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How To Approach Women During The Daytime (Honest + Infield Footage)

Today’s content is all about how to approach women during the daytime! (Video footage included, man!) Approaching women and talking to girls isn’t only done in bars or clubs. In fact, we have had more authentic, memorable and enjoyable experiences when we approach women during the daytime.

Check out coach Jules Bia explaining his methods on how to approach women during the daytime, complete with footage of him approaching girls during the day in Playa del Carmen, Mexico:

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HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN DURING THE DAYTIME
with Coach Jules Bia

In today’s video, we show:
– how to approach women during the daytime
– how to approach girls during the day in the street, the beach, shops and malls
– how to approach a girl without being a creep
– how to approach girls during the daytime and get her number
– how to approach women in public places
– how to approach a girl NOT in a bar or club
– how to approach women in the street
– how to talk to a girl during the day
– infield footge from Jules Bia of The Attractive Man team
– examples of daygame approach,
– how to talk to girls with confidence
– how to talk to women and charm them

Here are Jules’ principles to keep in your mental checklist when you want to practice how to approach girls during the daytime:

WARM UP

Just like workouts. Just like public speaking.. Top athletes do it before game time, teachers and professors do it before major events, actors and performers do it before the big curtain rises. It makes TOTAL sense how important warming up is when mastering how to approach women during the day.

So, we love to warm up by talking to random people we meet everyday. Regardless of who they are, if they don’t look completely busy, give them a greeting – talk to them, give them a wave. Its a great warm up to set your mood and activate those happy hormones.

During nighttime approaches, we go and talk to everyone right from the start – if its in the bar or club, we talk to the bouncer, the first person we meet when we enter, the first group we meet.

Once you’ve warmed up, you won’t be so jumpy, anxious, fidgety. I almost never get tongue tied if I had an awesome warm up before I approach gorgeous women. So I want you to be more social, be a bit more dynamic, and warm up! Its going to help overall confidence, and social skills.

FEEL IT IN YOUR BODY

Ever heard the phrase “its all in your head”? Years of coaching men has helped us understand, majority of men’s problems are internal. They keep overthinking, they keep relying on mental cues, they keep thinking “what do I do now?” “what happens if I do this?” “what if she says this?” “should I do this after this and this?” “what if she says no?” “what if she says yes?”

The problem is.. All of your thoughts aren’t happening in the REAL world. You’ve beaten yourself up before you even made a move.

You’re supposed to FEEL it. You’re a human, with feelings, with sensors, with hormones that activate, with a body that responds to stimuli. Attraction is supposed to come naturally, not from a book that you pull out in your head. Being too much in your head? Overthinking? Believe me, it won’t end up well.

You see, some BAD advice would be “memorize this” and “practice this line and routine”. Imagine how that would feel like – are you some robot that only responds with a specific line or when a specific input is given?

So men, make sure to feel it in your body. Sure you might feel scared at first..you might have some jitters, but I want you to feel that and own it. Don’t lock yourself out of your feelings because you’ll never be able to tap into that natural, attractive you if you shut all of that out.

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TAKE CHANCES

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” True. Most men want to play it safe. Also true.

Risk taking is never easy. It requires you to exit your comfort zone. But what that does is it opens up new and amazing oppurtunities for you. And effort plus oppurtunity always equals success.

Sometimes, all guys need is a good push. You could be hanging on the edge of your safe bubble, almost ready to break your limits and become better – but you can’t find it in yourself to bust through. Why? It could be the fear of pain, the fear of rejection, afraid you’ll be humiliated, or afraid you’ll get hurt.

Men, life has been throwing curveballs all this time. And the “no pain, no gain” mantra was created for a reason – not just for the gym and working out – it applies in real life as well.

Approaching beautiful women that you might feel are out of your league is a complete risk on your part. But you know what? Experiencing the pain of rejection and learning from it is better than feeling the regret of not doing it. And most of the time, interactions even end well for our clients.

It was only after stepping out of their comfort zone that our men have realized that they can do better in dating and in their lives. It is by taking chances that we truly improve. It is by facing your demons and fears, where you can find the courage and confidence to be the best version of yourself.

“It is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all”


INVEST IN YOURSELF

Now, this is self-explanatory but I’ll have to emphasize this. Don’t make “how to approach women during the daytime” or flirting, dating, approaching women your main focus in life. That will create a needy mindset, and will set you off.

