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How to Get Women’s Attention Like Ryan Gosling in Crazy, Stupid, Love

Head dating coach Matt breaks down Ryan Goslings “look of desire” on Emma Stone in Crazy, Stupid, Love, and shows how you too, can do it in real life..with some tweaks, of course. Learn how to get women’s attention by watching our video below:

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HOW TO GET WOMEN’S ATTENTION
Ryan Gosling in Crazy, Stupid, Love

Crazy Stupid Love stars Ryan Gosling with Emma Stone as his love interest. In this scene where Matt breaks down, Ryan uses his wits and charm to try and win Emma over.

We know most of it is movie magic, and that this will never pass in real life. Or does it? Most of Ryan Goslings’ actions, lines, body language, tonality and mentality actually can get a girls attention in real life.

With a few explanations, Matt demonstrates how some actions in these scenes are highly effective when flirting with women in an actual setting. You don’t have to memorize lines or fake routines to get her attention. Most of it is inner game, or inner confidence.

When you are grounded and confident in yourself and in your actions and when you let go of your insecurities.. You will notice a natural flow of charm and attraction within you.

Matt, through his movie scene breakdown of Ryan Goslings’ Crazy Stupid Love, shows you:
– How to get a girls attention
– How to not be needy
– How to impress a girl right from the start
– The proper way to deal with rejection
– How to react when she says “no!”
– How to flirt like a boss
– How to make her notice you
– How to be fun
– How not to be boring

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How To Flirt With Girls Like George Clooney (Without the Money or Fame)

Okay, look…  George Clooney has a certain charm that drives women crazy, but it’s not just because he is rich, famous, and good looking.

There are tons of rich, famous and good-looking men that don’t have the sex appeal of George Clooney.

So what is it? What does he do differently?

Well, I will break it down in this video…

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How To Flirt With Girls Like George Clooney

George Clooney has many traits a woman is looking for in a classy man. He’s both a badass and a gentleman, and that drives women crazy! He can approach women and have them fall for him effortlessly!

Looking at it from a deeper perspective, it’s not just his fame that landed him in the hearts of millions of women around the world – rather, it’s what he does; the walk, the talk, the mentality of a successful classy Man.

So, what makes Clooney one of the most attractive men on the planet?

#1

His Body Language Emits “Relaxed Confidence”

Body language is what women first see even at a distance and before you speak to her. This is a major factor in creating the first impression, and first impressions are crucial.

What George Clooney’s doing right:

  • He’s not moving fast.
  • He moves with grace.
  • He usually has a smirk on his face, almost as if he’s saying: “I love my life and I bet you’d want to be a part of it!

Take a look at how George Clooney moves. Notice how he has a relaxed swagger about him like everything is going his way. He looks high status, and it’s not just because of his clothes.

This calm, confident body language and expression makes him stand out, and girls notice. 

What men usually do wrong:

  • Looking down while walking
  • Slouching
  • Moving quickly in a jerking motion
  • Fidgeting, scratching, and other unnecessary movements

How to fix it:

Most guys  look down while walking but looking down is an unconscious submissive behavior. And it’s also a sign of being depressed. What you can do is focus on keeping your head up and looking where you’re going.

Another very important part to attractive body language is to slow things down. Don’t move quickly or in a jerky motionFidgeting shows that you’re not grounded while moving calmly has a way of  demonstrating status and confidence. . These might be subtle movements, but women will instinctively notice them.

So from now on, pay attention to how you move. Walk like you own the place. Grab your balls, tell yourself you’re the MAN and MAN UP. Remember, You’re the prize, you’re the guy who’s gonna get the girl!

#2

His Voice Is Damn Sexy

Clooney possesses a great natural control of his “Bedroom voice” -which is a deep, relaxing, yet strong and commanding tone that sets the mood and creates immediate sexual tension when done right.

What George Clooney’s doing right:

  • Speaks clearly and slowly
  • Pauses while talking
  • Uses a low voice
  • Speaking is relaxed and doesn’t feel forced

He speaks in an at ease tone and with a low voice. And in case you don’t know, women are attracted to lower voices. He also slows down his speech, which is similar to what I mentioned about the body language.

