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Best Texts to Send a Girl You Like | 7 First Texts That Make Her Interested In You

What are the BEST texts to send a girl you like? Have you ever sent kind of a lame or boring first texts and immediately wished you could take it back?

Your first text is crucial because it sets the frame for your textual relationship. (Did you see what I did there? That nice little play on words? *sigh* Nevermind.) Look, man, most guys sent a very boring or average first text and the girl quickly loses interest. So here are my 7 BEST First Texts to Send a Girl You Like – so your first text will almost always make her excited and interested to reply to you:

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BEST TEXTS TO SEND A GIRL YOU LIKE
7 First Texts That Make Her Excited and Interested In You

NUMBER 7 – Something Naughty

Alright, number seven is something naughty. This is a really great one, but it’s all about the setup. You have to plant the seed or it’s not going to make any sense. And of course you always have to be careful sending an unsolicited sexual text message, but don’t worry..

You’re not going to be sending her a naked selfie of yourself. Please don’t do that as the first text, that would probably not work very well. So it goes like this:

You get her phone number, you’ll save it in your phone. And then you say something like, “Okay, you know what? I’m going to text you something naughty.” The reason I like this is because you’ll see her reaction. It’s either going to be something like, “Ooh, okay. I like that. Yes. Send me something naughty.” Or it’s going to be a, “That’s a little weird..” Either way. It’s going to give you an idea of how naughty she is now with this one, you can’t wait too long to send her the something naughty texts. You should do it in about 10 or 15 minutes. While the idea of you texting her something naughty is still on her mind. And you simply just text her the word something and the word naughty with a smiley face or a winky face emoji.

Do you get it? She thought you were going to text her, actually something naughty like a naked picture or who knows what she’s thinking. And instead you just texted the words, something naughty I’ve even had girls reply with. “I wish you would have sent something a lot more naughty than that.” Again, it’s a good way to find out how naughty she is.

NUMBER 6 – Callback Humor

Number six is using callback humor. If you meet her at a bar or club, it should be a fun, playful interaction. It shouldn’t be super serious. Therefore, there should have been some things that you laughed or joked about. All you need to do now is just text her something that relates back to that funny thing that you guys joked about.

For example, maybe you and her role play that you were going to get married in Vegas and find the fattest Elvis impersonator you could find or something like that.

Then you could either keep going with that marriage role play as your first text, or you could even send a divorce roleplay as your first text. Like:

Hey wifey, I’ve been thinking, and I don’t know if it’s working out between us. I think we should get a divorce, make sure to use an LOL or a smiley winky face or some kind of emoji. So she knows you’re just kidding. It’s all part of the roleplay.

Here’s another example. This is from my book, Turn Her On Through Text. Let’s say you met a girl from England and she happens to be a nanny. So naturally you gave her the nickname, Mary Poppins, and you teased her all night long about it. Then of course, the next day you would text her something like, “Hey, Mary Poppins, don’t forget to give your kids their spoonful of sugar today.”

So just notice how these texts are more playful and fun because most guys send really lame, boring texts, which makes the woman assume that he’s lame and boring.. And then they go on a date with him. It’s just going to suck. Versus you who sending her a few fun and playful texts here and there.. now not ALL the time, but she’s at least going to assume that going on a date with you is probably going to be fun and playful, and she’ll be more likely to say yes to you.


NUMBER 5 – Cheeky Texts

Number five, cheeky texts. These are just some more fun playful, one liner, copy paste, kind of texts, the messages that use a play on words, for example: “Hey, crazy pants too soon for casual texts or are you textually active?”

Actually, I’m not super crazy about that one. I would probably send that as a second text. If she didn’t reply to my first text, I’d wait a day or two and then send her, are you textually active?

A better one is: “Hey, it’s Matt. Guard this number with your life.” which is sounds confident and presupposes that your number is important, A.K.A. YOU are very important.

NUMBER 4 – Endless Options Text

Number four is the endless options text. This one works great when you met a woman online on Tinder, Bumble hinge, whatever app there is nowadays, and you don’t want to seem like you’re taking online dating seriously.

Because if you do, it presupposes that you have no other options in real life because mobile dating apps, for sure, to beautiful woman, it’s kind of like just a game. She’s not taking it seriously. She goes on at once in a while just to see if there’s any options out there, but she’s probably not expecting too much.

And you should have that same mindset. It really shouldn’t be your number one source for meeting women.

The text is very simple. It’s just: “Hey, it’s Matt..” or whatever your name is, then “..from the thing“, which is just kind of a playful way of saying “Hey, it’s Matt from Tinder” or “Hey, it’s Matt from Bumble” but it just shows you that you’re not taking online dating so seriously because you can’t even remember the name of the app.

NUMBER 3 – Cliffhanger Texts

Number three is the cliffhanger texts. This one is really great for getting a reply back. In fact, I normally reserve it for sending it to a girl who hasn’t text back in a couple of days or numbers that have gone cold because it works so well for getting a reply.

