Head dating coach Matt breaks down Ryan Goslings “look of desire” on Emma Stone in Crazy, Stupid, Love, and shows how you too, can do it in real life..with some tweaks, of course. Learn how to get women’s attention by watching our video below:
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HOW TO GET WOMEN’S ATTENTION Ryan Gosling in Crazy, Stupid, Love
Crazy Stupid Love stars Ryan Gosling with Emma Stone as his love interest. In this scene where Matt breaks down, Ryan uses his wits and charm to try and win Emma over.
We know most of it is movie magic, and that this will never pass in real life. Or does it? Most of Ryan Goslings’ actions, lines, body language, tonality and mentality actually can get a girls attention in real life.
With a few explanations, Matt demonstrates how some actions in these scenes are highly effective when flirting with women in an actual setting. You don’t have to memorize lines or fake routines to get her attention. Most of it is inner game, or inner confidence.
When you are grounded and confident in yourself and in your actions and when you let go of your insecurities.. You will notice a natural flow of charm and attraction within you.
Matt, through his movie scene breakdown of Ryan Goslings’ Crazy Stupid Love, shows you: – How to get a girls attention – How to not be needy – How to impress a girl right from the start – The proper way to deal with rejection – How to react when she says “no!” – How to flirt like a boss – How to make her notice you – How to be fun – How not to be boring
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What if I told there was just one thing you needed to focus on to improve your overall life and relationships? You have to learn how to be a leader!
It’s something that Gandhi, Nelson Mandela and Martin Luther King all have in common and it’s basically the 80/20 of attraction..
That ONE Thing is what I’ll explain in the video below:
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HOW TO BE A LEADER Why Leadership is Attractive to Women
There’s this one thing to focus on that will give you the most bang for your buck. Basically the closest thing to a magic pill and I call it the King Complex, named after Martin Luther King.
Because you probably don’t want to go up to a woman, like a social robot giving her some backhanded insult about her nails… Or “memorize” ridiculous pickup lines or wear outlandish pea-cocking outfits.
Many guys run around in circles doing ridiculous things to attract women, believe me I’ve been there too, until they come to us and we set them straight and teach them how to embody the King Complex that I’m about to share with you, to attract, date and even marry the women of their dreams.
We also have more videos here: ►This ONE Mindset Makes Girls Chase You: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aAm2CMgxtnc ►Never Lose Hope – Motivation Inspiration Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-TEBWj-EdI ►How to STOP Being Insecure: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsnr_Dat5Q4
Back in 2010, a story known as the ‘Chilean Mining Accident’ blew up news stations around the globe.
After it was over, and the aftermath was broadcasted to the world, I was reminded of a very powerful lesson about becoming the kind of man that women can’t ignore.
So get this…
On August 5th, 2010, a group of Chilean miners experienced their worst nightmare. The cave collapsed without warning and they were trapped 700 meters underground.
(That’s the same length as 6 football fields straight down.)
The workers had 700,000 tons of rock standing between them and the entrance. Add to that, their supplies and oxygen were running out.
Everyone was certain that all of those men would not make it out alive.
But the thirty-three trapped miners had one glimmer of hope down there. His name was Luis Urzua.
Described as a born leader, the fifty-four-year-old was the shift commander at the time of the collapse.
Using all of his wits, resourcefulness, and leadership, Luiz was able to secure all of the men in a secure “refuge” beneath all the debris.
He then organized their resources like food, water, and medical supplies. What was only meant to be a forty-eight hour supply was stretched out to two weeks. They drank tiny sips of milk and took little bites of tuna.
Under his direction, his men also used a bulldozer to open a natural water deposit for drinking
But he did more…
He took three men with him to scout the tunnels. From there, he was able to make a detailed map of the area. This helped him coordinate with the rescue effort above ground.
Throughout this whole situation, Luis instilled in his men to accept their fate and situation so they could do what was necessary to survive.
When the rescuers finally arrived, Luis volunteered to be the last man to be hoisted in the rescue pods. He reached the surface 11 minutes after the first man.
His leadership kept all of his men positive, organized, and ALIVE.
I love this story. Not only for the inspiration but for the lessons it gives us.
Luis Urzua demonstrated status.
The Journal of Psychology of Sexuality found that women prefer men with status.
This is based on evolutionary psychology where a high-status man can provide a better future for her and her offspring.
One of the biggest indicators of status is leadership.
The leader of a group of primates tends to have the highest status.
So how do you be a leader? And what if you have no one to lead?
There are 9 ways to be a leader that women will love even if you have no friends and no social status what so ever. So watch the video I provided to know how to apply each one of them in your life.
The last of the 9 is all about what to do specifically when you are with a beautiful woman so make sure to watch until the end because if you don’t do what I’m going to tell you then I can almost guarantee she will lose interest and attraction in you.
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If you’re nervous about the awkward approach with women or you fail to approach because you’re too “in your head” then this video is for you.
