5 biggest myths about women

5 BIGGEST Myths About Women

What are the 5 biggest myths about women, you ask?

If you think you have us all figured out, then you are wrong! But the good news is, what I am about to tell you will go against everything that you thought you knew about women!


I’m Renee Slansky for The Attractive Man and in this video I’m going to BUST 5 myths about women that you thought were true! And trust me guys, you are going to be happy about the answers…

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5 BIGGEST MYTHS ABOUT WOMEN…. BUSTED!

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I noticed that there were 5 major things that you guys seem to get confused and frustrated with when it comes to us ladies. So, it’s time to set the record straight and do my own version of myth busters!  Oh, and number 1 is a big myth that has to stop so make sure you watch this whole video!

5) We only want men with money

I will admit there are a lot of women out there who do prey on men for money, because they are either lazy, fearful of being broke or just down right gold diggers.  As a coach, but more than anything as a woman, this comment frustrated the hell out of me and I hear it more often than I should.

Here’s the thing. The right woman appreciates a man who can provide financially, because it helps provide her with security of the future , but it doesn’t mean she wants to count your pennies , because she will also be a woman who wants to  contribute as well!

We are women and biologically and scientifically speaking we yearn to nest and be protected by men. This doesn’t mean we want to bleed you dry or only marry you for your wallet. And if you are only experiencing women like that then the issue is that you can’t identify the right women from the wrong women and need to attend one of our bootcamps.

A man should, to some degree, want to look after his partner and children, not by having to work his ass off while she does nothing, but because it’s an act of love to help protect and provide for the family. And, the right woman will recognise that you are man of high value and will also be wanting to contribute in whatever way she can.


4) We only want to date tall, good looking men

Alright, I will confess I am attracted to a tall man, but I have dated shorter men because any woman who has the right intentions will get to a point to where they realise a real man isn’t made up only by his height.

Let’s first clarify tall. Most women see short as any man under 6ft, which is ridiculous I agree, especially when the global average height of men is 5ft 9 inches.

But let’s put things into perspective. You guys all have a certain type of woman and physical traits that you are attracted to, whether its big boobs, small bum and a tiny waist. We all have ‘types’ or ideal things we want. But in a world full of billions of singles we know that there has to be more than just these things.

Most women want a man who treats her right, the height is just an added bonus. The truth is if a man think his appearance or height is the only way to win a woman then he disadvantages himself.

Women are more attracted to the following things than height:

Confidence, manners , ability to lead , romance, and being valued and made to feel special.  

3) We don’t like men approaching us

Ok hold the phone! We love it when men approach us with confidence and charm, we hate it when they make us feel unsafe or are sleazy and aggressive. See the difference there?

If you haven’t watched my other video on 10 tips for approaching women effectively, then put that on your to do list.  

Women may come across guarded when you approach her but it doesn’t mean she won’t be interested, she just doesn’t know you yet, so her reaction is normal!  But if you want to set the right impression then it’s all IN THE WAY you approach her. We see men talking to us and singling us out as old school romance, it makes us feel special and sets our hearts a flutter.

And here’s the thing, asking a woman out or talking to her is going to give you more of an indication if there is potential for anything as opposed to just selecting someone through a dating app.

Don’t be scared, be a gentleman and you will probably be shocked by their reaction.

2) We are high maintenance and want you to do all the effort

I will say one thing, we do live in a time where self-entitlement is killing relationships and driving men and women apart.  Women don’t want you to do all the effort, but they do expect you to invest and make them a priority. And you know what, this is completely normal because it communicates that you value and like her.

Dating isn’t a competition of who does more or less, it’s a courtship and both people should be making the amount of effort that reflects how they feel. If she’s coming across high maintenance, ask yourself first, is this woman actually a diva or am I actually being lazy and not doing enough?

Everyone wants to point the finger at someone else and the truth is women are just as scared as you guys of being taking advantage of. We don’t want to date users either.

