Watch as Matt Artisan, Head Instructor for The Attractive Man shows you how to approach a girl during the day and get a number under 3 minutes.
Make sure you pay attention to what he says, his eye contact, his body language, and his attitude. In another post we will break down exactly what to do so you can get dates too.
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Frequently Ask Questions:
It’s the idea that you close 90% of the physical distance while leaving the final 10% for her to close. This gives her the choice to lean in or pull back, so the moment feels mutual instead of forced or sudden.
Look for closeness, sustained eye contact, and relaxed body language pointed toward you. If conversation pauses naturally and she isn’t pulling away, that lull is often the right window to move in slowly and confidently.
Focus on genuine connection over a short window — light touches on the arm, playful teasing, and full attention all speed up comfort and chemistry. The setting matters too; a quieter, more private spot helps things progress naturally.
Preferences vary, but many people respond well to a kiss that starts slow and unhurried rather than rushed. A longer, more intentional first kiss often feels more genuine than a fast peck, even in a “quick” approach scenario.
Keep steady eye contact, glance briefly at her lips, and move in slowly rather than lunging. Moving slowly gives her time to meet you halfway, which removes the awkwardness of an abrupt or one-sided attempt.