how to be attractive to women

How To Plant The Idea In Her Mind That She’s Going Home With You

Wanna discover yet again how to be attractive to women? Do you know why bringing home a girl you just met is called getting luckyIt’s called that because most guys don’t know what they did differently to bring “this” girl home.

When I first got started on this journey, I remember it was like walking on an Indiana Jones wobbly bridge. Sometimes I would go home alone, frustrated that I spent all that time out with nothing to show for it. Other times, I was having some of the best adventures of my life that made those hours out all worth it.

Even with these amazing nights, there was still a problem.

I didn’t know what I was doing differently with girls I left with compared to the girls that went nowhere. And I didn’t know how to be attractive to women in a way that delivered consistent results.

how to be attractive to women

Finally, after some reading and research, I figured it out.

I figured out one of the key “techniques” you need to use to help you consistently cross that bridge from a stranger to a lover.

If you’ve been studying the game or going through some of our courses, you know that there are 5 fundamentals of closing.

The overarching theme of these techniques, by the way, is that you’re proactive about the pull.

Most guys get lucky because they talk and talk and talk and then at the end of the night ask the girl, “Want to go to my place?”

Instead, what made my results more consistent was being proactive about bringing a girl home from the moment I started the interaction.

Now, there are a lot of elements that go into getting a girl attracted to you, comfortable with you and then seducing her, but what I want to talk about today is one technique that is very powerful when it comes to proactively bringing a girl home.

Planting The Seed That She Is Going Home With You

The technique I want to talk about today is “Seeding the pull.”

If you don’t know, it’s like the movie Inception; plant the idea in the girls head that you two will be hanging out later.

It’s like when a friend says to you, “After the bar let’s go hang out at my house.”

When you agree, you now have the idea that after the bar you’re heading to your friend’s place.

We want to have the girl in that position. The way to do this is planting the seed early.  I like to do this while getting the logistics.

For example, if I want to know if a girl lives near me, I’ll ask where she’s from. If she lives near me, I’ll plant the idea that we’re hanging out later.

My favorite one is, “Let’s go grab food after this.

When I meet a girl, I’m quick to ask where she’s from and plant the idea, “Let’s get food later.” All this happens within the first 5 minutes. This line works well during the day after an instant date for coffee or trying to bring a girl home from the club.

If you want to know how to be attractive to women in a way that provides consistent results, it’s also crucial that you keep reminding her of that seed you planted. Water it, so it grows.

Once I plant the seed of getting food later, I’ll keep bringing up the topic of food. “What’s your favorite food? Where do you normally go out to eat? My favorite place to go to after this is XYZ. I’m looking forward to going to XYZ after this.

The reason I like to use grabbing food is that usually, it’s a bit tougher to build comfort in a nightclub than if you two were sitting down somewhere. If you’ve been following us or studying the game, you’ll know a girl needs attraction and comfort before seduction, and the game is mainly played in comfort.

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Also, I don’t know about you, but after a night out I’m usually hungry and so is the girl, so I find “grabbing food” is an easier win than trying to go straight to your place. Remember, you want to baby step her to your place meaning you visit a few places along the journey of where you first meet to your place.

Some other ideas are, let’s go grab a drink at XYZ place (like a lounge or bar with little distractions), after party at my place, come see my pet, I got to show you that funny video I mentioned earlier, or any other idea you can come up with.

Repeating makes the idea more real. I’m exaggerating but if she said yes 100 times to grabbing a pizza later, when you finally say, “Let’s go grab a pizza,” she can’t say no. Oh, and the reason I normally go for pizza is that it’s one of those foods that almost everyone likes and you can get it by the slices, so it’s quick, easy and doesn’t get the girl full to the point where she’s passing out.

Planting the seed also makes that transition of moving from one place to the next so much smoother.

If I’m out and want to bring a girl back, it’s so much easier when I plant the seed than what I used to do. What I used to do was not say anything at all about us hanging out later today until the very end.

Only when she was about to leave did I ask, “Do you want to come over?” It’s too random, out of the blue, and you didn’t get a chance to build it up.

When you made it clear that you guys are grabbing food after this and she agreed, then saying, “Let’s grab food” and leading the way is the logical next step. She is going to go with you.

Here’s a simple structure you can use to plant a seed successfully:

Imagine where you are a girl and where you want to be is a bridge. Use what’s on the other side to plant the seed. And that seed will grow into your bridge to get across.