1) We don’t care about sex

I don’t know where this myth came from but I have a feeling it’s from the 1950’s or from an over worked and underappreciate tired mother who just wants to sleep sometimes.  OK time for a little fact for you men.

Yes men do have a higher sex drive and think about sex 60% more than women on a daily basis , but a study that was published in TIME magazine revealed that their colleagues found that women in their 30s and early 40s are significantly more sexual than younger women. Women ages 27 through 45 report not only having more sexual fantasies (and more intense sexual fantasies) than women ages 18 through 26 but also having more sex, period.

Women want to have sex, but they also want the emotional connection. So the key then isn’t just to focus on getting physical with her but also tapping into her emotional state as well.

Guys you can sit there and vent your frustration through the comments or you can start to really understand us a bit more and then use it to your advantage. We aren’t that complicated , we are just misunderstood and a great woman is an asset!

But if you struggle with even knowing how to strike up a conversation or basically feel a little lost when it comes to women then be sure to download our Confidence cheat sheet Which has 18 proven ways to increase your confidence fast. These are methods based on science and psychology.

This will help you ease your nerves under stressful situations, like approaching beautiful women.


So what are other things you struggle with when it comes to women? Tell me in the comments section of this video and I will try to answer as many as possible and even do another video on one of the questions!

See you in the next video!

– Renee

what to do if she doesn't show up

What To Do If She Doesn’t Show Up (She Ghosts You)

Today’s video on ghosting is all about what to do if she doesn’t show up!


Have you ever dated a great girl , felt a strong connection , maybe even had great sex and finally thought this girl is someone different …only to have her disappear on you without a trace?

If the answer is yes, then you my friend have been ghosted! It’s a huge rejection. So in this video, I’m going to tell you WHY women ghost you and what you need to do after she does!

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Until next time, bye for now!

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What To Text A Girl Who Stopped Responding (2019)

Know what to text a girl who stopped responding?!

Imagine this…


Ever text back and forth with a girl you really like, and then BAM! –

… out of the blue, she stops texting you back?

No problem…
Just send this 4-word text to revive ANY dead text conversation:


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Berkeley psychologists found that receiving a text message makes people feel more connected and causes an upswing in mood.  But this might surprise you, the open rate of SMS messages is 99%, yet the average response rate of the text is 45%.

Before I give you my favorite text, I have 3 crucial tips you need to start implementing immediately.

Make sure you check that out and my 4 word text here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VM1ZvfCaFOo

That’s all for now! Stay tuned for our next video coming soon!

-Matt


top tinder tips for men

Top Tinder Tips for Men (Get MORE Matches!)

Tinder is still one of the fastest growing dating apps in the world.

But there’s a huge problem you’ve probably experienced already…

There are so many single men swiping and competing for the same beautiful women on Tinder, that it’s hard to match with the women you actually want.

So how do you stand out from all the other guys?

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I’m going to be brutally honest with you men, in today’s time and era we now have more single people than ever before, so if you are feeling like the fishing pond is a little crowded that’s because it is!

So, the competition is high and it means that you can’t just rely on the casual photo to win her over anymore. Truth is you literally have 1/10th of a second before she decided if she will swipe left or right on you. Like literally that’s a split second #ouch

So here are my tips to help you leave an impression before and after she chooses you:

# 3 Choose a Great Primary Photo

Your first photo is everything, it literally is the deciding factor of whether or not she will read your profile or even look at your other pics. And don’t scoff at this guys because we all know that you do the same. We are human and it’s normal to be drawn to someone or not purely because of how they look.

So here are the rules with profile photos:

A Photo of You

make sure it’s you of you right now, close up with natural lighting and nothing covering your eyes, because to a woman this doesn’t help build trust. And don’t forget to smile, statistics show that profile picture with a smile get more engagement

A Photo of You in a Group

Group photos helps show you have a social life and are fun plus it doesn’t make your profile seem like you’re too into yourself. Just make sure this isn’t your opening photo as then it becomes a guessing game!

