To get more dates in the Philippines, use both Tinder and real-life approaches. Tinder helps you connect quickly while multitasking, but approaching women in person feels more natural and has a higher success rate.
Hey Guys, Matt Artisan here, today we’re taking a look at how to get dates in The Philippines. Which is better, using Tinder or Approaching?
I like approaching during the day because no one is doing it, so there is basically no competition, and I just go up to women when I see them, it’s nice, natural, and part of my day-to-day routine.
I like to approach just as a part of my life, when I’m going to get groceries or walking down the street, and there are no filters or Photoshop or anything like that.
Tinder on the other hand is great if you know how to use it. I like Tinder because I can just view profiles and swipe while I’m doing something else like exercising or getting a haircut. It’s great for multi-tasking, and easy to go directly to instant messaging.
In the end, I got 25 dates from Tinder and 11 from approaching, however I only approached 16 women vs 182 interactions on Tinder, and I spent about 7 and a half hours on Tinder vs only about half an hour approaching.
So while I got more dates from Tinder, I had a much higher success rate from approaching and it took much less time approaching to get a date in the Philippines.
I should also mention that I don’t always see women I want to approach when I go out, so if you are just looking to get a date quickly, Tinder will be more consistent and you can do it while you multitask.
These are my numbers for the Philippines, but in North America, I get more dates from approaching than I do from online dating, and this is what I teach in my bootcamps.
If you want to learn how to approach and start getting results then you need to check out our bootcamps, where we take guys out personally and show them exactly what to do and what to say when it comes to meeting women. I’m putting a link at the bottom of this page where you can learn more about our bootcamps and talk to one of our coaches.
I’m Matt Artisan and I’ll see you next time!
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How can I get more dates in the Philippines?To get more dates in the Philippines, try a mix of both Tinder and real-life approaches. Approaching women during your daily routine — like while shopping or walking — often feels more natural and authentic. Tinder, however, helps you meet more women quickly while multitasking.
Is Tinder effective for dating in the Philippines?
Yes, Tinder is quite effective in the Philippines if you use it properly. It allows you to connect instantly through messaging and meet women from different areas. But remember, while Tinder gives quantity, personal approaches often give better-quality connections.
What works better in the Philippines — Tinder or approaching women?
Both methods work, but approaching women in person tends to have a higher success rate. In Matt Artisan’s experience, he got 25 dates from Tinder and 11 from approaching — yet the time and effort for approaching were much lower.
How much time should I spend on Tinder to get results?
You may spend several hours a week swiping and chatting before getting a date. For example, Matt spent 7.5 hours on Tinder compared to just 30 minutes approaching — showing that real-life interactions can be faster if done confidently.
Where can I learn to approach women confidently in the Philippines?
You can join a dating bootcamp or workshop like the ones Matt Artisan offers. These help you learn what to say, how to act naturally, and how to attract women in real-world settings effectively.