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Best Messages That Get a Reply

I get it man! It flat out sucks! Texting with a hottie and she seems super on and then bam! She doesn’t text you back. (Makes you wonder – What are the best messages that get a reply?)

You start freaking out and start over analyzing  – What the heck did you do wrong in the last text? No period?? That’s probably why? Nah. What was it?

Look man, I know how aggravating it must be when a girl you really like doesn’t text you back, so in this video I show you exactly what to text her when she doesn’t reply back to reignite that smoking hot flame of desire and get her eagerly texting you back.

I’m giving you 5 texts that you can send her when she doesn’t reply that will get her texting back.


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Best Messages That Get a Reply

Before we dive right in you need to understand why women wouldn’t text back.. Remember men, if she’s a beautiful woman she probably had a lot of other guys texting her and buying for her attention so just because she doesn’t text back doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you it just means she has a lot of options.. which is why you need to watch my other videos on how to text girls so that you’ll be in the situation where you’ll be the one getting a date with her instead of her ghosting you.

Also just remember man that people seem to be busier nowadays than ever and there’s so many distractions – so maybe she had every intention to text you back but NOT instantly. That’s even if you’ve used this, the best messages that get a reply.

One time I was in with my ex girlfriend and her best friend suddenly texts, she had every intention to text back a little later because our group was busy at the time. But she just forgot it! Took her over a week to finally text her best friend back.

A lot of times what happens is the girl actually likes the guy but he just forgets to text them back and then he gets all aggravated and pissed off and end up sending a pissed off text message.

Don’t do that. First impressions matter – they last, and they can make or break all the attraction and potential attraction you may have.

Number 5 – Any Random/Funny text

So number 5 is basically just enter any kind of out of the blue random text. I don’t mean like “Hey how’s your day going!” or “Hey what’s up!”.. I mean something cheeky funny or witty. I prefer a role play such as “Hey I’m bored lets rob a bank!”

It’s all so random she just feels compelled to write back thinking like “Is he serious?” I’m pretty sure its not serious and sometimes she’ll just go along. If one time they say “sure I’m in!” and you just keep the role play going great. Like a funny scenario about how you both go shopping for ski masks together, something you pick up the pink one for her if I could take it so far. I use it as a way to meet up with her and I told her to meet me at the bar that’s across the street from the bank of America so we can plan our heist. It was great because when she showed up we only had this kind of Bonnie and Clyde vibe going on.

Number 4 – Cliffhanger Text

Number 4 is the cliffhanger text which is kinda like a sentence that’s incomplete and she really wants to know what you’re going to say next. For example, “You know what I like about you?” then “…” 

IF she does reply back you can always say “You like the play hard to get”. If you haven’t been replying back lately for another good one is – “you know what I think about you?…” 

People love to know what others think about them. Maybe you’ve heard that everybody’s favorite subject is themselves? What people love more than actually talking about themselves is hearing about themselves.

Another good one is –  “Would you like to hear a secret?…” I’m actually using this one as my tinder openers and they almost always reply with something like “yeah sure what is it?” and I say “I kinda have a crush on this girl..” I describe her a little bit and say “shhh don’t tell her” and almost always gets a laugh and of course a reply back.

Number 3 – Post Something Cool on Social Media

First of course the girl has to actually be following you on social media or it will not work. You can play the long game.. maybe she’s not texting you back right now but maybe she has a relationship now. You met her, she’s into you but for whatever reason she just didn’t meet up with you maybe she was already kind of more involved with another guy – then that relationship turned sour and she’s single again.

That’s why this makes part of the best messages to get a reply, even when its not simply just a message.

Even when she was in a relationship she might still look at your post on social media so as long as you’re posting interesting things.. things that are more interesting than the food you’re eating! Like traveling or just hanging out with friends and she sees that you have a relatively interesting life. All she has to do is reply to one of your stories or one of your posts and boom you’re back in the game this can also make her see that you’re not just sitting around and waiting for her to text you back she, sees that you’re going out with friends are doing things you’re living your life that.

Oftentimes a girl just randomly hit me up and replied to my stories after I post something cool on my Instagram.


Number 2 – Call it Out in a Funny Way

Word of warning I only recommend doing this after you sent either a random text or cliffhanger text.. and she didn’t reply back.