Watch as International Dating Coach, David Vibe, approaches a model in the middle of a photo-shoot and ask yourself this question the next time you see a girl you want to talk to at the gym, on the phone, or with her friends: what’s your excuse?
Discover how to overcome your fear of approaching during even the most awkward situations and start taking action to get this area of your life handled! Learn the secret of ‘The Awkward Approach’ and it will change your dating life forever!
Watch the video now to see how what happened!
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AWKWARD APPROACH? How to Learn From It
It can feel awkward to talk to women when the moment isn’t just right. How many times have you seen a woman you wanted to talk to but you don’t approach her? Probably because you had a sad/busy/tiring day?
Well, I was in that exact situation just the other day when I saw this model in the middle of a photo shoots surrounded by photographers. In this video, I want to show you that exact approach and break down the key mindset tips that you can use to motivate yourself to walk up and talk to any girl in any situation, even if it seems very awkward.
In this video, you’re going to learn the art of the awkward approach. Is there a secret method to master how to get rid of shyness? Realize that things are never perfect. You’re not always going to be in the mood and as you have seen, it doesn’t happen only to you.
It happens to me too. Despite my experience, despite having been in those situations many times and knowing exactly what I should do, it’s totally fine because you cannot know how things are going to go.
What you know for sure is.. by not doing anything you always lose. When you do something, even if it’s not as you wished, you still have a slight chance of success because you might discover strength that you didn’t even think you would have.
You guarantee that you are going to grow because you will have a new learning experience. These are things that will help with social awkwardness. The first step to answering how to stop being awkward.
This time, I’ll share my wisdom about how to make her like you, spark attraction, and get out of the friend zone while on his trip in Isla Mujeres, Mexico! These are principles that cover the steps to NOT get friendzoned.
To not get into the worse and slightly disturbing creep zone. And not get into the awfully common brother zone. There are natural ways to make her like you, these can and will almost always bring you closer to the lover zone!
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HOW TO MAKE HER LIKE YOU (Spark Attraction with Women and Get out of the Friendzone)
Dating advice should never be complicated. Our Head International Dating Coach, Matt Artisan, from The Attractive Man, understands that men shouldn’t obsess over the perfect pick up line.. Or the perfect date.. or the perfect way to touch her to make her like you.
There are ways to get out of the friend zone and ways to make a woman attracted to you without having to put out millions of dollars.
Making a girl like you is tough for men who don’t understand that confidence, and not money, is a better turning point to attract women.
Women get turned on by feeling a man’s desire. Women are emotional. If you’re going to get a girl to like you, then you have to tap into that emotional contagion.
Matt has coached tons of men and almost all of them had these false beliefs inculcated in their minds that the answer to “how to make a girl like you” lies solely on your income and good looks. We can’t blame them. Social media, movies and all these magazines and advertisers has depicted men to only be attractive if they had chiseled bodies or tons of cash on the bank.
Take the Avengers movie. You can find some simple attraction and love stories there. Even after all the Action and excitement. Tons of kids, teenagers and even middle aged men look up and idolize these kinds of personas!
…and who plays the lead male role that woes all the women? A millionaire, a super soldier who’s popular and high-status, a literal GOD.. and a HULK – yes, Mr. Muscles himself. Breaking down all the false beliefs.
We can take a positive and a negative from all these when it comes to making a girl like you. Like income, for example; its not ALL about the money.. But you have to strive for a stable income that can provide a woman with safety and security. Popular guy? You don’t have to be a movie star – but having a high-status personality definitely helps. Muscles? No. We’ve seen tons of scrawny and overweight men get women they want..but working on your health psychologically increases the instinctual attraction women have for men.
We all show men methods to create natural attraction to make women attracted to you. So stay tuned for more videos, better yet – APPLY for our mentorship!
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Its always up to debate whether or not there’s a secret method to make women love you. You want to turn a girl on? You have to do this psychologically proven mindset that increases your confidence and status. All the things that attracts a woman more to you!
This amazing mindset will affect you if you’ve been living your life afraid to approach a girl. A good first step to learn how to talk to women curing that anxiety that comes even before you start talking to girls.
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MAKE WOMEN LOVE YOU: #1 Mindset
Get rid of the weird one liners. Those won’t turn a girl on naturally. Get rid of the awkward pickup lines, those won’t make women love you. Start embodying this ONE mindset:
You are a KING.
That’s it. Stop thinking you’re not good enough and that women don’t like you because it’s just not true. Women do like you.They just don’t like the sad, insecure, depressed version of yourself that you are portraying. Hopefully that’s not you, but just saying.
You see, a high quality woman doesn’t want a guy who swipes right on every chick’s picture hoping to get a match. You won’t turn a girl on that way. Women wont want the kind of guy who tries to cater to every girl at the bar.
She wants a guy who has a full exciting life with or without her in it, and he ultimately chooses her to enrich his life, not complete it. I’ve seen it over and over again what happens to a guy who doesn’t embody this mindset.
