If you’ve ever been single, you’ve probably fantasized about hopping on a plane, flying to a faraway country, and dating an exotic beauty like the guys from Road to El Dorado. That should not be a kid’s movie.
I’ve spent the last decade traveling the world and dating women in over 70 countries. Some places are amazing for casual fun or sincere romance. Others will have you ending up in jail for even trying.
So which are the worst countries to be single and looking for women, and which are the three best? What makes one country better than another? Let’s break it down. Make sure to watch until the end because I have a special gift to help your love life reach new heights. And subscribe so you don’t miss any upcoming videos to help you land the woman of your dreams.
No. 10 Worst Country to Date: India
India is an insanely beautiful and interesting country, and the women are no different. But if you are an Indian guy, it is pretty hard to land a date. Over the last 10 years I have taught eight bootcamps in India and across the board guys struggle with one thing. Women are super cautious of meeting new men in public.
If a normal Indian guy approaches a woman with the best intentions, her guard goes up. She might think he is a creep, even if he is not. The reason is India has a very bad track record for attacking and assaulting women, so women understandably do not feel very safe. That makes it harder for decent local guys who are trying to meet someone.
If you are not Indian, a woman’s guard is usually not as high, so it is not nearly as hard. I remember one bootcamp in Mumbai where a girl got approached multiple times and threatened to tell security. When we explained it was a confidence workshop with a coach from the US, she got intrigued and wanted to meet. Unfortunately it was monsoon season and flooding canceled plans, but we have seen good results from Indian students who follow the method.
No. 9 Worst Country to Date: France, Especially Paris
This may surprise people, but I was not impressed by Paris as a single straight guy. The sites are incredible, but I was not motivated to approach. Many women there wear loose, baggy clothing that did not appeal to my tastes. Men dress very fashionably, so if you need visual motivation to approach, Paris was lacking for me. A similar thing happened in New Zealand. Great scenery, but I only made one approach in Auckland and one in Christchurch, both times to women from Eastern Europe.
No. 8 Worst Country to Date: Qatar
Qatar has one of the highest male to female ratios on the planet, roughly 300 men for every 100 women, so competition is intense. Women can be receptive to approaches, but many local men strongly dislike foreign men approaching women. I made a video approaching Qatar women in Doha and the backlash was severe. If local guys react violently to approaches, that makes the country a risky place to try to meet women. This dynamic applies broadly across parts of the Middle East.
No. 7 Worst Country to Date: Argentina
I had some amazing experiences in Argentina, but many traveling guys report that Argentine women can be colder and less receptive compared to the rest of Latin America. Travelers say it is harder to vibe with women there, so in comparison to other Latin American countries, Argentina can feel like an uphill battle.
No. 6 Worst Country to Date: Indonesia
Indonesia is a mixed bag. It is a great country to travel in, with beautiful beaches, mountains, and affordable living, but dating depends heavily on where a woman is from. Urban women in Jakarta or Bali behave like women anywhere else. Women from more traditional areas may have very conservative norms and expect a long courtship, such as numerous dates before a kiss. If you want a simpler cultural match, consider the Philippines instead.
No. 5 Worst Country to Date: Germany
Germany is a wonderful country in many ways, but the dating vibe can be analytical, serious, and somewhat reserved. That means it can feel less passionate compared to Latin America. This is a generalization, of course, but as a traveling single guy, you might find better luck in countries like Ukraine, Romania, or Croatia.
No. 4 Worst Country to Date: China
China faces a severe gender imbalance, and by 2030 it is estimated there will be millions more single men than women. That drives intense competition and a dating scene where parents are heavily involved. Men sometimes use expensive gifts to gain favor, and the power dynamic can be skewed. If you visit China, avoid Beijing and try Shanghai, which has more international women and nightlife that can be more favorable.
No. 3 Worst Country to Date: Israel
Israel is intense. Half the country feels like a conflict zone with soldiers carrying weapons in public, and that atmosphere can make social interactions tougher. Many women there come across as tougher and less approachable, perhaps influenced by mandatory military service. My team’s trainers found approaches in clubs very difficult, so Israel is on the tougher side for meeting women casually.
No. 2 Worst Country to Date: Bhutan
Bhutan has a tradition called night hunting, where men sneak into women’s houses at night to try to hook up. If caught, the consequences can be extreme, from parental punishment to forced marriage. The custom is risky and not something most travelers should engage with. For obvious reasons, Bhutan ranks near the top of the worst places to try casual dating.
No. 1 Worst Country to Date: Iran
Iran is the most difficult place in the world to date casually because state law and social norms heavily restrict dating. Iran is effectively a religious dictatorship where casual romantic interactions can result in severe legal trouble. Dating requires secrecy, alibis, and constant risk. Persian women may be incredibly beautiful, but the dangers are real and serious, so Iran tops the worst list.
Best Countries for Dating: Third Place Tie – Croatia and Australia
For the best countries, this is almost a dead heat between Croatia and Australia.
Croatia offers beautiful islands, great food, affordable travel, and cities where women are feminine, well dressed, and open to foreigners. It is one of the top European choices for dating.
Australia is a rare Western country where men from all backgrounds do very well. Women are free spirited, tanned, in shape, dress well, and are up for fun. Sydney can be more money oriented, but overall Australia is excellent for meeting attractive English speaking women, especially surfer types.
No. 2 Best Country to Date: Colombia
Colombia is an incredible country for dating. Colombians are friendly, passionate, and the women are among the most beautiful Latinas. Salsa culture and nightlife make it easy to meet and get close to a woman. Colombian women expect confidence, and if you bring it, you will be rewarded. Passion in relationships there can be intense, for better and for worse.
No. 1 Best Country to Date: Brazil
Brazil tops the list. Brazilian people are open, friendly, fun, and highly sexualized in culturally accepted ways. Women are comfortable being approached and expect men to be confident and sexually assertive. Carnival and nightlife amplify opportunities to meet people. Many Brazilians live with family, so short term motels are common and socially normal. Brazil combines openness, beauty, sexuality, and approachability better than anywhere else I have traveled.
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