How To Seduce A Girl

How To Attract the Hottest Girl

Here’s how to Attract the Hottest Girl and specifically – the one every guy wants.

Okay so look, this article is for guys that have high standards but if you apply these principles, you’ll be able to attract nearly any girl you have your eye on.

Do you remember that one super hot girl in your high school that every guy wanted?


All the guys were dying to get into her pants but she wouldn’t let them. She didn’t date just anybody and she didn’t sleep with many guys. Her boyfriend was most likely the highest status guy in the entire school. Or she may have not even dated guys in her school but older men instead. I am also going to bet she didn’t talk to you much either.

If you want to attract the most beautiful and sought-after girl, you need to do what the super hottie from high school did.

How To Attract Any Woman? Be the guy every girl wants, but can’t get.  

When you do this, your status will leap tenfold. Most guys will screw this up because they will want to sleep with as many girls as possible, but if you want the best girl, then you need to be very selective.

You see, women have status too. And if she is the alpha female, she only wants to be with the Alpha Male.  And if you start sleeping with women that are below her, she will perceive you as having lower status than her.

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So here is what you need to do to attract the hottest woman around.

First, exercise SOCIAL PROOF. Social proof is the principle that people tend to follow the tribe.  If the tribe approves of you, then he or she will approve of you also.

So, if a girl notices other women like you, she will almost automatically want you too.  This trigger is the fastest way to short-cut attraction and get women wanting you. Demonstrate that you have lots of women to choose from and she will want you to choose her.

Next you need to exercise EXCLUSIVITY. Flirt with all women but only date and sleep with the BEST.

As we already talked about, High Status Men have high standards with women. They qualify women. Be very selective about whom you sleep with, how you spend your time, and how you spend your money.  High Status Men are very selective about who gets to be in their “Inner Circle.”

Be a challenge for women and don’t sleep with just any girl. People want what they can’t have. And if all the girls can’t get you, they will literally fight over you.  Once she see’s that women are fighting over you, she’ll want to be the “one” who gets you.

When you apply the concepts of Social Proof and Exclusivity, you literally will have women magnetized to you and they will fight for you.

Application: Specific ways to attract a woman…

This strategy applies whenever you enter any social environment or social circle e.g. the gym, work, sports league, school, club etc… Specifically a place where there are lots of women to choose from… e.g. Yoga Class 😉

Be friendly AND flirtatious will all the girls, but don’t date or sleep with any of them right away.  Sometimes it is better to take your time and choose the right one.


After you know which girl you want, then it is time to light some fires.  The key is to not give all of your attention to her right away.  This is the law of supply and demand of Attention.  The more attention you give someone, the less they want it.  On the contrary, the less attention you give someone, the more they want it. (Exclusivity)

So, flirt with all the other women but don’t make any advances.  You job is to get them to want you and talk about you behind your back.  As days and weeks go by, they will start to wonder if you are going to choose any of them and it will literally drive them crazy. (Be careful, you may break some hearts in the process)

Girls love to gossip and talk about guys, so you better believe the girl you want knows that all these girls want you.  She will naturally join in the race to win you over and you will know because she will start making advances on you.  Yes, the most desired woman will start attracting you.

At this point, play it cool and let her come to you stud.

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This way works best when all the girls know each other so they can talk about you, but with skill it can be applied to the bar scene too. If you already have a social circle filled with beautiful women then all you need to do is take them out with you.

But, most guys don’t have a social circle full of women yet so here’s another way.  When you are out, chat up all the girls in the club but don’t make any moves right away.  Then introduce the girls to each other (merge groups) and create your own “instant social circle” full of girls, with you as the hub.  When girls surround you you immediately attract the attention of every girl in the room, including the one you really have your eye on.  Then all you do is get her attention and signal her to come to you. This works so well, it is almost cheating.


Remember, flirt and have fun with ALL girls, however, only sleep with the quality ones.

If you want more ways to attract any woman, then check out this advanced training. It’s all about How To Attract A Girl In Seconds and shows you exactly what to say to women that makes them melt.

What It Takes To Be The Alpha Male

Do you want to automatically attract the most desirable women?

It’s simple… be the Alpha.

You see, we are herding animals and are genetically programmed to live in tribes.  We are also wired to give status and rank to the people in our tribe.  Have you ever noticed that you automatically rank yourself against the other people in the group?