Wait a few days.. and then text something funny to call out the situation. Here’s one my favorites – “Amber alert – says the hot nerd who I’m going to school in Pool is missing, text me if you see her”.

The key is to be descriptive and customize it to her and that way.

You have to do it in a silly funny way like I said earlier. The best messages that get a reply won’t work IF you seem upset about it you’re gonna shoot yourself in the foot. She’s gonna think you’re needy. She’s gonna think you have 0 other options and she’s going to lose attraction for you.

Number 1 – These 4 words:

Here’s a text that can actually work. It’s very simple. 4 words – “Are you still alive?”

The reason this works is because after she hasn’t replied to 2 or 3 or more of your texts back to back it looks kind of needy because you’re giving to her and you’re not getting anything in return. So this text kinda presupposes that a word about her and beat them up doesn’t make sense that women wouldn’t text amazing awesome guy like yourself back.. so maybe something bad happened to her and you just checking it.

I got several women who didn’t reply to my past previous text messages over the past week or two to reply to this text. Yep sometimes that reply is “Oh sorry I’m in a relationship now” but a few times it rekindled the interaction.

The point is don’t be caught up on just one girl or 2 girls that you’re texting.. do you really want a girl you’re trying so hard to attract and she keeps running the other direction? You want to give and take. You don’t wanna be the one chasing, chasing, chasing.. she’s running, running, running.. 

You want to be a man that has some options.

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How to Get More Matches on Tinder, Hinge and Bumble

Today’s episode is on how to get more matches on Tinder, Hinge and Bumble with Coaches Matt, Lynn and Kal. We’ll show you examples of how to optimize your online dating profile so you’ll get more matches, AND show you how to start converting all those matches into dates!

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Online Dating Podcast

Online dating is a competition. Especially on dating apps like Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble. Let’s face it – if you’ve got an average or regular online dating profile, it doesn’t actually guarantee a match now, does it?

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Well, that’s what you’re going to learn here today. You see, there’s a big difference between “winging it” and having a solid strategy for what you put on your dating profile. And no, a selfie with your abs doesn’t cut it.

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How to Call a Girl this 2020 | Calling and Messaging Advice

Do you know how to call a girl this 2020? Or maybe the big question from you is should you call girls on the phone nowadays when it seems like all anyone wants to do it text?

What about video calls and voice messages? Well You probably feel like you don’t know what to say on the phone so why not just stick to texting?

Well calling can give you a huge advantage over all the other guys texting her and believe me if she’s an attractive woman then she has a lot of guys texting her. And if you call her you can be the one who she wants to see again IF you do it the right way, and I’m going to show you exactly how to make her eager for your call and actually pick up the phone when you call and get a date with her in under 5 minutes:

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Messaging and Call Advice

So you have a girl’s number. Or you have her social media. You’re going to try to message her on FaceBook or Instagram, or Twitter, or whatever platform.

Or maybe just plain old texting a girl. What do you do next? You might be thinking and asking yourself tons of questions after that. When do I send the first text? What’s a good first text to send? How often should I text her? WHAT should I text a girl? How soon should I ask her out?


Or what if these kinds of questions popped out instead.. Should I call her? Should I call or text her? Should you call or text women during these times? Will a call help? Will she answer my call?

Don’t worry, The Attractive Man team is here to help out. He’ll show you the answer to whether or not you should text her or call her. He’ll also show you how to call a girl, how to text a girl, in order to NOT creep her out and spark attraction.

You see, the key is to remain calm, be masculine, assertive, and NOT needy or questionable. We’ll show you how to remain grounded in your texts and how to show you are alpha in your replies.

We’ll also show you how to master your manly voice, the alpha tone, during calls and how to establish your masculinity and confidence through calling. How to talk to a girl, in a way that will turn her on. How to keep a conversation going, how to never run out of things to say. And most importantly, how to set up a date. Sometimes men rely too much on messaging and texting when what they should do is establish a way to meet up and talk to each other face to face.

Now that may be different during the pandemic and during times of quarantine. Matt makes sure to address that as well. This is also important – So what if she doesn’t respond? What if she won’t answer the call? Keep cool and analyze the situation.

