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6 EASY Ways to NEVER Run Out of Things to Say

In today’s video blog, I share my 6 easy ways to keep the conversation going and never run out of things to say. I’ll show you the things to talk about with a woman to keep her interested and engaged. Stuff that can even turn her on while you talk to her! Plus of course, some of the basic things to avoid that stop conversations:

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KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING and NEVER RUN OUT OF THINGS TO SAY

Guys keep asking us about the things to talk about on a date.. they always seem to run out of stuff, and why is that? “How to keep the conversation going with a girl, Matt?” “What to talk about on a first date with a woman, Matt?” “How to never run out of things to say to a girl, Matt?”

Men, the key to mastering how to never run out of things to say to a woman and finding the right conversation topics does NOT involve memorizing tons of lines or perfoming a variety of fake and cheesy routines. This video will explain that. You have to have things you are passionate about, things you experience. You have to know what you want, and have goals you are pursuing. You literally have to have a life outside of trying to impress her – don’t simp, man!


Also, like what we always say on our how to talk to women videos, what you say is only effective if you also know how to say it. This comes both internally, based on your confidence and self esteem, where your demeanor and tonality are crucial; and externally..having the right words to say to her.

So if you haven’t yet, make sure you WATCH the ENTIRE thing. Because not only are there demonstrations and word for word examples, there are also lessons on how and why these things work:

More videos about how to talk to a girl:
1.) How to Make Your Move
2.) How to Never Run Out Of Things To Say On A Date
3.) What to say to women (5 Needy Things You Need To Stop Doing)
4.) How to Escalate and Turn Her On in your Conversations

Thats it for now, man! Hope you found the video helpful. Talking to a girl you like sure can be tough, especially if its the first time you’re doing it. Remember to build your confidence everyday, and learn from experience and application, not just watching videos or reading things off the internet!

Cheers,
Matt

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How to Not be Boring (Especially During a Date)

Now’s the perfect time to learn how to not be boring (especially to a girl you like!). So don’t be the Boring Guy that gets Friend Zoned! Our top coaches show you how to stop being boring and how to carry the conversation with interest and charisma.

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HOW TO NOT BE BORING
Be Interesting Especially to a Girl YOU Like!

Are you the type of guy who goes out to the bar and you start a conversation with a girl it seems like it’s going really well but then she turned her back and leaves? Doesn’t talk to you for the rest the night? Well you know what? We’re gonna help you!

In this video we’re gonna teach you how to stop being so boring. Our top coaches from The Attractive Man Team are here to talk about why guys sometimes bore the sh*&t out of women and how you (a guy that’s watching our videos and reading our blog) can avoid making that mistake.

Listen to Matt, Josiah, Jules and David talk about their experiences with coaching men and what best to do to keep the conversation going, and how to never run out of things to say.

How do you stop being boring? How do you keep things interesting? How to be more interesting to women? Sometimes the key to not be boring lies in a mans ability to be comfortable with his emotions and his stories.

Matt talks about conversation flows, Josiah and Jules about being in the moment and making funny banter, and David about just not caring too much what others think because that creates mental barriers that are unecessary to begin with!

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How To Keep The Conversation Going

Have you ever sparked a conversation with a girl only to have it fizzle out? Want to know how to keep the conversation going?

You get it going, but then you’re not sure what to say next. Then there’s that dreaded awkward pause that lingers in the air making every second feel like an eternity.


So what do you do? Maybe you asked a question. And then another question. And then another. As you keep going, you know you should stop, yet you don’t know what else to say… So you just keep asking question after question.

That’s when the girl says, “I have to meet up with my friends” or any number of excuses to escape.

Last week I found myself in a similar situation. The first few approaches are always the hardest to get out of the way. Going from working all week to being a sociable fun guy takes me a few approaches.

My best advice is to treat the first 3 approaches when going out as throwaways. They don’t count. Your goal is to get them done as soon as possible.

Secondly, you want to build momentum in-between approaches by asking yourself, what do I want to focus on in my next approach?”

