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Turn Ons For Women – This Phrase Made Her RIP MY CLOTHES OFF..

What are some of the best turn ons for women? I’m going to share a 5 word phrase I said, that turned a girl on so much that it made her want to rip my clothes off then and there!

I’ll also reveal the psychology behind why this worked. AND teach you how you can use this as a great way to turn a girl on. She’ll be begging for you to take her to bed with you:

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TURN ONS FOR WOMEN
This Phrase Made Her Want To Rip My Clothes Off!

What comes out of your mouth when you talk is powerful.

The different ways to turn a girl on aren’t that hard to master once you understand how it works. Your words alone can already arouse and excite her if you know how to use them right. AND if you know WHEN to say them. You too, can make her rip your clothes off by knowing exactly the things to say to a girl to turn her on.

In the video, I share ways and words that are turn ons for girls. Actions, behaviors and traits of men who women absolutely adore. Plus the words that are turn ons for women. These actually turn a woman on psychologically, emotionally, mentally, and even physically.. but is only as effective as the way you say it, the way you do it, as well as the timing.


Watch the video and carefully take note of what I have to share about the principles of attraction; the reasons why some men attract the women they want effortlessly, and naturally.

We’ve got more weekly content coming out all about how to turn a woman on with conversations, how to turn a woman on with touching, as well as motivation and exercise videos designed to help you become the confident, mature, powerful man that deserves to be with an amazing woman that won’t manipulate or leave you!

More videos about how to turn a girl on here:
How To Turn Her On Through Text | Texts That Turn A Girl On
5 Ways To Turn A Girl On Instantly | Best Turn Ons for Women
DON’T Do These 7 Turn offs, these destroy your chances of Attracting Women

A woman wants to be turned on. Don’t tell yourself you can’t do it, because with our years of experience and coaching, we KNOW that most men lose the battle even before it is fought.

Majority of guys approach and interact with women with an “I’ve already lost” mentality. Truth is, women know that. SO my last words of advice for this time is – NEVER, ever, beat yourself up by doubting yourself. The hardest battles fought, and the ones most satisfying to win, are mostly internal.

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That’s all for now, man.

Cheers,
Matt

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6 EASY Ways to NEVER Run Out of Things to Say

In today’s video blog, I share my 6 easy ways to keep the conversation going and never run out of things to say. I’ll show you the things to talk about with a woman to keep her interested and engaged. Stuff that can even turn her on while you talk to her! Plus of course, some of the basic things to avoid that stop conversations:

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KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING and NEVER RUN OUT OF THINGS TO SAY

Guys keep asking us about the things to talk about on a date.. they always seem to run out of stuff, and why is that? “How to keep the conversation going with a girl, Matt?” “What to talk about on a first date with a woman, Matt?” “How to never run out of things to say to a girl, Matt?”

Men, the key to mastering how to never run out of things to say to a woman and finding the right conversation topics does NOT involve memorizing tons of lines or perfoming a variety of fake and cheesy routines. This video will explain that. You have to have things you are passionate about, things you experience. You have to know what you want, and have goals you are pursuing. You literally have to have a life outside of trying to impress her – don’t simp, man!


Also, like what we always say on our how to talk to women videos, what you say is only effective if you also know how to say it. This comes both internally, based on your confidence and self esteem, where your demeanor and tonality are crucial; and externally..having the right words to say to her.

So if you haven’t yet, make sure you WATCH the ENTIRE thing. Because not only are there demonstrations and word for word examples, there are also lessons on how and why these things work:

More videos about how to talk to a girl:
1.) How to Make Your Move
2.) How to Never Run Out Of Things To Say On A Date
3.) What to say to women (5 Needy Things You Need To Stop Doing)
4.) How to Escalate and Turn Her On in your Conversations

Thats it for now, man! Hope you found the video helpful. Talking to a girl you like sure can be tough, especially if its the first time you’re doing it. Remember to build your confidence everyday, and learn from experience and application, not just watching videos or reading things off the internet!

Cheers,
Matt

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Dating Coaches React To 90 Day Fiance – Ed and Rose

We’ve got a special episode today.. our Dating Coaches React to 90 Day Fiance – Ed and Rose!

Lynn shows Kal 90 Day Fiance, Big Ed and Rose meeting in person for the first time. Watch his reaction and the team’s tips on why they agree/disagree with what Bid Ed and Rose are doing:

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DATING COACHES REACT:
90 Day Fiance – Ed and Rose

In The Attractive Man team, our coaches react to a variety of videos, and today we want to cover the ever so popular 90 Day Fiance. What better way to start our ‘coaches reacts to 90 day fiance videos’ than with Big Ed and Rose!