Say I’m at a coffee shop with a girl, and I know I want to bring her to a quick place to grab food near me. I’ll plant the idea that, “Hey, I want to take you to one of my favorite restaurants real quick after our coffee.

I wouldn’t wait to say this until she’s about to leave. I’d say this while we’re waiting for our coffee. And I would say it as early as possible, so I can build up the idea that, “You are going to love this place. They have the coolest….”

Make her want to cross that bridge with you.

When it’s time to go, there’s a smooth transition. You don’t have to be Harry Houdini and pull a trick out of your sleeves trying to convince the girl to go to the next place. You already agreed to that 20 minutes ago.

Your Weekend Mission (If you choose to accept)

Beginners: Reflect on your last 3 approaches. Did you plant any seeds to extend the interaction?

Make at least 5 approaches with the goal of getting an instant date. Try planting the seed to go from the instant date to the next spot.

If you don’t get the instant date, plant the seed for meeting up in the future (good way to transition into getting her number). “Since you can’t grab coffee/drink now, what day are you free?…Alright, let’s grab a coffee then. What’s your number so I can text you?

Advanced: Reflect on your last 3 approaches. Did you plant any seeds to extend the interaction?

Make at least 10 approaches with the goal of getting an instant date. Try planting the seed to go from the instant date to the next spot. If you don’t get the instant date, plant the seed for meeting up in the future (good way to transition into getting her number).

If you do night game, make 5 approaches and try to isolate a girl by baby stepping her to another part of the bar (to grab drinks, get fresh air, hit the dance floor, explore another part of the venue, etc.) Try and “baby step” her back to your place.

Alright, guys, there’s the tip of the week!

Be sure to go out there and start implementing it RIGHT AWAY. Success loves the speed of implementation.

If you like tips like these, then I would highly recommend you check out The Language of Attraction or attend a BOOTCAMP.

Don’t know what The Language of Attraction is?

This is all about the conversation. You’ll know how to attract beautiful women anyplace, anytime, and in any situation.

This is the only program that uses your own unique personality to attract women.

Other “gurus” will try to mold you to be exactly like them…. They’ll have you dress like them and act like them even if that’s not who you really are.

We’ll show you what naturally attracts women.  Click Here For More Details

Interested in a BOOTCAMP?

We’re going to be in Las Vegas, Cancun, New York City, Los Angeles, Miami, Brazil, Argentina, Colombia, Spain, Germany, Sweden, Bulgaria, Cyprus, Thailand, Dubai, India, Australia and that’s us just getting started.

If you’re serious about getting results with women FAST, then this is your ticket.

Here are a few things we’ll cover:

  • Discover a POWERFUL way to approach, attract, number close, and get dates during the day!
  • Destroy your approach anxiety and spark instant attraction with your body language as you get women to CHASE YOU!
  • Get Tons of infield practice, real-life drills, role-playing, and instant feedback on your interactions to make approaching women completely second nature!

Click Here To Find Out More

Turn A Girl On: Don’t Forget To ISOLATE

In today’s tip, we’re going to build on last week’s email which was about how to turn a girl on, get physical and escalate.

It’s not enough to know how to get physical. You also have to know WHEN to get physical and how to get there.

That’s why today’s tip of the week is all about isolation.

turn a girl onWe’ll discuss:

  • What is Isolation?
  • Why is isolation important?
  • How to isolate
  • What to do after you’ve isolated

What Is Isolation?

Isolation is when you’re able to get the girl alone so that you can move things forward. During the day, most girls are already alone, so this tip is most useful for the night game.

Why is it important?

It’s easier to physically escalate when it’s the two of you, opposed to when you’re with her group of friends. The reason why is because she doesn’t have the judgment or cockblocking of her friends. Imagine trying to make out with her in front of her group of friends, compared to when it’s just the two of you.

Isolation also helps build compliance momentum.

For example, if you met a girl on the street and ask her to grab a coffee with you. The fact that she said yes creates compliance and makes it easier for her to say yes to future requests.

In sales, this is called a “yes ladder.” One yes makes it easier to get the next.

How Do I Isolate?

An excellent way to isolate is by “baby stepping” the interaction. You’re creating a “yes ladder.” Leading the girl from the start of the interaction all the way to bringing her home. The idea of “baby stepping” is moving her closer and closer to your house one step at a time.