What you should be doing, is investing in yourself. Its YOUR life, and YOUR happiness. Don’t think that people-pleasing will always lead to your happiness. Seeking others approval, and doing things for them rather than yourself will lead you to a depressive state.

Invest in yourself, man. That’s the best piece of advice I can give you right now. Seek out a better you everyday. Physically, mentally, emotionally. Develop yourself, and natural attraction will follow.

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STOP being needy

How To Silence The Inner B*tch Voice Inside Your Mind [3 Ways to STOP Being a Needy Person]

Do you get a voice in your head? Do you ever get a voice in your head? Has this ever happened? Man.. You ever get it to talk to you really loud and obnoxiously and call you all sorts of incredibly mean things and tell you all the things that you can’t do?

It’s not going to go away until you learn how to either not listen to it, not buy into it, or how to silence it more and more and more so that it gets weaker.

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How To Silence The Inner B*tch Voice Inside Your Mind
[3 Ways to STOP Being a Needy Person]

Your boy Jules Bia, mind science, dating coach with The Attractive Man team here. I’m going to be give you three life-changing tips today that are going to absolutely transform that little inner b*tch that is stopping you from going and doing and having him being the things you want in your life.

I know what it’s like to have an insane mind. Okay. Back in the day, like I said, it’s still, it’s still true today. Okay. I just got more control over it. My mind said so many negative things to me all the time that it was in a state of radio silence in a state of numbness. And it wasn’t until I really started diving deep into that, pulling up all those streams of thinking, pulling up all those really heavy feelings and surrendering them and disidentifying from all these stories and these thoughts that I was telling myself that I really started to make changes in my life.

I used to go out to the club for years wanting to talk to women when I was in high school and in college, I was fine, but I started getting in my twenties and kind of going my own way. Cause you don’t have, everybody goes to their own way after school? You know, you have some friends and stuff, but all the, all the groups break up, I would go out with the intention to talk to women and I would never talk to women. I was so numb in the club. I had no idea why I had no idea. I was like, what’s wrong with me? But at the end of the night, I’m at home with my D**k in my hand, literally.

All right, I’m sorry about THAT thought. But it sucked. It really did. Um, I didn’t know what it was and it wasn’t until I really started looking, you know, I would go into these environments like a club and I would look close my eyes and look, and just start to try to become more and more aware of the thoughts.

More and more aware of how much the inner bitch was crippling me. And here’s the secret guys. The inner bitch IS NOT REAL. It’s just a series of thoughts and feelings. Feelings are what trigger the thinking. I’m going to give you the first tip and it is so, so, so powerful. And this is going to create more self awareness. So here it is right here. First of all, I need you to subscribe. Okay? I need you to click that big red subscribe button. Cause if you don’t, if you don’t see my future videos, I’m going to miss you. Matt’s going to miss you, everybody on The Attractive Man team’s gonna miss you. So click that subscribe button, hit the like button and hit all notifications so that we never miss each other, right?

Turn “I can’t” into “I can”

Tip is really, really simple. Guys, turn your I can’t into an I can.

Anything you don’t have right now is most likely an I can’t, it might not be, it might be an I can. That’s in the process of becoming an I have, but it’s most likely an I can. It was like when I was going into the club, for example, and not talking to a single freaking woman. Even though that’s what I desperately wanted inside.

That was a very heavy I can’t. So first of all, start saying I can, because I can’t is not just one emotion, by the way. It’s apathy, grief, fear, less anger. That’s all I can’t — apathy, grief, fear, lust, anger, pride are all variations of I can’t and they are lighter versions of I CANT, right? Courage is when you start saying I can’t.

Somebody that wanted to come into my new inner transformation program, unshakable, which has been going incredible by the way..

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And he’s like, “Jules.. I really want to be in your program. I don’t have the money. Ah, man, like what do I do?” I was like, first of all, I want you to do it starts saying I can. And here’s the reason guys, as soon as you say I can’t, and it’s an automatic conditioned reflex. As soon as you say, I can’t.. the opportunity to get when you actually want, it could be really literally right in your vicinity would be that obvious.