Well, big Ed is what he likes to call himself, but the internet has actually named him no neck Ed.. why is that, you ask? Check the video out an you’ll know right away.

This particular couple from TLC’s 90 day fiance, before the 90 days, is an American citizen – Edward Allen Brown, and his Filipina girlfriend Rosemarie Vega. 90 day fiance’s Ed and Rose shot up in popularity simply because of how viral their interactions were on the 90 day fiance tv show.

An American finally meeting with his Girlfriend from the Philippines? Add an age gap.. How would you think that would play out?

While Ed and Rosemarie could have been a happy power couple, when you look at what happened before the 90 days, Ed and Rose cleary had some huge problems to face. Whether it was Ed’s or Rose’s fault, that is up to you to decide – but our coaches and dating experts Lynn and Kal, will have to watch them and explain to you their thoughts on why this couple tandem won’t work!

More videos here:
Reactions to Johnny Depp
Reactions to Bagel Guy
Reactions to Ryan Gosling

If you want to learn more on how to date women, and if you want dating advice for men, make sure to check out our other videos on the channel.

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Listen to the podcast on Spotify or iTunes/Apple Podcasts! We’re coming up with more “dating coaches react to 90 day fiance” and other reaction videos on the channel and on our podcasts!

That’s all for now, man! See you on our next post.
Hope you had some valuable insights.

Cheers,
Matt

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What To Do On A First Date – 7 Mistakes You Need To Avoid

Todays examples cover what to do on a first date, and what to avoid doing when you’re with her. Have you ever been on a date with a girl and it just went horribly wrong or worse, It went really well, but then she never called you again?

Or.. she told you there was no connection. That flat out sucks.

Chances are you made one of the seven mistakes that I’m about to talk about. When you stop making these mistakes, not only will you have a lot more successful dates, but she’ll also feel a deeper connection with you.

She’ll be more attracted to you and you’ll be more likely to get a second or third date.. And it will make things, romantic and intimate a whole lot faster:

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WHAT TO DO ON A FIRST DATE
7 Mistakes You Need To Avoid

Restaurant/Dinner Dates Or Movie Dates Are NOT Impressive Anymore

A lot of guys set up dates that are just way too formal. They take them to really expensive restaurants trying to impress them. But the reality is that it actually has the opposite effect, because think about it. Anybody can take her to a fancy restaurant, but can anybody be as cool and badass as you? I don’t think so.

So impress her with your personality and by who you are as a man, not by the place that you take her. Plus taking her to dinner is just flat out boring and average. Be a little bit more creative than that.

Instead, take her to places that you enjoy places that are fun for you, because if it’s memorable, then she’ll want to go on another date with you. So in that note, movies are out! Instead take her to a fun bar or do an activity together. Whether it’s ice skating or rollerblading or laser tag.

That would actually be a pretty fun date and that’s going to be a lot more memorable, but if you’re an older guy, and that sounds a little childish, think of some other things that you could do with her. Even just going to a cool lounge and getting to know each other over drinks is totally fine. And try to find bars and lounges that have a more romantic or even seductive vibe. Where the lighting and the music is a little lower versus one like a rowdy frat club.


Dressing Sloppy

Here’s a fun story:

My dad actually got remarried two years ago and I’ve never seen him happier in his entire life. But when he showed up to that first date with the woman, who’s now his wife, he was wearing Crocs, sweat shorts and a tee shirt that was about two sizes too big. And she was immediately turned off, but luckily she’s very open minded and she gave him a chance, but some women will not be so open-minded.

You don’t want to miss out on the relationship of your dreams just because you don’t know how to dress yourself. First impressions do matter because we make a lot of assumptions about the person just by what they’re wearing, because we don’t know anything else about them at the time.

So make sure you start the date on the right foot, because you probably put in some effort to get her on a date with you. You don’t want to sabotage yourself just because you picked out the wrong outfit.

Asking Her “Where Do You Want To Go?”

The next mistake is asking her where she wants to go. You are the man. You take the lead. Don’t put all that pressure on her that she has to pick the venue. Women want a man with a plan. So have a plan, not just for where you start the day, but also where you go throughout the date and where you end up, because that’s going to show that you’re a leader and that’s highly attractive when you are taking the lead from the very beginning.