Women naturally rank men the same way because at an instinctual level, the man with the higher status, is typically best able to protect her.  And as you may know,  women choose the man with the best ability to PROTECT and PROVIDE for her. Remember, women want you to make them feel safe.

The problem is that most guys don’t know what being an Alpha really is. Most guys believe being the Alpha Male is about belittling and manipulating others.  No, being the Alpha Male is about leading your group/tribe in a positive direction.  It is about pulling people up instead of pushing them down.  It is about sacrificing yourself for the group, instead of sacrificing the group for yourself.

Being the Alpha doesn’t mean you have to rule the world.  You just have to be the leader of your own circle. When your woman sees that your circle of friends follow you, she will appreciate and respect you.  If you are not the leader of your circle, then start a new one.

Also, don’t think of it as one leader controlling their followers.  It is a about being a leader that inspires other people to lead and contribute towards a purpose.

In the following video, leadership expert Simon Sinek reveals the hidden dynamics that inspire leadership and trust. This is an eye-opening talk that reveals what it really means to be the Alpha of your world. It’s long, but well worth your time on so many levels.


You have to see this…

Holiday Sex Secrets

You would probably assume that summer is the time for steamy hot sex. And, well, you are partially right.

People are more in the mood to hit the sheets during the warm season because hot weather typically puts people in higher spirits, and moreover, the exposed skin tantalizes the minds of men (and women) causing their naughty imaginations to run rampant.

But don’t despair. I am here to help you get more sex this holiday season than a nympho at a sex convention.

Tip 1: Get Cozy

Cold weather is the perfect excuse to text a girl and invite her over to your place for some hot cocoa bundled together in front of the fireplace under a warm blanket. If you don’t have a fire place, and assuming the girl you invite has a sense of humor, just go on Ebay or Amazon and buy a cheap dvd of a fireplace. This can make for a great laugh. Then invite her over to get warm in front of your “fireplace” and underneath the blanket your hands and imaginations can start to wander. And, let the fun begin.

Start off by sending this text, “hey its freezing outside….hot cocoa in front of the fireplace wrapped in a warm blanket would be amazing :)”. If she responds favorably, which she will, then invite her over!


Tip 2: Spike the Hot Cocoa

Why not make things fun by adding a little alcohol to that hot beverage? Hot egg-nog with some brandy is one of my personal favorites. I’m not necessarily encouraging you to get her drunk, however, a little alcohol will help her open up to you. Open up her playful side by talking about childhood christmas memories and before you know it, you will be acting like kids under the blanket.

Tip 3: Naughty or Nice?

If you don’t have a girl you can get over tonight for some cuddle action in front of your fake TV fireplace for some spiked hot chocolate and under-the-blanket frisking, then it’s time to get off your ass and get out into the cold to find yourself a prospective candidate. One of my favorite holiday bar openers is, “Naughty or nice?” (You can use this as a fun text message as well.) This opener immediately starts the conversation off on a sexual note and you can proceed from there to flirtatiously saying, “I have a feeling you ended up on Santa’s naughty list this year.”

After some more sexual banter simply invite her over to your place for, well you know the drill, cocoa fire and adult-fun!


Tip 4: Capitalize at Holiday Parties

Beautiful women are everywhere, especially holiday parties.  There is something about the cold that makes a woman want to be with a man during the winter.  As you are socializing during your company party, friends gathering, or new years party, remember to work the room.  If you talk with everyone and be the life of the party, the girls will not only notice you, but want to be with you.

Furthermore,  there is something special for a girl about being their “first kiss” for the new year.  So when the clock strikes twelve, go back to that girl you have been flirting with all night and make it happen captain.

Be Safe and Happy Holidays and Merry XXX-Mas from everyone at The Attractive Man Team!

How To Text A Girl You Like

Are you struggling to get the date after you get her number?


Many guys have trouble knowing what to do after they get her number. Should you wait 3 days to text her? Should you text her right away? What if she doesn’t answer? We get these questions all the time and that is why we created a video giving you the answers to the most frequently asked texting questions.

In this video, we show you how to text a girl so you can get a date and more.

Get the Ultimate Guide To Texting Girls.  Click Here


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How To Approach A Girl | 3 Minute Number Close

Watch as Matt Artisan, Head Instructor for The Attractive Man shows you how to approach a girl during the day and get a number under 3 minutes.


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Make sure you pay attention to what he says, his eye contact, his body language, and his attitude.  In another post we will break down exactly what to do so you can get dates too.

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