You see a girl at the bar or walking down the street or at a cafe and she’s cute as heck. You don’t know how to get a girl to want you, BUT would love to meet her.
She doesn’t make eye contact with you. What should you do!? Should you still approach her anyway even though she might not be into you? Or should you wait until you get eye contact so that you know she wants you to approach her?
Well, my answer is not what most dating coaches would suggest:
HOW TO GET A GIRL TO WANT YOU
HOW TO GET HER ATTENTION
DID YOU KNOW: I only get eye contact from like 5% of the girls I talk to. My ex didn’t give me eye contact when I approached her and we dated for 4 years after that. Heck, my wife pushed me away and rejected me when we first met.
HOW TO GET A GIRL TO WANT YOU:
STOP WAITING FOR THE PERFECT OPPURTUNITY
You are probably only going to get eye contact from a few girls (unless you are a really good-looking guy.. but even then its still an absolutely small number.) Most girls are in their own little world during the daytime and they are thinking about other things and they didn’t even notice you.
I’m going to ask you a very important question, do you want to play in the little leagues and only wait for the best opportunity when a girl looks at you and you know it’s on OR do you want to play in the major leagues and knock the ball out of the F’ing park?!!!
Then here’s the deal man: Stop waiting for the perfect opportunity, if she’s your type of girl then go talk to her.
You are a man right? So do you think real men sit around and wait for lighting to strike or do they make shit happen? Of course, they make sh-t happen. Don’t be a NICE GUY..because that will REPEL women.
Don’t be the kind of guy that waits around for things to happen, you have to make it happen. Waiting around is just an excuse for you to stay where it feels safe. F-CK THAT.
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HOW TO GET A GIRL TO WANT YOU:
GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE
Getting out of your comfort zone is never easy. Heck, its called the comfort zone for a reason.
But once you learn how to break your limits by getting out of your own comfort bubble, its going to feel like a damn superpower. You’ll be confident enough to tackle whatever life brings to the table. That essentially includes being able to talk to women, and attract them effortlessly.
See, a man that has undergone hardship by stepping out of what they think and feel is safe immediately owns a level of confidence that most women unquestionably adore.
Women are attracted to men who make them feel safe and secure. If you keep hiding within your comfort zone all the time, then you will feel like (and will be percieved as) a play-safe coward who can never stand up to hurdles and all kind of problems.
Now, this doesn’t have to be immediate. Small steps can lead to big steps along the way. The important thing is that you ALWAYS STRIVE to be better than who you were yesterday, and this will expand your comfort zone, and you will keep on striving to get out of that comfort zone until you’re confident enough to feel like you’ll never be afraid to face any challenge again.
Here are a few examples of simple. easy things that you can do that actually helps you step out of your comfort zone:
1.) Exercising/going to the gym, and increasing the difficulty each time you get used to it.
2.) Waking up earlier and sleeping earlier than usual. If you’re used to hitting the snooze button, stop using it and get up right away.
3.) Taking cold showers.
4.) Greeting random strangers you meet.
HOW TO GET A GIRL TO WANT YOU:
BE AUTHENTIC IN YOUR APPROACH
What do you say when you approach? Well, its simple actually. BE honest…
Here are some of my openers that worked for me: (Of course, you’ll have to come up with your own, but I’m going to surprise you that THESE lines had more than 60% success rate. And it was because I was being authentic and grounded)
- “Hi I’m Matt and I just wanted to meet you”
- “Hi I have no idea what to say right now”
- “Hi I’m super nervous but you are really pretty and I wanted to meet you”
Yes it’s as easy as that. But the problem is if you are feeling super nervous in your body it’s not going to work. If you are feeling insecure or unconfident it’s not going to work.
You see, your voice, tonality, body language and tons of other factors automatically adopts to how you REALLY are feeling deep inside. And no matter how good your opening line is, its bound to fail if your delivery is all wack and inauthentic.
You can practice your lines in the mirror. Practice it in front of your friends or family. Go interact with everyday people. Men and women you’ll meet along the way, “warm up” and be a guy that gets used to speaking his mind in a powerful, confident way.
How do you get confident and let go of the insecurities that are holding you back?
Probably one of the BEST ways to INSTANTLY boost those positive results is to get feedback from experts. Understand that the old way was to go out and approach 100’s of women and get better every time.
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