Do pick up lines actually work? They do if you know how to say them.
And let’s face it, there may come a time when you’re standing at the bar, and you see that stunner across the room, and your mind just goes completely blank, wondering what to say.
If you’ve been following me for a while, then you know what you say really isn’t that important but you have to say something. So why not say something to get a laugh?
What is the best type of pick-up line?
The best type of line is a clever or funny icebreaker that is delivered with genuine confidence, not a smooth or memorized script. It should be light and primarily serve to initiate a natural conversation.
So here are my Top 10 outrageous pickup lines that actually work.
Now let’s get to the pick-up lines that work. Some are funny, and some are cheesy, but they work.
The Top 10 Pickup Lines That Actually Work
1. The “Hottest Girl in the Room” Bait and Switch
I have this rule that I have to say hi to the hottest girl in the room…..can you help me say Hi to those girls over there!?
This is a great bait and switch. She thinks you are going to give her a big compliment, and then you switch and trick her which should make her laugh. The pause is crucial. And during the pause, if you don’t want to do the switch that’s fine. But if the girls give a reaction like this (demo of bad reaction), then the switch can really work well.
2. The “Sorry I’m Late” Role Play Line
Sorry I’m late. Traffic was really bad. Did you get me a drink yet?
This is a fun little role play that assumes you both already know each other and that she’s waiting for you. Works great if she’s sitting down. Just sit down with her and give it a try. Just don’t do what I used to do and say “yeah your mom called and you know how she gets she just talks and talks” “Oh yeah what did she say?? BC MY MOM IS DEAD! There’s just no recovering from that.
3. The “Second Sexiest Person Here” Confidence Line
Me: I just wanted to tell you that you are the second sexiest person in here.
Her: Who’s the first?
Me: “Me of course.”
This is a great way to show your interest in her, and it’s obviously kind of cocky, but you’re in a bar and messing around so if she has a good personality she will laugh or start bantering back.
4. The “Undressing Me With Your Eyes” Role Reversal
Are you undressing me with your eyes. Hey, eyes up here. Is she always this bad?
OR I saw you checking me out just now. You could have just said hi instead of totally molesting me with your eyes.”
This is a fun little role reversal and also is super accusatory. Her friends will likely get a kick out of this.
5. The Bold Vampire Club Line
Do you believe in vampires? You should” then try to bite her neck.
For a club environment. This is playful and really sexual but in such a high energy environment it can actually work and even if she pulls away it shows that you don’t give a fuck and that you go for what you want in a fun way. .
6. The “Female Version of Me” Cocky Compliment
You look totally amazing almost like a female version of me.
Another fun way to show your interest while also throwing in some cocky humor.
7. The Outfit Switch Joke
I was going to wear that same outfit tonight.
Obviously, she should be wearing something really girly like a dress or skirt. If she’s wearing jeans and a t-shirt, it won’t work.
8. The Risky “One Finger” Seduction Line
If I could make you come with just one finger imagine what I could do with my whole body.
This is really sexual and will probably get a laugh. You could always follow up with a restriction like, “but we have to behave I mean I just met you.”
9. The “5-Minute Girlfriend” Role Play
You’re going to be my gf for the next 5 minutes. What are we going to do? Let’s build a fort….
If she seems not into it say, “you’re boring I’m breaking up with you
Great role play. Make sure to break up with her after 5 minutes. You can even use this as a way to kiss her fast. “Well if you are my gf I have to see if you are a good kisser.
10. The “Beautiful… My Eyes” Bait and Switch
Has anyone ever told you how beautiful….my eyes are?
Great bait and switch. You could also say, “wow you have really amazing…..eyes” to a woman with huge breasts. This works great on the big breasted vegas cocktail waitresses.
My Favorite Pickup Line of All Time
Do you want to know my favorite pickup line? It’s “Hi I’m Matt. I don’t think we’ve met yet. Who are you?” because it shows her that you don’t need a line or excuse to talk to her which actually shows confidence.
Be Genuine: Playful Lines vs. Authentic Confidence
So do that and be genuine or start off by being playful using a line. It honestly doesn’t really matter as long as you say something and your vibe is fun, and you are not seeking approval.
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Frequently Asked Questions
“Rizz” is short for charisma and refers to a man’s ability to effortlessly charm, attract, and flirt with someone. True rizz is built on authentic confidence and the ability to build quick rapport and connection.
Make a girl blush by giving thoughtful, specific compliments that highlight her personality, intelligence, or unique positive traits, rather than just her appearance. Complimenting her laugh or eyes is often highly effective.
An engaging flirty text is short, playful, and uses humor while maintaining a light, positive tone. Use emojis sparingly and incorporate open-ended questions or references to shared experiences to maintain conversational momentum.
Genuine admiration that highlights her individuality is better than any pick-up line. Focus on being seen and appreciated for who she is, which creates a personal connection and shows authentic interest beyond surface level.