It’s not the end of the world man! Don’t send another text, don’t make that call. Not UNTIL you see this.

Sending the wrong texts can remove your chances at ever seeing her again. I don’t want you missing out on what should already be yours.

Calling her at the wrong time or the wrong way does the same thing. Having a great start to a texting conversation is crucial to building trust.

Knowing how to text her the right way, especially in how to send the first text, will make or break your date night. The same is true and is even more effective when you call a girl. Know more on how to text a girl to get a date in our other videos! Make sure to stay tuned for more tips on how to text a girl, how to get her number, and how to get a date on The Attractive Man channel!

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Online Dating (Dating during the Corona virus PANDEMIC)

Online dating? If you’re wondering what to do during the COVID-19 pandemic, look no further…

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Dating During the COVID-19 Pandemic

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What to Text a Girl You Like (How to Text a Girl)

You’ve got her phone number; now what do you do? Well, in this video I’ll break down exactly what to text a girl you like to get a date fast. Because I typically send only three to five text messages to get a date. I’ll show you how to text a girl and I’ll give you those exact messages in just a second.

The key is that you have to stand out from all of the other guys that are messaging her. Because if she’s an attractive woman, then she’s getting bombarded by guys messaging her every single day. I’m going to show you exactly how to stand out.

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WHAT TO TEXT A GIRL YOU LIKE
(How to Text a Girl)

 

Okay, now let me help you out with your texting. I’m going to give you five texting tips and examples. And number five is the exact sequence that I use to get the date.

First, let’s clear one thing right now. Texting is a lot easier when you have a solid interaction in person. If you didn’t create any connection or attraction and you just had a nice, plutonic interaction, there’s not much you can do through texting to fix that.

Assuming you had an excellent face-to-face interaction, or maybe you got her phone number of Tinder, or Bumble, tip number one has to do with timing. Timing is crucial.

 

#1

Don’t text too soon or too late!

Typical Guy Tips:
Yeah, two’s enough not to look anxious, but I think three days is kind of money.
You know what? Maybe I’ll wait three weeks.

Wrong.

Don’t wait too long! If you meet a girl at a bar text her the next day, in the afternoon, because if you wait longer than that, the memories start to fade.

Women are being bombarded by messages from guys on Tinder and social media, so if you wait too long, she may already be into another guy.

I only text her the same night if I think there’s a chance that she might come over that night. I will text her what I’m doing. For example, “Went to go grab a pizza to kill the hangover,” or “Milkshakes at 2:00 AM rock!”

And if she replies, and says, “Mmm, I wish I could have a milkshake,” then, of course, I’m going to invite her. This works, because sometimes she just needed to drop off her friends then she’s willing to meet up alone.

If you meet a girl during the day, don’t wait more than 3 or 4 hours to send your first text, unless you had a really long or intimate interaction, which I’ll show you how to do, then you might still be on her mind the next day. But during the day I usually text her around 3 or 4 hours after I met her.

Now, what about replying to her texts?

How soon should you text back? The key here is to be random. Don’t always text back right away and don’t always wait too long.

Don’t just stop whatever you’re doing to check your phone and text her back. Keep your phone on silent. That way … Sometimes you’re going to text back right away. Sometimes you’re going to wait two or three hours. Sometimes you’re going to be waiting even longer, maybe all day, because you’re busy.

That keeps things a lot more random and prevents you from overthinking things and playing games. Just be a busy guy. Live a cool life. And text her randomly, because she is not the most essential thing in your life.

 

#2

Don’t over text.

The goal of texting is to get the date, not text all the time. When I’m coaching guys and look at their text, I see 20 or 30, text messages back and forth and they never asked her out. Don’t do that. Go for the date.

I go for the date usually within five texts, because why do more work than needed? Plus, if you’re texting her all the time, it shows her that you’re not a busy guy and don’t have much going on in your life. Women like guys that have other things going on in their life other than them.

Also, keep your texts short and sweet. Before you send the text, look through it again and see if there are any unnecessary words that you can eliminate. Don’t send a text that’s three or four sentences when you could have said the same thing with just one sentence.

 

#3

Be Playful!

Next, I want you to start being slightly more playful in your texts. Here’s why. If she sees you as a fun, playful guy, then she will assume that going on a date with you will also be fun and not dull.