Asking a girl to come home with you within the first 5 minutes of meeting her rarely works. Asking her to get coffee or move to the other side of the bar (away from her friends) is easier.

For example, during the day I like to:

  • Ask a girl to get coffee 
  • Bring her to a park
  • Get some frozen yogurt 
  • And before you know it, we “happen” to be by my place.

If you don’t live in a city, the last step might have to be verbal. “Hey let’s go back to my place so we can continue getting to know each other,” for example.

During the night, isolation is crucial because girls are usually with friends. Here are some of the ways I like to isolate a girl while still in the bar

  • “Let’s go over there where it’s quieter, so we can talk more.”
  • “There’s a place to sit over there…come with me.”
  • “We should grab those chairs while they’re free.”

From there, I like to baby step her closer and closer to my place. My usual routine, once isolated in the bar, is:

  • “Let’s go outside for some fresh air.”
  • “Hey let’s get some food across the street.”
  • “Hey let’s just eat this at my place where I have some drinks.”

Pretty simple.

What To Do After You Isolate?

turn a girl onThis is the part where last week’s email comes in. When isolating the girl (at your place or isolated in the bar), you want to amp up the sexual tension and physicality. Last week’s email talked all about how to escalate physically.

In case you missed it, here’s an escalation ladder I like to use:

  1. When I introduce myself, I hold her hand longer than normal. Is she receptive and already interested or do I have to do more work?
  2. Find out something interesting about her as an excuse to give her a high five
  3. Thumb wrestle her with a little bet (loser buys coffee/beer)
  4. Hug her for winning/losing
  5. Arm to arm escorting (towards cafe/bar to isolate)
  6. Hand holding along the way
  7. Arm around her back/waist pulling her in close to me. Body up against her body.
  8. Kissing on her cheek
  9. Kissing on neck
  10. Making out

If you’re out in public, you can stop at the make out. If you’re home, keep escalating as long as you get the green light. If she gives you a red light, take two steps back and then later try taking one step forward.

Alright, guys, this isn’t everything about the subject, but it’s enough to get started and take action.
Next week, I’ll dive in further about baby stepping and give you a tactic I use to drastically increase the odds of a girl coming home with me. You won’t want to miss that one.

Your Weekend Mission
(If you choose to accept)

Beginners

  1. Reflect on your last 3 approaches. Were you able to go on an instant date? Did you even go for it?
  2. Make at least 5 approaches with the goal of getting an instant date. Try and baby step her from the first instant location (like coffee) to the next (like the park).

Advanced

  1. Reflect on your last 3 approaches. Were you able to go on an instant date? Did you even go for it?
  2. Make at least 10 approaches with the goal of getting an instant date. Try and baby step her from the first instant location (like coffee) all the way back to your place.
  3. If you do night game, make 5 approaches and try to isolate a girl by baby stepping her to another part of the bar (to grab drinks, get fresh air, hit the dance floor, explore another part of the venue, etc.) Try and baby step her back to your place.
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Alright, guys, there’s the tip of the week! 
Be sure to go out there and start implementing it RIGHT AWAY. Success loves the speed of implementation.
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If you like tips like these, then I would highly recommend you check out The Language of Attraction or attend a BOOTCAMP.

Don’t know what The Language of Attraction is?

This is all about the conversation. You’ll know how to attract beautiful women anyplace, anytime, and in any situation.

This is the only program that uses your own unique personality to attract women.

Other “gurus” will try to mold you to be exactly like them…. They’ll have you dress like them and act like them even if that’s not who you really are.

We’ll show you what naturally attracts women.  Click Here For More Details

Interested in a BOOTCAMP?

We’re going to be in Las Vegas, Cancun, New York City, Los Angeles, Miami, Brazil, Argentina, Colombia, Spain, Germany, Sweden, Bulgaria, Cyprus, Thailand, Dubai, India, Australia and that’s us just getting started.

If you’re serious about getting results with women FAST, then this is your ticket.

Here are a few things we’ll cover:

  • Discover a POWERFUL way to approach, attract, number close, and get dates during the day!
  • Destroy your approach anxiety and spark instant attraction with your body language as you get women to CHASE YOU!
  • Get Tons of infield practice, real-life drills, role-playing, and instant feedback on your interactions to make approaching women completely second nature!