But as soon as you say, I can’t, you, you put blinders on no matter how obvious the way to get that thing is it’s literally right within your reach. But the I can’t blinds you. So start saying I can, when I coach them and start saying, I can, I said, I just want you to keep saying all day, I can get this money. I can get this money.. Say it, say it, say it, say it, say it! He started seeing opportunities everywhere to get the money, to get into our program.

It’s powerful stuff. Just literally saying I can, no matter what I want you to say, I can, even if it feels like a lie, say I can all the time. And, but in your mind, because you open your reticular activating system, which is the part of your mind that focuses on things. It’s like the RAS is like, when you, when you learn a new word, right, that you’ve never heard before. And then you hear that same word, like three times that week, that’s using your RAS research it.. Your reticular activating system. It’s very powerful to utilize and you can utilize the power and magnetizes the things you want to you just by starting to say I can’t.

So keep saying I can. Don’t listen to that inner bi*ch.

Give your Inner B*tch a Nickname

Number two is kind of funny. Pretty damn awesome. And I learned this one from one of my favorite books written by David Hawkins, letting go, and it is give your inner critic, your inner bitch, a nickname. Don’t give us something like b*tch or, or like something really negative. Give it a cute nickname and use it all the time. Oh, that’s nice. Uh, David suggests fluffy and I just use fluffy. Cause I think that’s hilarious. I call my ego, my inner critic, fluffy.

Oh really? Fluffy. That’s thank you so much. And I talked to him like this is a little child. You’re so cute. Thanks for trying to help out. And you start taking that voice a lot less seriously. And you’ll also start noticing that when you do this constantly, you just allow it to say whatever it wants to say and express it.

So you’ll start actually noticing it dissolve. I had been in a very, very intense, emotional spin. I was about three and a half years ago. I’m going into a down spin. And I started saying, I remembered in the midst of this, that voice that was really beating me down, beating me up, was named fluffy.

I was like, Oh, fluffy, Oh, I forgot your name. I’m so sorry. Fluffy. Did I hurt your feelings? Did I hurt your feelings? Fluffy? I’m so sorry. This intense, emotional down spin that would usually have me at that point in my life. Probably depressive and messed up for, for a day or two. Right? You know what I’m talking about? You know, those downs spins that we go through. It dissolved. It was, it was unbelievable. I mean, this is just an easy way to take your inner critic, your inner b*tch, less and less and less serious.

And the less seriously you take it, you build that habit of not taking it so seriously. It’s going to have less and less power over you. And as you welcome it and you allow it, it just loses energy. It’s like a little child having a temper tantrum in a toy store. You just let it go and you let it go and you let it go. And you let it go. And eventually it runs out of energy and it disappears.

Hey bro, do you like these tips? Did you subscribe yet? Cause you’re going to make me really disappointed if you didn’t subscribe, you know what? The inner b*tch is starting to talk — I’m just kidding. Make sure you subscribe, man. Don’t miss this stuff. Ding, the bell like this video. Cause obviously you like my style. That’s been established. All right. My tips are fire.

That’s not so secret. I and David vibe have been running a brand new inner transformation program. So if you like these kind of mind science tips, if you want to learn how to get better and better and better with getting your emotions handled, changing your relationship to your emotions.. Understanding, knowing yourself deeper, loving yourself deeper.. Because you cannot have the quality women that you so desire until you get self esteem, stuff handled and still you get the self doubt handled it’s all in the mind. And in our reality is created in the mind. Make sure you sign up in the link below for a free masterclass and emotional freedom masterclass that I’m doing. That’s going to give you the number one process is simple technique that has transformed my life from welfare in a moldy basement room to the free and really damn cool life I live now.

So make sure you sign up in the link below. Do it now. While you still listen to my wonderful voice.

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Disidentifying

Give you tip number three. Cause you’ve come the distance, my friend. The third tip is so gloriously powerful. Are you ready? It’s disidentifying from the inner b*tch.

Disidentifying. What does that mean? It means that these thoughts in here? This right here, it’s not actually you, it’s not. You’re going to be like what? Of course it’s me, all these thoughts. All my life have been me. No, it’s not.

You want to bet that it’s not. You close your eyes right now with me. Look at your thoughts right now. Are you those thoughts or are you the awareness of those thoughts? I want you to look right now here in the present moment. Are you the thoughts in your mind or are you the awareness of those thoughts?