But if you’re sending her a bunch of boring texts, like, “Hey, what’s up? What are you doing?” She’s going to assume that going on a date with you is going to be boring and that you are going just to ask her a bunch of annoying questions on the date.

Make things a little bit more interesting than the average guy. For example, instead of saying, “What’s up?”, or “What are you doing?” you could say, “What kind of trouble are you getting into this weekend?

Just adding the word trouble makes it a little bit more interesting. Instead of sending a ping text like, “Hey!” you could say something like, “Hey, you just popped into my head. What kind of weird voodoo magic are you using?” A text like that can actually make her smile, causing her to associate you with positive emotions. Whereas, “Hey!” doesn’t do anything. And there are a lot more examples of these in the free texting cheat sheet.

 


#4

Text Like A MAN!

Number four is Text like a man. What I mean by that is cut out unnecessary questions. Okay, sometimes you do want to ask her questions.

I like exciting questions, by the way, like, “If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?” Or, “If you could have any superpower, what would you have and why?

That can create some fun back and forth. But you want to avoid questions that make it seem like you’re not sure if she’s into you yet, or you’re not sure if she wants to hang out with you and use command statements instead. Instead of texting, “Want to meet up sometime?” say, “Hey! Let’s meet up Saturday night. I know this great place.

This shows that you assume that she’s attracted to you and wants to see you. And be more specific about when you want to hang out. Women like a man with a plan. So instead of “Let’s hang out sometime.” Send, “Hey, let’s hang out tomorrow night. I have an amusing idea…“. Or, tell her the exact location, “Cancel all plans tomorrow night. I know a great band that’s playing at Crazy Charlie’s. Let’s go. It’s gonna be fun.” It’s specific, and it’s a command instead of a question.

Now, I want to give you the exact sequence that I use, from start to finish, to go for a date. First, I start off with a callback, something that relates or calls back to the initial interaction.

If it was at night, then usually something funny, that we joked about, or that I teased her about. For example, if we did a fun marriage role play, I might text her the next day “Hey wifey I cheated on you with the housekeeper don’t be mad.”

If we met during the day, then I might recall something that happened during the initial interaction such as her reaction to my approach.

For example, “So crazy meeting you today. It was cute how you dropped your phone when I said hi.” Or, if she didn’t drop her phone, but she just seemed nervous, I might say, “It was cute how nervous you got when I said hi.”

Notice also, how I don’t say “nice meeting you” because the word “nice” is too overused. Be more original than that and say, “so random meeting you,” or, “so unexpected meeting you.”

And then, after she replies, send a fun yet challenging text like, “Make it or break it question. Would you rather be poor and travel the world or be rich but could never leave your city?” I use this one because I love to travel. I encourage you to pick something that qualifies her or screens her based on a quality that you that you want in a woman.

But don’t make it too complicated. Don’t start asking her about her passions and goals in life. That’s too long and personal through text. Keep it fun and save those questions that for the date.

 

#5

Qualify Her.

By the way, you should be qualifying and challenging women in your initial interactions as well. Let them win you over. A woman wants to win you over. She wants to chase you a little bit. Okay? She doesn’t want a guy who’s just too easy and falls head over heels over her right away.

And I like the “make it or break it” part because that’s what actually makes it sound like a challenge. Or, for example, you if you like adventurous women, you can text, “Tell me this, are you adventurous?

It’s short and sweet and causes her to invest a little. And then after she replies to that, there might be a little bit of back and forth, depending on her answer. Then find out what her schedule is, when is she free. Just ask, “When are you free this week?”

Or if you want to be more playful, you could add in, “Besides missing and doodling hearts on a piece of paper, what are you doing this weekend?

Remember to keep it fun and playful. Don’t be too serious. And then, just go for the date. For example, if she said she’s free on Sunday, you can text,

Okay, listen. I have a super fun idea. Keep Sunday night open.” I like that because it gets her wondering what the fun idea is. It sounds like a surprise.

And, some women will just go for that. Other women might ask, “What is the fun idea?” In which I just say, “Cool bar that you probably haven’t been to. First, meet at Handle Bar. Be there at 8:00 PM.”

That works really well. Try it out, man. Remember, women like a man with a plan who go for what they want.

 

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