I recently had a client who would constantly agree with everything a woman would say to the point where it just didn’t seem genuine. I was with him at a bar listening in to his conversation and the girl brought up a movie that she loved, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas. And he said it was one of his favorite movies as well. She seemed suspicious and asked what his favorite scene was and I could tell he was starting to get nervous and he said, “when they arrived in Vegas” Then she asked him who his favorite actor was in the movie and he couldn’t answer and he just tried to change the subject. Uhh Johnny Depp! So after that, the conversation ended very quickly.
He was a really nice guy but at the end of the day a woman wants a man who isn’t trying to cater to her every whim. She wants to have playful arguments with a guy. The problem was that he was insecure, ashamed, and lacked any sense of masculine identity.
He didn’t have the king mindset and as a result he tried to conform to the woman’s ideas on things instead of just letting his own personality attract those who are right for him.
Thankfully I set him straight and now he’s figured out who he is and is unapologetic about it and is dating a gorgeous high-quality woman.
So, stop trying to be a replica of the guy you think women want you to be and start being 100% you.
Start seeing yourself as a King and watch how you filter out the people who you don’t click with and find the ones who you do. Now, I know this is a lot easier said than done, but don’t worry. I’m going to give you three practical ways so that you can start embodying the king mindset today.
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The first step in order to embody this mindset is to stop caring about what people think of you. This is so crucial not just to turn a girl on but on your overall confidence. Think about it like this. A good King isn’t gonna worry about pleasing ever person around him. He’s going to do what’s best for himself and his people no matter what.
Understand who you are as a person and just be confident in that because at the end of the day, no matter who you are, no matter what you do, and no matter what you look like, some people are just not going to like you.
That’s just how it is. Accept this rejection as a part of life and stop wasting your time on people who don’t matter. Because once you do, the people who do matter will be naturally attract into your life.
Look, I know you guys have probably already heard this before, right? But it has a lot of credibility. I mean, just think about some of the most popular celebrities. A lot of them say and do the most outlandish things, but at the end of the day it is their willingness to completely own their character, which makes us feel drawn to their presence.
My favorite example of this is Keenu Reeves. He’s not the most outgoing person. In fact, he seems like a shy introvert at times but he just owns it.He doesn’t apologize for who he is and women go crazy over him.
Another example is Chris Pratt. I mean it’s pretty obvious that he’s one of the most charismatic actors on this planet, but it doesn’t have anything to do with his good looks or wealth. It has everything to do with his ability to be completely himself, no matter what. I mean just watch any one of his interviews and you’ll quickly realize how he isn’t afraid to make fun of himself. He completely own this about himself, which is why we feel drawn to him
Now, I know confidence like this doesn’t come naturally to some people and when I say some people, I mean everybody, but guys, don’t worry. I have your free confidence cheat sheet listed in the description box below.
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The second way in order to embody this mindset is to..
Make a list of the characteristics you want the woman in your life to have.
Think about it, is a King going to hang out with women who are clearly not a match for him? No, instead, he has a clear idea of the type of queen he wants in his palace. You’ll be surprised how much you can turn a girl on by knowing what you want.
Use this analogy in your own life so you can be aware of the types of women that you want in your life. So go ahead and make a list either on a piece of paper or on your phone or computer.
Do it right now. Stop reading. I’ll wait.
Write down the qualities that you want the woman in your life to have. Now, this isn’t about being picky. This is just so you can be aware of the types of people that you want in your own life.
You may realize that some people you meet actually aren’t a good fit for you and that’s okay.
Don’t transform into the guy that you think they want you to be. Instead, see yourself as a prize and move on and find someone who does meet your standards.
The third step in order to achieve this mindset is to..
Find your purpose and pursue it.
Go ahead and take some time to think about what your purpose in your life is and do not answer women or relationships. Constantly placing people above yourself like that is going to severely weaken your character.
Instead, see yourself as a King and build your kingdom. Do some soul searching, find your purpose and go pursue it.
This one is powerful because it’s actually proven that having a purpose in life makes you appear more attractive.
This is because purpose-driven people naturally radiate this positive, ambitious attitude that people around them also want to have. There is actually-gin a study that looked at different yearbook photos and they would attribute different positive or negative character traits to each of the photos.
At the end of the study it was actually found that those photos with the positive characteristic traits were seen as more attractive.
So whatever your purposes in life, go out there and do it.
Maybe you’re an aspiring musician, then go find an open mic you can perform at. Or maybe you’re an entrepreneur, then find a mentor who can help accelerate your business.
These are things you can do to help you get to that next step. And actually going out and taking small steps is going to help you make progress.. As opposed to just staying stagnant doing nothing.
On the plus side, as you are working on yourself and discovering your purpose and pursuing it. It is going to force you to say no to her more often because you’ll be busy.
That’s okay. This will just prove to her that you’re actually doing something for yourself. It’s gonna make you more passionate and make you more desirable.
So just to recap, number one, stop caring about what people think of you. A King does what he wants. Number two, List the characteristics of the people you want in your life. The King hangs out with royalty. And number three, find your purpose and pursue it. A King rules his kingdom.
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