So when you’re setting up the date, don’t text her “Hey, want to hang out some time?“. Tell her where to meet you, and what time. I like to even tell her what to wear. I actually tell women to wear either a dress or a skirt and heels, because then she’s going to feel more sexy that way. That starts the date off on the right foot. And quite frankly, I want her to feel that way.

Now I know some of you feminist men out there thinking, what are you talking about? Women want to be treated equal nowadays. They should be asking me out, not going to happen, bro.

A feminine woman – Those are the kinds of women you’re probably attracted to.. want a masculine man. That means a man that knows how to take the lead. Take control, not be controlling, but can lead the interaction because if you don’t do that, then she’s going to have to step into her masculine energy and take the lead.

And that’s going to make her lose all attraction towards you because then she’s gonna see you as a feminine man.

Speaking of taking the lead throughout the date, that means going to more than one venue because one venue equals one memory with you. Imagine you’re hanging out with her for two hours in one coffee shop, and you’re talking about all these great things, but she really has just one memory of you at that coffee shop. But instead, what if within those two hours you kept moving around every 30 minutes or so that would be five different venues.

That’s five experiences and five memories. It’s more like an adventure. And of course it’s going to be a lot more memorable and she’s going to feel like she knows you better. She’s going to have a deeper connection with you because you had multiple experiences together.

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You Don’t Make A Move

The next mistake that a lot of guys make is they don’t make the move and I get it, man. I’ve been there. Everything’s going great. And you don’t want to risk anything. You don’t want her to like freak out or think you’re weird or creepy or too forward. So you end up just sitting there. Not kissing her, even though you want to.

And here’s the deal, man, most feminine women are not going to make the first move. They expect you to do it. And if things are going great and the mood is kind of set, meaning you’ve taken her to some venues that they have, you know, a little bit more intimate vibe, or maybe you’re just walking through the park or whatever, and you don’t go for the kiss. She’s likely to be disappointed. And she’s going to feel like you’re a weak man.

Like you didn’t have the balls to go for it. Who is she going to go on a second date with? The guy who had the balls to make the move or the guy who was too afraid to make the move? You think you’re playing it safe by not kissing her, but really you’re sabotaging yourself.

So as long as things are going well, and you guys obviously like each other, then I recommend somewhere in the middle or it’s the end of the date, make your move, go for the kiss. Even if it’s not the perfect moment.. try to create the moment.

One time I was on a date with this girl in Saigon, Vietnam, and the moment just never created itself. I don’t know. It was just a little awkward. She was very shy, but she came back to my place and she was sitting on the couch, but she sat really far away from me. She even put like a pillow between us. So I’m like “Well, what do I do?” It’s going to be awkward if I try to make a move on her. But I figured, Hey, it’s better to be awkward and make the move to not make the move at all. So I made the move. It.. was.. awkward.. She didn’t reciprocate right away, but now it kind of set the frame that “Okay, I want to kiss her.” So she just started kinda relaxing after a little while. And then I tried again and then she was totally into it.

It’s important to remember too, even if you make the move and she doesn’t reciprocate and kiss you back. As long as you, you remain calm, you don’t act all affected and say, Ooh, what’s wrong. Why didn’t you kiss me? I thought you liked me. Yeah. As long as you don’t do that, then she’s actually going to like you more because she sees you as a man who goes for what she wants.

Guys Don’t Initiate the Touch

There needs to be some touching along the way throughout the date. So the next mistake that most guys make is they don’t touch right away.. Now, I’m not saying be a really creepy guy and have your hands all over her and hold with her right away. That’s a little too soon, but break the touch barrier as soon as you can, which is usually when you first meet her with a hug and a kiss on the cheek.

And then I usually say, all right, let’s go. And we start walking. Arm-in-arm. That way we’re walking to the first venue. The way a couple would walk together, but it’s not too intimate too soon.

It’s not like holding hands. That would be a little too much. I usually grab her hand when we’re going from the first to the second venue or second to the third venue, especially when we’re crossing the street. I just grab her hand.

We start walking in the notice. Does she keep holding my hand? Once we get to the other side, in fact, that’s a really good sign. If she’s holding hands with you, especially if she interlocks your fingers, that’s almost always a good indicator that she wants you to kiss her. But the point is, don’t be afraid to touch her a little bit throughout the date.