A photo of You Dressed Up

Women love a man in a nice collared shirt, we think it looks sophisticated and classy. You don’t have to be in a tux, a simple white button up shirt always works a treat!

A couple Photos of You Doing a Hobby

This is a great way to help communicate who you are and what you like, which will get a girl with similar interests to you wanting to know more. Plus it shows that you are active and fun!


#2 Make Your Bio Original

Now of course aside from your pics you also need to make your bio interesting. Because after she sees your face she will then want to know a little about you.

The first rule is to not lie about your age or open up with a cheesy one-liner. Keep it short and simple but make sure it has something to laugh about in there. Humour, intelligence, and originality will set you apart from every other man out there.

Your bio should be a brief idea of who you are, what you like and what you’re looking for. No one needs to know your life history or needs to be lectured. Play it cool, but don’t take yourself too seriously.

They work because they have humor behind them and aren’t too full on or serious!

 

#1 Initiate a Date Straight Away

And lastly, if you want to really get ahead of the crowd, then initiate a conversation straight away. Don’t wait to say hello and introduce yourself, step up and send her that message.

But make sure it’s more than a one worded conversation like “hey” …. crickets**

If you’re stuck for conversation then all you need to do is follow the following flow:

Introduce with confidence  – Hey’s what’s up ….as opposed to Hi my name is Rob, it’s great to meet you! ..are going to get two different responses. Own who you are and stand up!

Compliment – Telling her she’s hot…or has a great body as opposed to saying “You have a great smile, or your eyes are quite stunning are again sending two different messages – If you are complimenting stay away from anything overly sexual, make her feel beautiful not hot!

Ask Questions – get the flow going and try to get to know her straight away , show your interest. If you are stuck for conversation then download our cheat sheet, but the general rule is to ask about her day, interests, friends and what she likes!

Keep it casual and light

If you start going hardcore  like ”I think you are really full of soul and I feel a connection and I would love to discover how we can really get to know each other intimately“ ….as opposed to “You’re fun to talk to, this has seriously made my day “ ….again two different reactions. The goal with any woman on any first encounter or date is simple: MAKE HER LAUGH AND FEEL SAFE.

Ask her out!

Be bold and ask her out.  Take control and start to lead her straight from the get-go.

You want to get in before the other chaps she’s speaking to, so be the one to actually start to organize a real date or drinks.

There’s no point just spending weeks chatting, get her number and go out on a date and get to know the girl in person.

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Other men don’t have to be your competition if you know how to set yourself apart right from the start. And all of the above is easy and achievable ways to do it.

But if you need help with knowing how to talk to a woman either in person or on a dating app then download our free conversation cheat sheet by clicking on the image on the bottom, right now!


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I’m Renee Slansky for The Attractive Man and I’ll see you in my next video!

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signs she is using you

Signs She Is Using You

Are you sure a girl is being true to you? Here are some signs she is using you…

No one wants to date a time waster or someone who isn’t who they really are.

So how can you be sure the girl you are dating isn’t just putting on an act?
How do you know if she is putting on a façade just to please you?
And are you sure that you won’t get surprised later on when the real her comes out?!

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SIGNS SHE IS USING YOU

Is she being Real or is she Playing you?!

Let’s talk about FAKE women, the ones who seem to change as soon as you commit to them! If you have ever dated a girl who seems happy, flirty and amazing in the beginning and then changes later on after a few months , then you will want to stay to watch this entire video ….because I’m going to give you some awesome tips on how to identify those types of girls and make sure you don’t get caught out! So make sure you subscribe now and give us a big thumbs up!

One of the reasons I wanted to do this video was because I asked over 1200 men what they wanted me to talk about and this is the one thing that keeps coming up!

So, here are my tips to being able to identify if she is the real deal or an imposter!