Click Here To Find Out More

Are Hot Women Really Attracted To Money?

Are Hot Women Really Attracted To Money?

Are Hot Women Really Attracted To Money? Or is that just an excuse poor guys tell themselves to justify the lack of women in their life? Well, the answer might shock you!

I am finally going to answer the question “Are Hot Women Really Attracted To Money?”


The Common Misconception.

Look, I’m so sick of guys whining and complaining that women only want moneySaying that you need to be rich to get hot girls. That’s f*cking wrong. If you’ve asked yourself Are Hot Women Really Attracted To Money? Then the answer is a plain and simple NO.

Allow me to explain. First of all, it’s true that women ONLY care about ONE THING. How you make her feel. It’s not about the money. It’s about how the guy with the money makes her feel.

If you’ve ever take one of my courses, you understand that the most influential thing in a woman’s life. The thing she bases all of her decisions on… what car she buys, what neighborhood she lives in, and what guy she sleeps with has to do with one thing… How safe and secure she feels.

So let me ask you – do you think she will feel more secure with a guy that has lots of money or a guy that is flat broke?

She obviously feels more secure with a guy that is well off, that’s why women tend to look for guys with decent jobs. It’s a more “safe” situation for her. Again, Are Hot Women Really Attracted To Money? No, they’re attracted to Men who make them feel secure.

Even Without Money, You Can Make Women Feel Secure.

Now, that being said, if you are poor and stressed out about money, then she will feel very unsafe and stressed out, which releases the stress hormone cortisol making it very difficult for her to get turned on and aroused. That’s why girls are not typically attracted to guys with no money!

BUT – As I said before, it’s about how you make her feel. Just because a guy has money doesn’t mean she will feel “safe and secure.” If you have a ton of money, but you have a scarcity mindset, and you are afraid you’ll lose your money then she won’t feel safe either. She will still feel stressed out.

And I’m sure you’ve seen guys who are dead broke that do incredibly well with women. It’s because they feel secure about their money situation. You can be making pennies, but if the girl can see that you are 100% confident and secure in your future, then she will probably be attracted to you.

For example, when I was a struggling musician, I was making no money. But I had passion, and I believed I was going to be a rock star. Yeah, I know pretty funny. But I had confidence, drive, and determination, even though I had no money, I made women feel safe because I had the attributes of someone who would become successful in the future.  

Have The Attributes That Make Men Attractive!

Think of it like this, as a man you probably want to sleep with beautiful women, particularly those with wide hips and big breasts, because instinctively it improves your chances of passing on your DNA and having healthy offspring.

Well, a woman’s instincts want a man that can keep her and her offspring safe and secure.

So what’s more important than having tons of money is having enough money to give her that security, and having the attributes, body language, groundedness and confidence that make her feel safe when she’s with you. 

Speaking of attractive attributes, A man with money typically has attributes and traits that helped him acquire his wealth. These traits are also very attractive to women, yet most guys just see the “money.” They don’t see the core characteristics of the man, such as leadership, decisiveness, assertiveness, passion, dedication, intelligence, confidence, status and influence. 

Do you think these are traits that women find desirable? Of course, they do! Its because they all influence her feeling of safety.

So if she sees a man wearing an expensive suit driving a Ferrari she can safely assume that that man has many of the traits she desires. The good news is that if you are broke yet you still demonstrate these traits, it is possible for you to succeed with women. But if you are broke and showing no drive, direction, or dedication and you just like to sit at home getting stoned playing Dungeons and Dragons all day long then most women will lose interests faster than a toupee in a hurricane.

Let’s break down 2 of these attributes:

  1. AMBITION
  2. STATUS

Ambition:

Men with money usually have a lot of ambition, hints the reason they made their fortune. Women typically don’t find men who sit around wasting their life all that hot. A woman wants a man who knows his path and purpose in life and is on a mission to accomplish it. So if you are working a dead end job that you hate just to pay the bills, then it’s time to reconsider.

Stop playing it safe. Man up and take some risks. Stop asking questions like “Are Hot Women Really Attracted To Money?” or “Do I have any chances with Hot Women without Money?” and instead go out there and work on it yourself!

Even if you haven’t hit the big bucks yet, when you talk about your passion and purpose women will find your ambition and enthusiasm highly attractive. As I said, I used to play in a band when I was younger. And I got a lot of girls, even though we were hardly famous and we were in a lot of debt. But we had drive and ambition, and women like that.

