How did a virgin who even has Asperger’s and Tourette syndrome go from zero experience… to now confidently approaching women in broad daylight, able to bring them home, and having so many dates he actually had to start turning women down?
And if he can do it, then you can do this too, if you know what made everything change for him:
When Dylan came to us, he was battling deep insecurities around his awful childhood and growing up with Asperger’s, and Tourette’s.
He thought those things made him unlikeable.
Now maybe you don’t have aspergers or tourettes, but every man faces his own demons and has mental and emotional challenges.
So before we went to approach women with Dylan, we helped him let go of those insecurities for good through our Inner Mastery process!
While you are learning the skills of talking to women you need to work on your inner self as well because that combination is how you become the most confident version of yourself so you can attract the highest quality women.
This is how we fixed his insecurities:
Step 1: We helped Dylan recognize his insecurities as Emotions, Not as an Identity.
Most people identify with their insecurities:
- “I’m not good enough.”
- “I’m too old / too short / too inexperienced.”
- “Women won’t like me unless I __.”
We taught Dylan to separate the feeling from the self.
For example: “I notice I’m feeling insecure about having Asperger’s… can I just allow that feeling to be here?”
This simple awareness starts to unstick the emotion.
You’re no longer trapped in the identity of “an insecure person.” You’re just someone noticing a passing feeling of insecurity.
So whether you feel like you’re too short, balding, too old, not social or funny enough. Whatever it is, we can guide you through letting go of that insecurity and making you more confident, and thus more attractive.
Step 2: We helped him release resistance to the feelings.
Because, What you resist, persists.
When you try to fix or fight your insecurities, you add more energy to them.
Instead, our method invites you to welcome the feeling. We lead you though a few simple releasing questions:
- Could I let this go?
- Would I let it go?
- When will I let this go?
The mind might not “know how” to let go — but the heart does. When you give yourself full permission to feel the emotion without judgment, it naturally begins to dissolve.
Step 3: We helped Dylan break the Mental Loop Behind his Insecurities.
Now when you interact with women you’re into, your insecurities often run on mental loops:
“She’s not texting back… I knew I wasn’t good enough… she’s probably seeing someone taller/richer/etc…”
We helped Dylan short-circuit this loop by getting him out of his head and into his body. Once you’ve released the emotional charge, those obsessive thoughts lose power.
Suddenly, it doesn’t feel so true anymore. And that’s key.
Step 4: Replacing Insecurity with Inner Freedom
Once the emotional charge is gone, you can access deeper qualities like:
- Calmness
- Confidence
- Worthiness
- Inner peace
Dylan realized, “Wait… I’m okay just as I am.” He stopped seeking approval and overcompensating — and women feel that grounded energy instantly.
For Example: When Dylan was feeling intimidated by beautiful women, he could pause, go inward, and ask:
- “Could I allow myself to fully feel this insecurity?”
- “Could I let it go — even just a little?”
- “Would I?”
- “When?”
Even if he didn’t feel 100% ready, the questions created space. That space is where freedom starts. Often within minutes, the anxiety lessened, his posture improved, and he would become more present and magnetic.
Now I want to make it clear that inner releasing doesn’t mean avoiding or fixing insecurity. It means recognizing that the emotion is not who you are, and helps you let it go so your authentic self can shine through.
Because we’re often taught to suppress or conquer insecurity. Releasing gives you a peaceful power that’s far more attractive and lasting.
So now that you see how we can help you let go of your insecurities, how do you approach women in real life?
So what we did with Dylan was we took him to the streets and showed him our method, a simple system to approach women in any situation, without coming off as weird or needy.
In this process, first we had him do some social freedom exercises which he actually loved, to get him out of his own head and stop being afraid of what strangers would think about him.
For example we had him do push ups in public, or do a silly dance in public or yell “I have a small penis” which of course makes everyone around laugh.
Now he thought these would be terrifying but instead he realized no one cared. Even if people gave him weird looks he realized it didn’t matter and it didn’t affect him in any way.
So this made it easier to start approaching women, something prior he was terrified to do. We first had him go up and give women genuine compliments and then walk away.
Then after he was able to do that we had him continue the conversation by introducing himself and asking a qualification question like, “I’m not sure about you yet, tell me something cool or fun about you” or “What are you passionate about?” Or “What do you spend most of your time doing and don’t say scrolling on Instagram?”
And he was shocked that the women were eager to qualify themselves to him and even offer up their phone numbers.
Then we brought in models to help him with his energy, charisma and create sexual chemistry. Because the words you say aren’t even that important, it’s more about the feeling you create inside her which comes from how you are feeling inside your body and how you are expressing that.
The models gave him feedback and helped him create that movie moment where women just melt within seconds of you approaching them.
And once he mastered that, he became unstoppable. I mean, of course challenges came up throughout the process like texting and what to do on dates and how to escalate but once he had some practice and took our feedback, he lost his virginity and then it was like the flood gates opened for him.
He’s now been on countless dates and slept with more women than most men ever do in their entire life because he trusted the process, took the feedback and did the work.
And if a virgin with lots of insecurities around his Tourettes and Asperger’s can do it then what’s stopping you.
If you’d like my team and I to help you then book a free session with us(click the banner below) and I hope you take action like Dylan did and I can’t wait to see you in our mentorship program.