It’s basically just sending her an incomplete sentence. It’s where she wants to know what you’re going to say next. For example, let’s say earlier today you met a cutie down by the pier. You could text her “Hey, it’s Matt. I think you have a confession to make…” So notice the cliffhanger there. She’s going to be really interested and eager to know what her confession is.

And then you can say something like “I think you have a huge crush on a man you met earlier down by the pier.” Notice how that’s a little cocky, but it shows confidence. Plus you’re doing it in a fun flirty way.

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NUMBER 2 – Sniper Text

Number two is the sniper texts. You should be doing this every time you get a woman’s phone number. Just like the “Something naughty” texts, it’s all about the setup.

Instead of you asking for her the phone number, you have to give her your number. So just say “Here, let me see your phone. I’m going to give you my number.” And then you take her phone. You can save your number in it if you want.

But the key to send yourself a text from her number that says, “Hey, you are so hot” – signed her name. And then about 10 or 15 minutes later, text or something like, “Aw, thanks. You’re not too bad yourself.” Trust me, man. This one works so well. That always get texts back. Cause it’s just so damn funny and they’re not expecting it.

NUMBER 1 – Recall Her Reaction

Number one is just recall her reaction. I put this at number one because it’s the one I use the most because it’s not so gimmicky. Like some of the others, it’s more of normal and natural.

It’s kind of like callback humor, but you’re not necessarily recalling back anything funny that you joked about because if you met her during the day, it might not have been such a playful interaction as it would be at a bar or club.

So instead of doing what everybody else does and say “Hey, nice meeting you!” STOP using the word “Nice.” It’s so overused. Instead say “So random meeting you” or “So unexpected meeting you” or “So fun meeting you” and then just recall her reaction. Did she seem really startled when you approached her? If so, say “It was cute how nervous you were when I said hi.” or “It was funny how shy you were when I said hi.” or if she seemed really friendly and flirty right away, then say that “You always flirt with cute guys at the mall?” or simply “Are you always so friendly to guys that you meet?” It’s simple, it’s intriguing. And if you made a great impression, when you first met her, she will text you back.

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If you didn’t make a great impression and you’re not getting a lot of replies back from your first text, then it’s probably not the first text that’s the issue. It’s the initial interaction.

You’re being way too friendly and platonic.

And so she feels like she wants to reciprocate by giving you her phone number, but she doesn’t feel any romantic feelings towards you. So if you want to master that, if you want to learn how to spark sensual attraction immediately and get her feeling desire from the moment that you say hi, then make sure to check out our live workshop schedule because we have workshops all over the world. And we also have online virtual mentorship programs where we still work with you one on one and help you get this part of your life handled for good.

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What to Text a Girl You Like (How to Text a Girl)

You’ve got her phone number; now what do you do? Well, in this video I’ll break down exactly what to text a girl you like to get a date fast. Because I typically send only three to five text messages to get a date. I’ll show you how to text a girl and I’ll give you those exact messages in just a second.

The key is that you have to stand out from all of the other guys that are messaging her. Because if she’s an attractive woman, then she’s getting bombarded by guys messaging her every single day. I’m going to show you exactly how to stand out.

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WHAT TO TEXT A GIRL YOU LIKE
(How to Text a Girl)

 

Okay, now let me help you out with your texting. I’m going to give you five texting tips and examples. And number five is the exact sequence that I use to get the date.

First, let’s clear one thing right now. Texting is a lot easier when you have a solid interaction in person. If you didn’t create any connection or attraction and you just had a nice, plutonic interaction, there’s not much you can do through texting to fix that.

Assuming you had an excellent face-to-face interaction, or maybe you got her phone number of Tinder, or Bumble, tip number one has to do with timing. Timing is crucial.

 

#1

Don’t text too soon or too late!

Typical Guy Tips:
Yeah, two’s enough not to look anxious, but I think three days is kind of money.
You know what? Maybe I’ll wait three weeks.

Wrong.

Don’t wait too long! If you meet a girl at a bar text her the next day, in the afternoon, because if you wait longer than that, the memories start to fade.

Women are being bombarded by messages from guys on Tinder and social media, so if you wait too long, she may already be into another guy.

I only text her the same night if I think there’s a chance that she might come over that night. I will text her what I’m doing. For example, “Went to go grab a pizza to kill the hangover,” or “Milkshakes at 2:00 AM rock!”

And if she replies, and says, “Mmm, I wish I could have a milkshake,” then, of course, I’m going to invite her. This works, because sometimes she just needed to drop off her friends then she’s willing to meet up alone.

If you meet a girl during the day, don’t wait more than 3 or 4 hours to send your first text, unless you had a really long or intimate interaction, which I’ll show you how to do, then you might still be on her mind the next day. But during the day I usually text her around 3 or 4 hours after I met her.

Now, what about replying to her texts?

How soon should you text back? The key here is to be random. Don’t always text back right away and don’t always wait too long.

Don’t just stop whatever you’re doing to check your phone and text her back. Keep your phone on silent. That way … Sometimes you’re going to text back right away. Sometimes you’re going to wait two or three hours. Sometimes you’re going to be waiting even longer, maybe all day, because you’re busy.