Status:

Many men with money also have power, fame, and status. All female primates find status attractive! The high-status male in the mammal kingdom has better access to resources which means more bananas for her and her offspring. But you don’t need money to be high status. That’s why you don’t hear women raving about the richest men in the world. Even though they have access to more resources, they don’t look or act like high-status men.

So instead of flaunting your diamond necklace and gold plated shoes or writing your number on the back of an ATM receipt that you found in the trash. Walk, talk and act high status. Move slow and calm. Speak with authority and volume. Walk with purpose. Stand tall with your shoulders back. Make strong eye contact. Approach women with confidence instead of nervousness and your high-status body language will make you appear more attractive to women.

Are Hot Women Really Attracted To Money? NO.

Don’t make the excuse that women only want money. Because this simply is not true. Work on making women feel safe around you, demonstrate high-status body language and have ambition and other qualities such as leadership, drive, passion and guess what, with those characteristics, you will also probably make a lot of money.

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Are Hot Women Really Attracted To Money? Well, the facts say they’re into men who make them feel SAFE and SECURE. So it’s not all about the money guys – keep that in mind!

I’m out! Cheers!

18 Rules To Raise Your Status So Women Are Compelled To You

Women pay close attention to your position of status.

There is a status ranking system that humans unconsciously run through their minds whenever they encounter anyone new in their life.  They try to figure out where they personally fit on the social ladder in relation to the other person in any given situation.


For instance, if Brad Pitt walked into the room, people would see him as having a higher social status.  People would gather around him, ask for his autograph, and pay attention to whatever he says.  At the same time, all the women would instantly start falling for him, and not just for his looks.

Women are instinctually attracted to men with high status.  You see, a high status man is better able to secure a good future for her and her offspring.  She is naturally attracted to him even if he hasn’t talked to her yet.

So how can you elevate your status without being rich or famous?  Here’s the rulebook. When applied, this will make you deadly attractive and very influential.

The Rules of Status

Warning: This is not about trying to out-alpha other guys.  Be respectful.  If other men don’t respect you then you have actually lost all status.

1. Have social intuition. If you act weird or awkward during social situations, you will automatically demote yourself from a high status position. It is very important not to get flustered or nervous during interactions. You must know how to talk to people. Before you can lead, you must learn how to finesse your way through social situations. The cool thing is you don’t need to be naturally funny, witty or clever. You just need to be comfortable in social settings. Don’t be the insecure guy standing against the wall watching everyone else have a good time. Just take a deep breath, get grounded and join in on the fun.

2. Lead your group. If others see you leading a group, they will automatically see you as a leader and place you in a position of status. If you are not the leader of your current social circle then start leading. You can also create a new group by simply finding a few friends and inviting them all out together. Make decisions quickly and take charge. And remember this, a good leader is always a leader of “self” first.

3. Be non-reactive. Men that have status are non-reactive. They don’t freak out when something disturbs the peace. The leader is supposed to protect the group so if you freak out, it shows you are not suited for the position. Stay calm, be present, and handle the situation. Women will test you in this quality. She will poke you and press your hot buttons to see if you can stay grounded and keep your cool.

4. Become the leader of leaders. When socializing, befriend the other men that are the leaders of the group. This will cause the females of that group to see you as a leader as well, and thus be more attracted to you. If you go out and there is a large mixed group, determine who is the leader and befriend him. You can tell who is the leader because people are usually circled around him and they all stop to listen when he speaks.

5. Win friends. When you can walk into a party and everyone stops to talk to you, that’s when women will really take notice. When people are fighting for your attention, she will want it too. You can easily win friends by giving value to other’s through empathetic
listening, remembering and using people’s names and showing genuine interest.

6. Work the room. If you don’t know anyone, the best way to raise your status is to start meeting people. Socialize with BOTH men and women. To the observer it will look like you know everyone.

7. Command attention. Want to shoot your status to the top? Quiet everyone in the room and give a toast. A man that can get people to listen to him demonstrates status. Note: Make your toast outstanding, after all, you have center stage, stud.

8. Don’t suck up to people. Does a king suck up to people? Definitely not. He may compliment someone but the intention is not to seek approval. Speak your mind and DO NOT be apologetic (although you should apologize if you do something really wrong).