Talking Too Much and Treating The Date Like an Interview

Next, probably one of the biggest mistakes that guys make on a date is talking about themselves too much. I hear women complaining about this all the time for a few reasons:

Number one, if you keep talking about yourself, she knows everything about you. You’re no longer a mystery. And if you’re not the exact category of the type of man that she wants, then she’s probably not going to go on a second date with you because there’s nothing else to figure out.

And second, it’s just kind of boring to listen to somebody that you don’t really know that well talk about themselves forever. Cause honestly, on a first date, you don’t care about the other person all that much, but guess who you do care about? Yourself, which is why you’re talking about yourself so much.

So get her to open up, get her to talk about herself. I know that’s kind of contradictory, cause I just said you don’t care about other people as much as you care about yourself, but try to really listen. Don’t think about what you’re going to say, because that puts you all up in your head and she can feel that you’re not really connecting there with her.

Instead, be present, feel your body and listen to every word she says. If you can do that, even if she’s talking and talking and talking, she’s gonna feel it with you. And she’s going to feel like you really listen and care about her. And that’s why you should also play laser tag or do fun things on the date – That way you don’t always have to be talking the entire time.

Remember the point of a date number one is to get to know each other, to see if there’s a compatibility or not.

The conversation should be fun. It shouldn’t be too serious. It should definitely not be like an interview that will bore her to death.

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Best Texts to Send a Girl You Like | 7 First Texts That Make Her Interested In You

What are the BEST texts to send a girl you like? Have you ever sent kind of a lame or boring first texts and immediately wished you could take it back?

Your first text is crucial because it sets the frame for your textual relationship. (Did you see what I did there? That nice little play on words? *sigh* Nevermind.) Look, man, most guys sent a very boring or average first text and the girl quickly loses interest. So here are my 7 BEST First Texts to Send a Girl You Like – so your first text will almost always make her excited and interested to reply to you:

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BEST TEXTS TO SEND A GIRL YOU LIKE
7 First Texts That Make Her Excited and Interested In You

NUMBER 7 – Something Naughty

Alright, number seven is something naughty. This is a really great one, but it’s all about the setup. You have to plant the seed or it’s not going to make any sense. And of course you always have to be careful sending an unsolicited sexual text message, but don’t worry..

You’re not going to be sending her a naked selfie of yourself. Please don’t do that as the first text, that would probably not work very well. So it goes like this:

You get her phone number, you’ll save it in your phone. And then you say something like, “Okay, you know what? I’m going to text you something naughty.” The reason I like this is because you’ll see her reaction. It’s either going to be something like, “Ooh, okay. I like that. Yes. Send me something naughty.” Or it’s going to be a, “That’s a little weird..” Either way. It’s going to give you an idea of how naughty she is now with this one, you can’t wait too long to send her the something naughty texts. You should do it in about 10 or 15 minutes. While the idea of you texting her something naughty is still on her mind. And you simply just text her the word something and the word naughty with a smiley face or a winky face emoji.

Do you get it? She thought you were going to text her, actually something naughty like a naked picture or who knows what she’s thinking. And instead you just texted the words, something naughty I’ve even had girls reply with. “I wish you would have sent something a lot more naughty than that.” Again, it’s a good way to find out how naughty she is.

NUMBER 6 – Callback Humor

Number six is using callback humor. If you meet her at a bar or club, it should be a fun, playful interaction. It shouldn’t be super serious. Therefore, there should have been some things that you laughed or joked about. All you need to do now is just text her something that relates back to that funny thing that you guys joked about.

For example, maybe you and her role play that you were going to get married in Vegas and find the fattest Elvis impersonator you could find or something like that.

Then you could either keep going with that marriage role play as your first text, or you could even send a divorce roleplay as your first text. Like:

Hey wifey, I’ve been thinking, and I don’t know if it’s working out between us. I think we should get a divorce, make sure to use an LOL or a smiley winky face or some kind of emoji. So she knows you’re just kidding. It’s all part of the roleplay.

Here’s another example. This is from my book, Turn Her On Through Text. Let’s say you met a girl from England and she happens to be a nanny. So naturally you gave her the nickname, Mary Poppins, and you teased her all night long about it. Then of course, the next day you would text her something like, “Hey, Mary Poppins, don’t forget to give your kids their spoonful of sugar today.”

So just notice how these texts are more playful and fun because most guys send really lame, boring texts, which makes the woman assume that he’s lame and boring.. And then they go on a date with him. It’s just going to suck. Versus you who sending her a few fun and playful texts here and there.. now not ALL the time, but she’s at least going to assume that going on a date with you is probably going to be fun and playful, and she’ll be more likely to say yes to you.


