instead of just going to dinner and the movies, like every other guy, plan something more memorable and original like fun activities together, for example, Rollerblading, ice skating, dancing, or hiking, remember that motion creates emotion.

No girl wants to be bored on a date.

Create Emotion

People are used to having conversations about the same topics over and over again about work, the weather, family and where they are from.

It is fine to talk about these things but if that is the bulk of your conversation, she’ll just go into her autopilot response and won’t FEEL anything, and it’s emotions that create powerful memories.

For example: do you remember where you were when 9/11 happened, or when Donald Trump got elected? Probably, because you were either really excited Donald Trump was elected or really pissed. Either way, you were emotionally charged.

But do you remember what you had for dinner last Tuesday? Probably not because it wasn’t emotional, unless it was your birthday or you did something unique. That’s because memories form through emotion. If she doesn’t feel anything, then she won’t even remember you, let alone fall in love with you. The worst thing you could do is be boring.

In fact, it’s better to create any emotion than no emotion. A man is usually too scared to offend or upset the woman, so he plays it safe.

Ask memorable questions like:

  • What would you tell your younger self?”
  • “What are your main goals in life?”
  • “What’s one thing no one knows about you?”

The first date I had with a guy was so memorable, and I ended up dating him for 2 years after that.

So keep her stimulated, most importantly, keep her mind stimulated with emotion & excitement.  It’s exciting and romantic memories that create the feeling of love.

Show Affection the way she wants it

You see, there are 5 major ways to show affection, also known as the 5 love languages.

  1. Touch – massage, head scratch
  2. Quality Time – attention is all on her
  3. Words of Affirmation – telling her what you like, care about,
  4. Acts of Service – doing something for her
  5. Gift Giving – thoughtful presents (not necessarily expensive) that surprise and give value

You see, not every woman wants affection the same way. All of these forms of appreciation are important, but some are stronger than others for different people.   

For example, they are all important to me, but one of my strongest love languages is physical touch.

The key is to find out which is most important to her because you might think you are giving her all this value by communicating to her in your own love language when really you might be smothering her.

One way to find out her love languages is to pay attention to how she reacts by reading her body language. If you touch her and she recoils or if you compliment her and she shuts it down then those might not be her love languages.

You can even ask her, “would you rather have a back massage or receive gift?”. Or can even ask the girl if she knows what her love languages are, and if not you can explain it to her.  

Once you know her strongest forms of receiving affection, then simply start showing affection the way she wants. But make sure not to overdo it too soon.

Women should earn your affection.

Final Thoughts

Remember, if you can create a story for her, get her to start imagining a future with you, make fun memories, spark romantic feelings, and show affection the way she wants, feelings of love will be right around the corner.

So, to help you out, Matt created a free conversation cheat sheet. where he breaks down exactly what to say after “Hello” to make her want you.

You get:

  • Our top conversation starters for any situation…
  • Simple techniques to never run out of things to say and create emotion…
  • A list of  games to play that create fun-flirty memories
  • And simple ways to escalate the interaction.
  • And more

Download it now because you’ll want to keep this handy.

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7 Clothing Hacks For Men

Look, your style is important because it leaves a lasting impression on everyone you meet.

And in today’s video, we’re discussing 7 clothing hacks to combat everyday style problems.

Broken zipper? Shrunken clothes? Busted Iron? We’ll tackle the most common fashion and style problems, and provide you with quick fixes that will save you time, effort, and money!

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7 Clothing Hacks for Men

How to fix a stuck zipper?

Sometimes a zipper gets stuck, it happens.. — usually at the worst time like right before that big presentation, or when you’re getting ready for a date, and your zipper decides “eh I’m not gonna work today.” Well a quick and easy fix that I have discovered is that if you rub the teeth of the zipper with the led of a pencil, the graphite acts as a makeshift lubricant, and your zipper will work just fine!

How to wash denim?

To wash jeans without shrinking them, set your washing machine on the gentle or delicate cycle and fill the load with cold water. Then, turn your jeans inside out to avoid damaging the other clothing. And also, if you notice people refusing to stand downwind of you, stick your jeans in the freezer to kill smelly bacteria. Then wash them inside out.

How to tell if jeans fit without trying them on?

Have you ever had to stand in line for a changing room, or you couldn’t even find the changing room? No worries. One simple way to tell if your newfound favorite pair of pants will fit is to use the length of your forearm. The length of an arm from your fist to the elbow roughly correlates to your waist size (for the bigger guys, flatten out your fingers and add a fist). Ensure the button and fly are zipped and buttoned all the way and if your arm slides in comfortably, so should your tush. Try this with an existing pair of pants if you’re still skeptical – clown pants not applicable.

How to make a basic T-shirt stylish?

I see too many guys just wearing basic t-shirts out and about especially now that it’s summertime, one way to enhance the look of your t-shirt is to roll up the sleeves twice, this will show more of your tricep and bicep and make you look more muscular. This is a quick and easy way to show off your physique and your fashion sense!

How to take care of your belt?

Belts may look tough, but they need love too. Hang your belt vertically and away from direct light. (Coiling it can crack the leather; sunlight fades it over time.) The right sized belt has a few inches of leather to the left of the buckle after fastening — enough to reach the first belt loop, but no more. Err on the side of shorter.

How to take care of T-shirt shrinkage?

If you find that your t-shirt shrank in the wash, soak it in a bath of hot water and hair conditioner for five minutes, then stretch it back. Afterwards, let it hang dry and voila, your shirt is back to its original size!

Too lazy to iron?

If you hate ironing or always forget last minute to iron in the middle of doing other things, here is a quick 5-minute fix. Throw your shirt or pants in the dryer with a damp washcloth and let it run for 5 minutes or so. The steam from the wet washcloth will relax the shirt’s fibers and release the wrinkles. When the cycle is finished, take it out of the dryer immediately. Lay the shirt out flat, smooth it out with your hands, and hang it up. This should take care of most, if not all, of those stubborn wrinkles. If you don’t have a dryer, then turn on a hot shower and hang your shirt up in the bathroom for about 5-7 minutes and the steam from the shower should relieve some of the wrinkles.

Well guys that is it for this week’s Fashion Tips, don’t forget to like and subscribe to the channel and click that little bell for notifications about our new videos. Until next time, it was good to have you! Oh, and remember – if you look good, you feel better!