9. Dress well. Studies have shown that people in a suit are automatically perceived as an authority versus a person who is wearing normal clothes. Now, I do not mean wear a suit wherever you go, however, dress sharp. If you look like a powerful leader you will not only feel like one, but people will see you as one.

10. Speak with conviction. If you hesitate or stumble when you speak, people will not deem you as a worthy leader. A high status man is decisive and speaks like he is sure of himself. Your voice should be loud, slow, controlled and project so that all can hear.

11. Powerful body language. Walk tall, take up space and have open body language. Don’t let people push you around. Walk like you own the place. Most people have mediocre body language, so when you stand erect, with your shoulders back, chest out, and head high, people notice. Bad body language will also demote you of leadership status.  Don’t fidget or move excessively.  Move your body slow and with purpose.


12. Be the first to act, always. When you are with your circle, always be the first to move. For example, when at the end of eating dinner at a restaurant, be the one to say, “alright, let’s get of out here.” When you do this, you are unconsciously framing in their minds that you are the leader and when you say let’s go, everyone goes.

13. Be in the know. When people are sitting around wondering what to do, say something. Don’t say, “what do you guys want to do?” Instead, say, “Hey how about we go do X because it…” Be the guy that has ideas and knows what to do. This is especially important with a girl because she expects you to take the lead and take her places.

14. Bring her into your world. When you are hanging out with a girl or even your friends, make sure you draw them into your world. Take them to all of your favorite places instead of going to places they have already been. When they follow you into your world, where you are already king, they will see you as the king.

15. Strong eye contact. If you are unable to hold eye contact with people, you will be demoted from the high status position. Strong eye contact is a sign of power. Take it further by blinking less.  A man that doesn’t blink while talking conveys power. Some guys get into “eye staring contests” to see who looks away first. This is child’s play.  It demonstrates you have something to prove.

16. Don’t let people interrupt you. While conversing with a group, sometimes people will unintentionally start speaking right after you have begun. If you spoke first, maintain eye contact with the listener and keep speaking. The other person will stop when you are speaking.

17. Give. High status men give value, they don’t take value. They have so much greatness in their life, they want to share with everyone. They don’t make people feel bad about themselves. They make people feel inspired, proud, and beautiful.  Give and ye shall receive.

18. Have high standards. A high status man has high standards for himself and everyone in his life. Be picky about the people you let into your life, including the girls you date. A king is not going make any girl his queen. He is going to CHOOSE THE ABSOLUTE BEST. That is why it is important to QUALIFY every girl and when you do this she will automatically see you as high status. Qualify men as well before you bring them into your inner circle. High status men have high standards.

19. Have fun. Okay so there is one more… When you and your group of friends are having fun everyone wants to be a part of it. This is why it is also important to find friends that you can have fun with.  Share stories, tell jokes, play pranks on each other, be self amusing and have a blast.

Tell me in the comments down below, what you do to raise your social status.


What It Takes To Be The Alpha Male

Do you want to automatically attract the most desirable women?

It’s simple… be the Alpha.

You see, we are herding animals and are genetically programmed to live in tribes.  We are also wired to give status and rank to the people in our tribe.  Have you ever noticed that you automatically rank yourself against the other people in the group?


Women naturally rank men the same way because at an instinctual level, the man with the higher status, is typically best able to protect her.  And as you may know,  women choose the man with the best ability to PROTECT and PROVIDE for her. Remember, women want you to make them feel safe.

The problem is that most guys don’t know what being an Alpha really is. Most guys believe being the Alpha Male is about belittling and manipulating others.  No, being the Alpha Male is about leading your group/tribe in a positive direction.  It is about pulling people up instead of pushing them down.  It is about sacrificing yourself for the group, instead of sacrificing the group for yourself.

Being the Alpha doesn’t mean you have to rule the world.  You just have to be the leader of your own circle. When your woman sees that your circle of friends follow you, she will appreciate and respect you.  If you are not the leader of your circle, then start a new one.

Also, don’t think of it as one leader controlling their followers.  It is a about being a leader that inspires other people to lead and contribute towards a purpose.

In the following video, leadership expert Simon Sinek reveals the hidden dynamics that inspire leadership and trust. This is an eye-opening talk that reveals what it really means to be the Alpha of your world. It’s long, but well worth your time on so many levels.


You have to see this…