What men usually do wrong:

  • Talking too quickly, stuttering
  • Not pausing
  • Trying too hard to imitate another voice
  • Using a higher pitch when ending sentences

How to fix it:

Slowing down your speech and using pauses, creates romantic tension. It’s very powerful and these two things help to set the mood. As I said, women are attracted to lower voices. But don’t try to imitate another voice – because you’ll end up sounding unnatural and you’re going to mess it up.

What you can do is master your own voice with practice. Everyone has their own voice, so make sure you speak clearly, with a lower tone, and pause so you’ll avoid stuttering. Also, when you’re talking too fast, there is no romantic tension, and it sounds like you’re not sure of yourself.

So remember, be conscious of how you speak.


#3

His Eye Contact Is Irresistible To Women

Just by the way he looks at women, he can turn her on and trigger desire. Notice how when Clooney is looking at a girl, it’s like he “wants her” and he knows she wants him.

What George Clooney’s doing right:

  • Maintains strong eye contact
  • Looks at her with desire (and not the creepy way!)
  • Isn’t afraid or intimidated by a girls stare

It’s not just any regular eye contact, it’s sexual eye contact.  It’s a look that’s full of power and confidence that can slowly put you in a trance. Like he’s tracing your thoughts and piercing into your soul… GET OUT OF MY HEAD GEORGE CLOONEY!

What men usually do wrong:

  • Release eye contact
  • Looks from one direction to another then goes back to eye contact (the creepy way)
  • Gets intimidated and stares away while talking

How to fix it:

Don’t be afraid to look deep into her eyes. It shows you’re engaged and interested and it creates romantic tension. But you can’t just stare at her bug eyes. Instead, look at her like you know you are going to give her the utmost sexual satisfaction if she’s so lucky.

And here’s a pro tip for you! When maintaining eye contact, look into HER left eye only, don’t switch between the eyes. Just look in one eye, and she will feel you are really connecting with her. Practice in front of the mirror, so you hone this skill.

BONUS: #4

“What If?”

There’s a reason behind why the scene with JLo & Clooney in the movie “Out of Sight” is so seductive.What he says in that clip will make women want to sleep with you fast!

Note how he asks the questions “What if” and talks about not missing life’s opportunities. Specifically the opportunity of running into someone you love. He tells a girl to live life without regrets – and that she should be taking risks.

“What if I had stopped? What if I had said something?”

He’s essentially telling her that she should live in the moment and to not let opportunities pass her… in other words, “The opportunity to be with him.”

I say something similar to a girl before I start escalating romantically. You see, all women have the instinctual nature to be sensual. Their bodies are wired to give them intense and continuous pleasure. However, society and culture have played their part in suppressing these raw emotions. Making women believe that they should conform to what people tell them to – this leads to what we call the “anti-slut defense” that women often have that prevents them from sleeping with a guy even if they want to.

How to break the “anti-slut defense”:

  • Talking about her feeling free and seizing opportunities will show her that you’re not going to judge her for her actions. Women hold back their intimate desires because they don’t want to be judged, they don’t want to be labeled as sluts and shunned by society.
  • Opening up about intimate topics in a calm and reassuring way builds trust- and the more she trusts you, the more likely the relationship will become more intimate.

There’s a lot more to George Clooney than just his fame or his looks. He’s an Attractive Man by all standards. We can’t all be a George Clooney, but knowing how he does it can help you boost your own charisma around the ladies.


To help you out with what you need to say, I created this Free Conversation Cheat Sheet where I break down exactly what to say after “Hi” to make her want you.

You get:

  • My top conversation starters for any situation…
  • Simple techniques to never run out of things to say…
  • A list of my favorite games to play that create a fun-flirty vibe
  • And simple ways to escalate the interaction.
  • And more!

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The ONE THING YOU MUST DO when flirting with women…

In today’s video, I’m talking about the ONE THING GUYS leave out when flirting with women. Click the link below to help you master how to flirt with women.

If you leave this part out, she won’t feel special. She’ll feel like you only want her for her looks.

She will see you like all the other guys.