How can you be the thoughts if you’re also aware of them? If you’re an analytical guy, bro, just look, don’t try to figure it out. Don’t try to think more thoughts. If I pinch you, do you have to think to feel pain? No. So close your eyes. Are you the thoughts or even the feelings in your stomach and your chest right now, look at those or are you the awareness of them? And what happens when you notice that you’re the awareness of them?

Because you are the awareness of them. Trust me, no matter how much you think you are, the thoughts I’m going to give you the science behind it. It’s not really science, but I’m going to logically explain why you are your awareness and not your thoughts and why. The more you realize that every single day, the more you tap in and you keep checking and it’s in the checking.

It’s in the actual looking. If you’re the thoughts in the awareness, you intellectually know the answer now. The more you do that, the less you identify with this mind and the more power you will have over actually transforming your thinking, transforming your life because you won’t identify with this stuff anymore.

Now the logic behind this is very simple. So your thoughts are the object and you are the subject. There’s a subject object relationship between your awareness, which is what you really are and the thoughts. And the more you realize this, the more you experience this, the more you really step into this by just doing the simple habit.

Am I these thoughts or feelings? Am I this inner b*tch? Or am I that? Which is aware of the inner bitch? Am I the inner bitch or the awareness of the inner bitch? Right?

Then whatever is happening out there.. You start not taking so seriously.

It could be a terrible problem. And you’re spinning and you’re spinning. You’re like, wait, am I this problem that I, this are the mighty thoughts? Or am I the awareness of them? Boom! Starts releasing. It starts softening up and then you can get your mind right. Solve the problem. So you could get your grind tight.

So it’s really, really simple. It might be complex if you’re a really analytical guy, it’s really not that complicated. You close your eyes or you can keep them open and just notice right now, are you the thoughts? Are you even this body, are you this body or are you the awareness of the body?

Because we also believe we’re a body. I can go down a deep philosophical rabbit hole. And if you would like me to do deep philosophical rabbit hole talks, make sure you comment that below because I would love to make those videos what to make sure that our audience likes them kind of stuff.

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And if you would like to learn the process that transformed my life so profoundly, make sure you sign up for my free emotional freedom masterclass in the link below. Like I said, it brought me from this, this, this method brought me from welfare, living in a stinky moldy basement room to the really cool life I’ve had an enjoy now. My whole story is in there. All the, all the accolades I got like the, the stations that I got, the companies that I went to, the, the advances is really cool. As you know, I’m entertaining. You’re going to have a lot of fun. Make sure you sign up for that. And with that said, this Jules Bia. Make sure you subscribe, like, ding that bell and I’m out!

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how to let go of your ex

How to Let Go Of Your Ex | Move On from a Past Relationship

Finally understand how to let go of your ex for good. End your neediness, and move on to a happier, more meaningful life!

Coach Jules Bia from The Attractive Man helps you learn how to let go of your ex using his meditation exercises. Releasing emotional baggage coming from an ex is amazing. It finally stops getting in your way of living your life, so you can focus more getting into happier, more meaningful relationships!

This video is not just “how to let go of your ex tips.” Its better than that. Jules will show you why even after years of not seeing a person, he/she can still affect you and your way of living. Even the people you attract! AND he demonstrates how to let go of your ex through some lit meditation exercise! This has always helped him and our students recover from a breakup, and now we’ll share them with you:

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HOW TO LET GO OF AN EX
Finally Move of from a Past Relationship

Men have always wanted help with how to move on. Even subconsciously, men who still are hung up on their ex show sings of neediness, even restricted behavior that makes them unnatractive.

If you can’t move on from a break up, even when you THINK you did, then that actually affects your current and future realtionships. Not just with women or a girl you like, even with your friends and family. Jules shows you how to recover from a breakup and finally move on for good.

Once you let go of your ex for good, then you will find the necssary motivation to devote your precious energy on better things. Eventually ending up with natural attraction flowing out from you – because once again – you are the confident, powerful, masculine, alpha version of you. The version that attracts quality women!

If you’re looking for ways on how to move on from an ex, some tips about getting over breakup, advice on how to get over ex. Then this video and meditation exercise is a must watch.

Check out our other videos and content on how to get over ex girlfriend, how to move on from a bad relationship, how to stay away from and end all your toxic relationships, how to know if she’s a bad ex, up on our channel and blog!

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