When I found myself awkwardly standing there with nothing to say, my focus for the next approach was to “keep the conversation going.”

For this week’s tip, I thought it would be useful to share some ideas that will take you beyond how to approach a girl. And that’s how to keep the conversation going and never run out of things to say.

The Two Tips are:

(1) Multiple Threads

(2) Conversational Hooks

“Multiple threads” is when you have multiple conversational topics (threads) going on at once. This is better than moving linearly from one topic to the next. This is one of the best ways to never run out of things to say.

We naturally do this with our friends. We don’t just stay on one topic all the way to exhaustion. The conversation usually switches between different subjects.

For example, say you meet a girl who has a dog and say, “I love dogs, what type is it?” A linear conversation would be sticking to the subject of “her dog.” Which, would look like this: “I love dogs, what type is it?…..Where did you get it from?…..How long have you had it?…..What’s his name?”

You can see how sticking to the same topic quickly gets boring.

“Multiple threads” is the idea of introducing new subjects to the conversation. Building off our example, it would look like this: “I love dogs, what type is it?….My family actually has two dogs. One for my sister and one for my dad. You look like the type of girl who’s the youngest sibling….You know what I just noticed, you look like the adventurous type. Are you?

In the second example, I introduced new topics such as family and if she’s adventurous.

When you introduce topics, you can either build off something she said or just change subjects.

“Conversational hooks” are what help you introduce new conversational topics. It supplements our first tip to help you never run out of things to say.

Hooks are something a girl says that you can comment, ask about, relate to or share a story on. Listen for “keywords” to come up with new hooks.

These “keywords” aren’t necessarily the most important words she said. They are words you can use to introduce new conversation topics.

Essentially, you are using conversational hooks (keywords) to start multiple threads (topics/subjects).

These ideas will help you transition into deeper conversations, never run out of things to say and make the conversation more interesting for both of you.

Here’s an example that explains both ideas:

Imagine you’re telling me about your recent trip through Europe. You say, “My favorite country was Italy because of the amazing food, the romantic ambiance and the beautiful cafes on every street corner.

While I’m actively listening, I’m paying attention to any “keywords” that I can build off of and introduce new topics (threads).

In this example, I can ask a question on “What were some of your favorite dishes?” I can comment on how it was the Italian coffee bars that inspired the CEO of Starbucks to make it what it is today. I can relate by sharing my experiences traveling through Italy. I can also share a story of my recent trip through Europe.

Most guys get ahead of themselves. They make the mistake of thinking about what they are going to say next opposed to listening to what the other person said.


 

If you really are listening, the other person usually gives you everything you need to keep the conversation going.

In the example above, there are many “keywords” I could’ve used to start a new “subject.

That one sentence alone, the “keywords” are Europe, traveling, favorite countries, Italy, food, romance, and cafes. You could use anyone to keep the conversation going.

Now, back to the idea of using multiple “threads.” (See what I did there? I’m revisiting a previous conversation topic)

One thread is how Italy was your favorite country while traveling through Europe.

If I use “traveling” as a “keyword,” I could share a story of my recent travels through Europe. Doing so, I introduce another topic. That way I will never run out of things to say!

I could share how I recently did a cruise through France, Italy, and Spain and by far my favorite city was Barcelona.

What are some “keywords” you could use to keep the conversation going?

Some ideas to talk about are traveling, Europe, France, Italy, Spain, favorite cities, Barcelona, beaches, and cities. All these ideas can be used to start another topic.

So far we have two conversational topics: your trip through Europe and my trip through Europe.

Once we continue to talk about Barcelona and I start running out of things to say, I can easily jump back to our first “topic” about your travel through Europe and say “What other countries did you visit on your trip?

When you’re paying attention to keywords, whenever the convo starts to die you can easily start a new topic.

If you remember from our first example of you traveling through Europe, the potential keywords are Europe, traveling, favorite countries, Italy, food, romance, and cafes.

Whenever the convo starts to slow down, I can make a comment, ask a question, relate to or share a story based off any one of those hooks. I can keep the conversation going, and will never run out of things to say.