That keeps things a lot more random and prevents you from overthinking things and playing games. Just be a busy guy. Live a cool life. And text her randomly, because she is not the most essential thing in your life.

 

#2

Don’t over text.

The goal of texting is to get the date, not text all the time. When I’m coaching guys and look at their text, I see 20 or 30, text messages back and forth and they never asked her out. Don’t do that. Go for the date.

I go for the date usually within five texts, because why do more work than needed? Plus, if you’re texting her all the time, it shows her that you’re not a busy guy and don’t have much going on in your life. Women like guys that have other things going on in their life other than them.

Also, keep your texts short and sweet. Before you send the text, look through it again and see if there are any unnecessary words that you can eliminate. Don’t send a text that’s three or four sentences when you could have said the same thing with just one sentence.

 

#3

Be Playful!

Next, I want you to start being slightly more playful in your texts. Here’s why. If she sees you as a fun, playful guy, then she will assume that going on a date with you will also be fun and not dull.

But if you’re sending her a bunch of boring texts, like, “Hey, what’s up? What are you doing?” She’s going to assume that going on a date with you is going to be boring and that you are going just to ask her a bunch of annoying questions on the date.

Make things a little bit more interesting than the average guy. For example, instead of saying, “What’s up?”, or “What are you doing?” you could say, “What kind of trouble are you getting into this weekend?

Just adding the word trouble makes it a little bit more interesting. Instead of sending a ping text like, “Hey!” you could say something like, “Hey, you just popped into my head. What kind of weird voodoo magic are you using?” A text like that can actually make her smile, causing her to associate you with positive emotions. Whereas, “Hey!” doesn’t do anything. And there are a lot more examples of these in the free texting cheat sheet.

 


#4

Text Like A MAN!

Number four is Text like a man. What I mean by that is cut out unnecessary questions. Okay, sometimes you do want to ask her questions.

I like exciting questions, by the way, like, “If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?” Or, “If you could have any superpower, what would you have and why?

That can create some fun back and forth. But you want to avoid questions that make it seem like you’re not sure if she’s into you yet, or you’re not sure if she wants to hang out with you and use command statements instead. Instead of texting, “Want to meet up sometime?” say, “Hey! Let’s meet up Saturday night. I know this great place.

This shows that you assume that she’s attracted to you and wants to see you. And be more specific about when you want to hang out. Women like a man with a plan. So instead of “Let’s hang out sometime.” Send, “Hey, let’s hang out tomorrow night. I have an amusing idea…“. Or, tell her the exact location, “Cancel all plans tomorrow night. I know a great band that’s playing at Crazy Charlie’s. Let’s go. It’s gonna be fun.” It’s specific, and it’s a command instead of a question.

Now, I want to give you the exact sequence that I use, from start to finish, to go for a date. First, I start off with a callback, something that relates or calls back to the initial interaction.

If it was at night, then usually something funny, that we joked about, or that I teased her about. For example, if we did a fun marriage role play, I might text her the next day “Hey wifey I cheated on you with the housekeeper don’t be mad.”

If we met during the day, then I might recall something that happened during the initial interaction such as her reaction to my approach.

For example, “So crazy meeting you today. It was cute how you dropped your phone when I said hi.” Or, if she didn’t drop her phone, but she just seemed nervous, I might say, “It was cute how nervous you got when I said hi.”

Notice also, how I don’t say “nice meeting you” because the word “nice” is too overused. Be more original than that and say, “so random meeting you,” or, “so unexpected meeting you.”

And then, after she replies, send a fun yet challenging text like, “Make it or break it question. Would you rather be poor and travel the world or be rich but could never leave your city?” I use this one because I love to travel. I encourage you to pick something that qualifies her or screens her based on a quality that you that you want in a woman.

But don’t make it too complicated. Don’t start asking her about her passions and goals in life. That’s too long and personal through text. Keep it fun and save those questions that for the date.

 

#5

Qualify Her.

By the way, you should be qualifying and challenging women in your initial interactions as well. Let them win you over. A woman wants to win you over. She wants to chase you a little bit. Okay? She doesn’t want a guy who’s just too easy and falls head over heels over her right away.

And I like the “make it or break it” part because that’s what actually makes it sound like a challenge. Or, for example, you if you like adventurous women, you can text, “Tell me this, are you adventurous?

It’s short and sweet and causes her to invest a little. And then after she replies to that, there might be a little bit of back and forth, depending on her answer. Then find out what her schedule is, when is she free. Just ask, “When are you free this week?”

Or if you want to be more playful, you could add in, “Besides missing and doodling hearts on a piece of paper, what are you doing this weekend?

Remember to keep it fun and playful. Don’t be too serious. And then, just go for the date. For example, if she said she’s free on Sunday, you can text,

Okay, listen. I have a super fun idea. Keep Sunday night open.” I like that because it gets her wondering what the fun idea is. It sounds like a surprise.

And, some women will just go for that. Other women might ask, “What is the fun idea?” In which I just say, “Cool bar that you probably haven’t been to. First, meet at Handle Bar. Be there at 8:00 PM.”

That works really well. Try it out, man. Remember, women like a man with a plan who go for what they want.

 

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