NUMBER 5 – Cheeky Texts

Number five, cheeky texts. These are just some more fun playful, one liner, copy paste, kind of texts, the messages that use a play on words, for example: “Hey, crazy pants too soon for casual texts or are you textually active?”

Actually, I’m not super crazy about that one. I would probably send that as a second text. If she didn’t reply to my first text, I’d wait a day or two and then send her, are you textually active?

A better one is: “Hey, it’s Matt. Guard this number with your life.” which is sounds confident and presupposes that your number is important, A.K.A. YOU are very important.

NUMBER 4 – Endless Options Text

Number four is the endless options text. This one works great when you met a woman online on Tinder, Bumble hinge, whatever app there is nowadays, and you don’t want to seem like you’re taking online dating seriously.

Because if you do, it presupposes that you have no other options in real life because mobile dating apps, for sure, to beautiful woman, it’s kind of like just a game. She’s not taking it seriously. She goes on at once in a while just to see if there’s any options out there, but she’s probably not expecting too much.

And you should have that same mindset. It really shouldn’t be your number one source for meeting women.

The text is very simple. It’s just: “Hey, it’s Matt..” or whatever your name is, then “..from the thing“, which is just kind of a playful way of saying “Hey, it’s Matt from Tinder” or “Hey, it’s Matt from Bumble” but it just shows you that you’re not taking online dating so seriously because you can’t even remember the name of the app.

NUMBER 3 – Cliffhanger Texts

Number three is the cliffhanger texts. This one is really great for getting a reply back. In fact, I normally reserve it for sending it to a girl who hasn’t text back in a couple of days or numbers that have gone cold because it works so well for getting a reply.

It’s basically just sending her an incomplete sentence. It’s where she wants to know what you’re going to say next. For example, let’s say earlier today you met a cutie down by the pier. You could text her “Hey, it’s Matt. I think you have a confession to make…” So notice the cliffhanger there. She’s going to be really interested and eager to know what her confession is.

And then you can say something like “I think you have a huge crush on a man you met earlier down by the pier.” Notice how that’s a little cocky, but it shows confidence. Plus you’re doing it in a fun flirty way.

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NUMBER 2 – Sniper Text

Number two is the sniper texts. You should be doing this every time you get a woman’s phone number. Just like the “Something naughty” texts, it’s all about the setup.

Instead of you asking for her the phone number, you have to give her your number. So just say “Here, let me see your phone. I’m going to give you my number.” And then you take her phone. You can save your number in it if you want.

But the key to send yourself a text from her number that says, “Hey, you are so hot” – signed her name. And then about 10 or 15 minutes later, text or something like, “Aw, thanks. You’re not too bad yourself.” Trust me, man. This one works so well. That always get texts back. Cause it’s just so damn funny and they’re not expecting it.

NUMBER 1 – Recall Her Reaction

Number one is just recall her reaction. I put this at number one because it’s the one I use the most because it’s not so gimmicky. Like some of the others, it’s more of normal and natural.

It’s kind of like callback humor, but you’re not necessarily recalling back anything funny that you joked about because if you met her during the day, it might not have been such a playful interaction as it would be at a bar or club.

So instead of doing what everybody else does and say “Hey, nice meeting you!” STOP using the word “Nice.” It’s so overused. Instead say “So random meeting you” or “So unexpected meeting you” or “So fun meeting you” and then just recall her reaction. Did she seem really startled when you approached her? If so, say “It was cute how nervous you were when I said hi.” or “It was funny how shy you were when I said hi.” or if she seemed really friendly and flirty right away, then say that “You always flirt with cute guys at the mall?” or simply “Are you always so friendly to guys that you meet?” It’s simple, it’s intriguing. And if you made a great impression, when you first met her, she will text you back.

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If you didn’t make a great impression and you’re not getting a lot of replies back from your first text, then it’s probably not the first text that’s the issue. It’s the initial interaction.

You’re being way too friendly and platonic.

And so she feels like she wants to reciprocate by giving you her phone number, but she doesn’t feel any romantic feelings towards you. So if you want to master that, if you want to learn how to spark sensual attraction immediately and get her feeling desire from the moment that you say hi, then make sure to check out our live workshop schedule because we have workshops all over the world. And we also have online virtual mentorship programs where we still work with you one on one and help you get this part of your life handled for good.

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Matt