Here’s another example before you go:

Imagine I tell you, “Last weekend I met up with a good friend from high school that flew into NYC from San Diego. I had a great time showing her around the city.”

What are some “keywords” that can give you ideas on how to keep the conversation going?

You can ask, comment, relate to or share a story about: Old friends, high school friends, flying, traveling, NYC, San Diego, California, East Coast, West Coast, what did we do, and exploring a new city. You have so many things to talk about; you can never run out of things to say.

You could ask, “What did you two do in the city?” You could comment on how great it is that I still stay in touch with an old high school friend. You could relate to how an old friend showed you around a new city and how much more fun that experience was. You could share a story about the last time you were in California and how much you loved it.

If you are actively listening, you’ll find it’s easier than you think to keep the conversation going. And you’ll never run out things to say anymore!

Remember, DON’T think of what to say next… just listen and pay attention to any “keywords” you could use to add a new “topic.

Your Weekend Mission (If you choose to accept)

  1. Beginners: Make 3 approaches with the focus of keeping the conversation going through the use of multiple threads and listening for hooks. Aim to make the next approach longer than the one before.  
  2. Advanced: Same as beginners but 5 approaches. They only count if you can make the conversation longer than 5 minutes.

Alright, guys, there’s the tip of the week!

Be sure to go out there and start implementing it RIGHT AWAY. Success loves the speed of implementation.


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How To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say On A Date

Discover how to never run out of things to say during a date!

And that’s with a girl you REALLY like…

Did you ever just run out of things to say? The awkward silence is unbearable… and it definitely doesn’t help your chances of making her like you. But that’s okay because there’s an EASY way to make sure that never happens again…


In this video, Matt Artisan reveals one fail-proof technique to never running out of things to say on a date – so you never have to experience awkward silence again.

I’m going to give you one of my favorite techniques to use on a date. I use this on all of my dates because it’s a fun way to create a connection with her and also leads into a more romantic vibe.

The technique that I like to use to always keep the conversation going is The Questions Game.

At any point in the date just say, “hey let’s play a game it’s called the questions game. it’s a fun way to get to know each other. It’s kind of like truth or dare but without the dare.”

Now let me explain the Rules…

Rule #1: You can’t ask the same question that’s already been asked. So no repeat questions.

Rule #2: The questions have to be good. No lame questions like what’s your favorite color or what’s your dog’s name. Keep it interesting, topics such as relationships, sex, digging up dirt, secrets, are all fair game.

Rule # 3: She goes first. This is fun because it puts some pressure on the girl. It also let’s you know where her head is at. If she asks a sexual question right away then you might want to cut the game short and high tail it back to your place.

But generally speaking you want to start off with…

Interesting Questions to Get To Know Each Other.

“If we could go anywhere in the world right now where would we go?”

“If you could have any superpower what would it be and why?”

“What’s your biggest fear?”

“What is something you are really proud of?”

“Tell me an embarrassing moment”

Then after a while start transitioning into

Relationship Questions

“What kind of relationship are you looking for right now?”
“Have you ever had a one night stand?”

“What qualities do you like in a man?”

“Would you rather have a man that is an amazing lover or has lots of money? why?”

“What is your craziest or worst first date you ever had?”

And then Relationship questions flow right into

Sexual Questions

“What’s your favorite position?”
“What’s the craziest place you’ve ever had sex?”

“Have you ever been with a girl?”

“When was the last time you had sex?”

“How many partners have you had”

It’s a game people so anything is fair game. She can’t get mad that you asked a really sexual question because it’s just a game!

Remember that any of her answers can turn into a full-fledged conversation, just say something like “wow you have to tell me that story.” And then just go into normal conversation and storytelling.

So the great thing is that you can always go back to the question game when you can’t think of anything to say. When the conversations dies down and there’s an awkward silence just say, “hmm who’s turn was it”? And then bam you are right back into the game again.

So there you have it. This game is awesome so Try this out on your next date or even the next time you meet a girl and leave a comment down below and tell me how it works for you.

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