Men haven’t actually been taught how to talk to girls.. Sure, you think you’ve learned the formal way to talk to girls (being a gentleman who knows what to say to her and what not). But do you understand how to carry a conversation WHILE knowing how to get a girl to like you?
HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS | What to Say to Her
Almost every email and request I get involves a question related to how get a girl to like you, how to get a girlfriend, how to make a girl want you, and how to get a girl turned on.. Despite having literally multiple things to work on in order to answer these – I’ve found one thing that helps as a great first start: Conversation skills.

Most dating advice centers around how to converse with girls and how to flirt. You’re thinking.. “Well talking involves so much preparation and memorization and adjusting and…” – STOP. Don’t overthink it now! If you’ve been with us for a while, you know that our channel (and blog if you’re reading this) focuses a lot on how to approach a girl and how to be confident. Having memorized thousands of one-liners or pickup lines or banter doesn’t matter. Because that will end up with you faking your interaction.
As the head coach and president of The Attractive Man team, I’ll show you how to talk to girls the RIGHT WAY while being HONEST, AUTHENTIC, and NATURAL. (This means no more memorizing fake lines or routines!)
In this video, you’ll learn: -how to talk to girls the right way -how to attract women even if you’re an introvert -how to be charismatic and confident with your conversation -how to talk to women without being creepy -how to approach girls and talk to them while being yourself -how to turn a girl on without being a jerk -how to talk to girls and make them like you without any manipulation, AND many more!
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Focus on being genuine and authentic. Start with simple observations, compliments, or questions about your shared environment. Avoid overthinking or memorizing pickup lines; honesty and natural curiosity work best.
No. Memorizing lines often comes across as fake. The key is to be yourself, listen actively, and respond naturally. Authenticity builds attraction far better than rehearsed routines.
Introverts can attract women by focusing on confidence, active listening, and meaningful conversation. Engage with topics you’re passionate about and show genuine interest in her thoughts and feelings.
Respect boundaries, maintain comfortable eye contact, and avoid aggressive or overly sexual remarks. Keep the conversation light and playful while reading her reactions to ensure she feels safe and valued.
Focus on building emotional and intellectual connection first. Playful teasing, subtle compliments, and showing confidence while listening attentively can create attraction naturally. Avoid manipulative tactics; respect and authenticity are more effective.