Yup, we’re talking about qualification.

I go into the details in this video.

 

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The ONE THING YOU MUST Do Is…

Qualify.

Qualifying. It shows that you have standards, shows that you are a challenge, which presupposes that you must have other women in your life, other women at her caliber.

Here’s what to say to qualify: I don’t know anything about you, so I don’t know if we can hang out yet, but tell me one cool thing about you because I’m very picky. What are you, what are you passionate about it? Like what are you?

I imagine she’s gorgeous, knockout, right? The supermodel. But you normally date average looking women. What do you do? You treat her like every other woman.

But, most guys wouldn’t do that. They’d be, wow, yeah, I’ll take you to your favorite restaurant. I’ll take you out anytime. I’m free all week. Most guys would throw themselves at her. Do you want to be like other guys? Just treat her like normal and qualify her. You’re not sure of her and you want to find out if she’s the right fit for you. That shows that you must date women of her caliber, of her quality and of her status. And women want a guy who has higher status than them.

So, if you have the body language and you communicate that you date women of lower status, she’s not going to be interested. No woman wants to date a guy who dates women of lower status.

When you approach her in this relaxed way that I just showed you, it shows that you’re comfortable around her.

You’re comfortable around beautiful high quality women and that you expect them to like you. You wouldn’t approach a girl if you didn’t think she wouldn’t like you. You wouldn’t approach a girl if you expected rejection, you know, a guy wouldn’t do that. It doesn’t make sense, oh, this girl’s not going to like me because I don’t date women like her. She’s way too beautiful for me, but I’m gonna go talk to her anyway.

When you qualify, right away, she’s going to think you are high status. You are telling her, I don’t even know if I want your number because I don’t even know if you’re up to my status.

I don’t even know if you’re worthy enough for me to get your phone number and this isn’t like an egotistical thing like you’re better than her, but it’s just you don’t know.

You don’t know what she is. You don’t know if she can be a great woman, she could be a terrible woman. You don’t know. You’re just trying to find out. In the daytime situation, you don’t have time to find out everything.


Her looks got her foot in the door. That’s why you’re talking to her, but now she has to win you over so that you actually want her phone number.

First. You got to have standards. You’ve got to have what are the non-physical attributes that you’re looking for in a woman, so your homework assignment and write this down: make a list of 10 nonphysical qualities that you want in a woman and be specific.

Don’t just say, I want to grow with a good personality. What does that mean? What kind of personality do you want to grow with? A great sense of humor? What kind of sense of humor?

There are types of humor that you wouldn’t be attracted to. Do you like kind of offbeat, sarcastic humor? Slap-stick? Have five non-physical qualities that are non-negotiable. She must have those five. Then you could have five that you’d like in a woman but are okay with them not having those qualities. Like, I love a girl that can cook, but if she can’t cook, that’s not a deal breaker.

Qualifying does make her like you. It does make her see you as higher status. It gets her to qualify herself to you. Then, therefore, she’s investing in the interaction. She’s working for you. We as humans, we appreciate what we have to work for.

Think about if somebody just gave you a free car here, here’s the keys to a brand new car. It’s yours. You think you’d take care of it as well as if you had to work for two years to save up for that car,

Appreciate what you have to work for. Take care of it more. You value it more. If you don’t make her work for it at all, she’s not going to value it. The number’s not going to be solid. Qualifying is a technique that gets her to like you more, but it’s not just the technique. It isn’t a trick or a gimmick. It should be real. You should actually want to see if there’s something more about her. Qualifying is about finding and connecting to the woman of your dreams.

Now sometimes I get guys that are like, well, I don’t care. I haven’t gotten laid in so long. I just need a girlfriend or I need a date.

I tell them to qualify anyway because if they keep doing it, they keep asking those qualification questions, eventually, they’ll care about the answer. Maybe not the first couple of times, but eventually you will care and meet a girl who just gives you some crap answer and you’ll be like, oh, I don’t like that.

And you’ll leave… when you leave a beautiful woman because she didn’t match your qualifications. That’s a powerful moment. It’s like, Whoa, I have a choice.


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-Matt Artisan