TAKE YOUR TIME TO KNOW HER REAL DEFAULT BEHAVIOR

There are two types of female simple behaviors when it comes to relating to men :

1: When they want something from you
2: When they don’t want something from you

If you think you know someone after a few dates let alone 2 months you are wrong! And, just because you’ve gotten to third base still doesn’t mean you know her.

When a woman first meets you she will be smiley, feminine and flirty, but that’s because she wants something from you. Problem is, you think that’s her normal default character, so when she gets what she wants which might be marriage or babies, she then switches to her normal default behavior which could be totally the opposite, hence feeling like you have gotten two different women!

The only way to get to know someone’s true intentions and character is over time.

Don’t feel that just because you are the man you have to rush into making her feel in a secure relationship, you have every right to take your time and also get to know who you are committing too.  

If she’s pressuring you to speed things up then you have to ask yourself why and if she seems too good to be true ( because the real ones will have some flaws but still be a good woman) then she probably is!

SEE HER IN DIFFERENT SCENARIOS

The best way to get to know someone’s character and intentions is to look at who they hang with, how they respond and what they are consistent in.

If you really want to get to know a girl for who she is and not who she pretends to be, then date her in different circumstances.

Don’t just go on dinner and drink dates, see how she responds when you do things that you enjoy (like a baseball game or hang with your mates) does she put on an act even though you can tell she doesn’t like it?

Does she turn into a yes girl even though you saw her tell her friends she hates sport?

Does she complain or act like high maintenance when she doesn’t get her way? or is she flexible, gracious and know how to see the positive in each situation.

Someone who has a hidden agenda or only wants something from you will usually be more high maintenance and demanding. Which leads me to my next point…

TEST HER

This isn’t about playing games, but rather getting to know who she really is. One way to test her is to ask contradicting questions to see if she just agrees with whatever you say. Then call her out on it!

If she has a wishy-washy doormat answer every time then you can guarantee that she is just trying to please you to earn brownie points.

Ask her questions which you might already know the answer to eg: if she watched the game and if she said yes, asked her who won…to see if she is telling the truth or not.

Guys, a woman who doesn’t always agree with you doesn’t mean she’s high maintenance, it means she is being real and isn’t afraid to say it. Plus, you guys like a bit of a challenge, right?

DOES SHE HAVE HER OWN PURPOSE?

A woman who doesn’t have her own thing going on will automatically make you her focus. This means she will start to do what she thinks you want her to do and probably start to lose her own identity.

If you want a real woman, then a big sign she is one is that her life won’t stop when she meets you! She won’t put you on a pedestal and still have her own career, friendships, hobbies and goals because she loves what she is creating and isn’t trying to live for a man!

WHO ARE HER FRIENDS?

You can tell a lot about someone by who they associate with. Are her friends fake and opinionated or are they genuine and nice? People become a product of their environment, so make sure her crowd is full of decent women who have their own thing going on and not just a girl gang who are hunting down men.

LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS

If you really want to know if she is real or not then take note of what she talks about. Is she always talking about just being in a relationship? Does she often compare you and her to her friend’s relationships?  Does she say one thing and then do something the complete opposite?

Women who are focused solely on having a relationship will often talk about it more than they need too. There will also be some insecurity and be constantly trying to prove to you that they are the right girl.

Guys, it’s a tough game out there sometimes because some women can be really good at hiding the real them, so if you haven’t had any luck then do yourself a favor and attend one of our Bootcamps or intensive workshops.

In the meantime make sure you download our free conversation cheat sheet. This will help you know exactly what to say and when to say it so that you can help work out which girl is worth perusing!

Download the Conversation Cheat Sheet for more on what to say to her. 


You get:

  • Our top conversation starters for any situation…
  • Simple techniques to never run out of things to say…
  • A list of my favorite games to play that create a fun-flirty vibe
  • And simple ways to escalate the interaction.
  • And more!

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I’m Renee Slanksy for The Attractive Man and I’ll see you in my next video!

Bye for now!