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How to Touch a Woman | 10 Ways to Touch Without Creeping Her Out

Asking yourself How to touch a woman nowadays? There are TONS of ways to touch her. But do you know how to touch a woman the RIGHT WAY?

Guys are oftentimes scared s^&*less when it comes to touching women. One small mistake and BOOM – no more attraction or worse..A slap to the face.

That is why the team, especially Matt, is dedicating our next few videos to help teach guys how to touch a girl. We’ll cover the proper ways of touching a woman. How to touch her to turn her on, how to touch her without getting creepy, how to touch her like a MAN..

The answers to your “how do I touch her?” are found here – Matt explains the different ways to touch a girl, and the different kinds of touch during the interaction:

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10 Ways to Touch a Woman without Creeping Her Out

Here are 10 ways to touch a girl starting from the more casual platonic touching and moving up to more intimate forms of touch because just like any form of escalation, you need to start small and increase the escalation over time as she feels more and more comfortable with you:

10. GREETING and SAYING GOODBYE

Handshake – FIRM, STRONG. Not too much, remember to be dominant without being domineering. You want her to feel safe and secure, not like someone who can hurt her. (Don’t crush her hand)

Kiss on the cheek – Depending on the culture, a kiss on the cheek is quite a common greeting. To other countries, its already an intimate gesture. Most of the time when I say goodbye I give a nice kiss on the cheek (that’s if we weren’t smooching already if the date went well)

Hug – When you meet her for a date always hug even if you met online. No hovering hand, okay? A nice bear hug, or if that’s too much, even a side hug works great.

9. CONVERSATION

Using your hands as you talk and touching her arm, shoulder or hand to emphasize a point. Example: “And you won’t believe what happened next” as you touch her arm for emphasis. Touch her waist or lower back at a loud club, which is a very sensual spot of her body, as you lean in to tell her something.

8. UNINTENTIONAL

Examples of situations where Unintentional Touch can happen are:

Standing near each other and your arms are touching

Sitting and your legs are touching 

Being close to each other

Can happen while walking

So if you are looking for a dating location, like a dinner or lunch date – Pick a venue with couches where your legs can touch

7. INQUIRING

Touch her hair, nails, or something she’s wearing and make a comment about it. Example: “Wow those are some interesting nails” as you hold her hands and examine them. Complementing her figure works as well, just like how women use “have you been working out?” as an excuse to touch your biceps. You can say the same line as you touch her abs.Wow, you are so fit” “Flex your arm Make sure she has a flat stomach before you do this. Pinching her belly flab won’t be such a turn on.

6. CORRECTING

Fix something about her like her clothing, hair or posture. Example:Hold on let me fix your shirt. Okay there, much better.

5. PLAYFUL

If you are at a bar or on a date you can play a Fun game-like thumb wrestling or slap hands. At bars it’s all about being playful. 

4. REWARDING

When she does or says something you like, simply reward her with a hug, high-five or kiss. Example: “Nice, high-five!” I know it seems childish but that’s the point. Who doesn’t want to be a little childish every now and then?

3. LEADING

While leading her from one place to the next you can hold her hand, go arm-in-arm or place your hand on her lower back.

2. MASSAGE

Hand massage 

Full massage (learn some techniques; take a class)

1. DIRECT

Where she just knows that you are really attracted to her so you make your move. You typically need a higher level of attraction and compliance for this to work.


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How to Touch a Woman | 5 Rules

We’ve released our latest video with updates on how to touch a woman. We’ve put down the 5 MUST KNOW RULES the guys have to remember whenever they’re going out and approaching.

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5 MUST KNOW Rules

#5. ALWAYS MAKE SURE SHE IS COMFORTABLE 

Never do anything she’s not comfortable with. If she doesn’t seem comfortable then stop right away. Take a step back if need be. But don’t be too afraid either. Now there is definitely a time for a gentle touch but there’s also a time to use stronger touch. (Never be aggressive though!)

Some girls are more touchy than others (girl in london story who didn’t want to touch at all)

#4. DON’T WAIT TOO LONG

Break the touch barrier sooner than later. If you wait too long, then that first touch will seem awkward and weird. So make sure to touch her when you first meet. 

For example: During the day or at a bar usually, a handshake, and/or a kiss on the cheek might be appropriate. On a date, you would give her a hug when you greet her.

#3. HAVE A REASON TO TOUCH HER

Plug the video on 10 Ways to Touch Her

Dinner is a bad idea because it is harder to touch her. 

#2. DON’T LET IT LINGER:

(story of student in Vegas putting is arm around the girl and then leaving it there and then she pushed it off)

Make sure to take it away at first. Touching releases the bonding hormone Oxytocin, and that’s why it feels good. But if you let it linger, that feel-good vibe will soon turn into a creepy one.

#1. MAKE IT NATURAL

Remember that if you keep putting on the gas, then she will put on the brakes.

It should be natural, it should be normal and no big deal and it should be in context to what is happening in the interaction. For example, don’t reach across the table to touch her shoulder out of nowhere (talk about why dinner is a bad idea because there’s no touching which can make the date feel too platonic).

Practice by touching everyone, even guys. 

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How to Touch a Woman | 10 Ways

With the rise of the hashtag – Me too – are there changes to the “rules” on how to touch a woman? Here are our 10 Ways to touch a woman to build trust faster, create attraction better, and hopefully not get slapped in the process:

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There are literally thousands of ways to touch a woman. But only a handful of them are the right way. For all we know, you’ve been doing it your whole life – natural touch can come across as attractive if you’re confident and grounded. However, for most men, touching doesn’t come natural to them.

All those awkward handshakes. All those flaccid high fives. All those hovering hands over the shoulder – you know what I’m talking about. As I’ve always said, when you touch her – don’t be a “limp fish”.

Handshakes need to be firm. Hugs tight. Touch her like a man.

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Do I NEED to be ALPHA to Attract Women?

Do I need to be Alpha to Attract Women? We’ve been asked countless times how to be alpha..

Do YOU need to be Alpha?

Do YOU need to be Rich? Do YOU need to be Hot?

If you’ve constantly believed that the answer to “how to be more attractive to women” is MORE money, or being a jerk, or being a tall, muscular guy.. then you are WRONG, my friend.

In this video, Dating Coach Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man team will explain the common misconceptions and beliefs guys have that are holding them back from achieving their true potential.

So stop listening to all the guys saying you’ve got no chance with women because you’re not rich enough, not alpha enough, or not hot enough.

Matt is here to tell you that YOU CAN attract women. And do you REALLY have to be alpha, rich, or hot to do that? Well, watch the video to know the answer!

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Anxiety Cure: The HELLO CHALLENGE

Anxiety cure? I want YOU to do Jules’ HELLO CHALLENGE…

Its simple, man. And its one way to help cure fear, cure anxiety, improve your social skills, and increase your confidence.

As you can see in the video, the HELLO CHALLENGE comprises you, going out there and meeting people – or simply give them a nice hello. You don’t have to expect a reply, you don’t have to expect them to even react. Just go out there and say hello to them!

By doing this everyday for a set number of days, its guaranteed to improve your communication skills, your confidence, and help you conquer that social anxiety and fear of talking to people.

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