How To Pick Up Girls On Vacation

Do you have your next vacation scheduled?  Well, if you want to meet some pretty women, then you should.

Let me tell you about the art of seducing pretty ladies while on vacation. In this video, I am on vacation in Belize with the family and I lay down the best way to pick up women while you are on vacation.

To clarify, it doesn’t have to be an expensive vacation either.  You can always find a good vacation spot within driving distance of  where you live.  Another good option is going solo to a foreign country while you stay in hostels.  Hostels are great places to meet women for two main reasons.  One, women are friendly and looking to meet new people.  Two, at the end of the night you both end up at the same place.

So take some time off work, pack your bags, and go escape to an exotic destination.

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How To Approach A Girl Without Fear

Here is the scoop on how to approach a girl without fear or anxiety.

Here is the deal, every guy at some point in his life has seen a girl they wanted to talk to, and hesitated.  You know that feeling…   That feeling when you see a gorgeous babe across the room and your heart starts beating faster because you know you should talk to her.

Just about every guy experiences this.  The difference between guys that have hot girlfriends and guys that jack off to web porn is the ability to overcome this approach anxiety.

In this video, we show you how to eliminate approach anxiety  so you can get that hot date.

Here is how you can start dating the girls you want.  Go to: Pickup Arist Academy.

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How To Meet Girls During The Day

We have all been there… You see a BEAUTIFUL girl nearby that completely catches you off guard. You didn’t know what to say to her or how to approach her so you probably just walked away. You don’t know how to meet girls during the day.

It sucks.  I know because I’ve been there.

Well, let me show you, step-by-step, how it is done. Approaching women during the day is my favorite time to meet girls because it is SO MUCH EASIER to get dates with THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRLS.

While approaching women during the day, use this simple 3-step system.

I call it the “2-Minute Chase Me Method” because when done right, she will become so attracted she will start chasing you.

How To Pick Up Girls During The Day

1. Compliment
2. Qualify
3. Close

Now let’s break it down…

1. Compliment

I know what you are thinking… “I thought I was never supposed to compliment a girl!!!”  Most guys don’t know what they are talking about.  Most guys will tell you to never buy girls drinks either.

Here is the deal.  If you can demonstrate yourself as the a Strong And Confident Man, then you can do whatever you want as most rules won’t apply to you.  When you boldly go up to her and give her a compliment, you demonstrate your confidence.

The purpose of the interaction is to give value, which will build attraction.  You see, high value men don’t need to prove their value so they give value away.

Let’s Talk About the Opening: 

The best way to open is to go up and give her a GENUINE Compliment.  Tell her something that caught your eye.  Why would you want to talk to her… Does she have cool shoes, an awesome tattoo, nice skin, etc.  If you think she’s cute… tell her she’s cute.

Example: “This is random but you are absolutely (pause) stunning. I had to come say hi. My name is….

She’ll immediately see that you are an honest guy who has a lot of confidence and goes for what ever he wants in life. You’re not beating around the bush like most lame guys.

Be honest, authentic, and confident.  Look her in the eye as you say it.  Speak slowly and articulate.

When you do this she will see you as an honest guy with balls.  She probably has never had anyone do this to her.

2. Qualify

Confident and Attractive men don’t date every girl because they think she is beautiful.  They qualify them.  So the next step is to have her qualify herself to you.  Ask her something that you would like to know about her.  Be genuine in your screening process.

Example: “So who are you? Tell me something about yourself?”

Have the attitude that she needs to win you over.

If your opening is done right, she will want to qualify herself to you. Once you get her talking, chit-chat with her for a couple minutes.  Play around with her and tease her.

3.  Close

After you have decided that YOU do like this girl, then go for her number.  Do this after you have talked with her and qualified her. Getting a number is easy.  The purpose of getting the number is only because you expect to see her again.  Therefore say something like this…

“Listen, you are pretty cool. We should hang out sometime. Here put your number in my phone.(Hand her your phone)”

Do not ask her for her number.  You are the alpha man and therefore you should expect that she wants to hang out with you.

So now that you have her number, set up a date.  More on that later.

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How To Touch A Girl in a Way That Makes Her Feel Comfortable

How to Touch a Girl

Touching releases the chemical Oxytocin, a powerful bonding hormone that makes her feel connected and trust you. A woman must be comfortable with your touch in order for her to sleep with you. Learning how to touch a girl to make her want you is essential! My name is Matt Artisan and here are 7 Ways To Touch A Girl To Make Her Want You!

Download the Escalation Cheat Sheet for more on what to say to take things to the next level!

Before I get into the demonstrations. There are 3 crucial tips you must know.

3 Touching Tips to keep in mind:

#1. Always Make Sure She is Comfortable 

Never do anything she’s not comfortable with. If she doesn’t seem comfortable then stop right away. But don’t be too afraid either. Now there is definitely a time for a gentle touch but there’s also a time to use stronger touch so she can get turned on by your masculinity. (Never be agressive though!)

I can just see all the comments now… “So you are saying to push her and force yourself on her?” NO numbnuts! I’m saying don’t be afraid to shake her hand like a man, women hate a limp fish. Don’t be afraid to give her a good bear hug! Most guys do the lame “pat on the back.”  

Be powerful without overpowering her. Be dominant, without being domineering.

#2. Break The Touch Barrier – Don’t wait too long

Break the touch barrier sooner than later. If you wait too long, then that first touch will seem awkward and weird. So make sure to touch her when you first meet.

For example: During the day usually, a handshake, and/or a kiss on the cheek might be appropriate. At a bar, you might give her a high-five or put your arm around her. On a date, you would give her a hug when you greet her.

#3. Don’t Let It Linger:

Make sure to take it away at first. Touching releases the bonding hormone Oxytocin, and that’s why it feels good. But if you let it linger, that feel good vibe will soon turn into a creepy one.

A good rule to keep in mind in advancing your touch is: “Two Steps Forward, One Step Back”

Remember that if you keep putting on the gas, then she will eventually put on the brakes.


  1. Put your arm around her and tell her you like her, and then turning away from her.
  2. Kissing her and ending the tongue wrestling before she does and saying, “That’s all you get, no more for you.”
  3. “I would so throw you against the wall and have my way with you right now. Too bad there are all these people here.” 

….Okay now let’s get to the 7 ways to touch her:

7 Ways To Touch A Girl To Make Her Want You

  1. Conversation

    Using your hands as you talk and touching her arm, shoulder or hand to emphasize a point. Example: “And you won’t believe what happened next” as you touch her arm for emphasis. Touch her waist, which is a very sensual spot of her body, as you lean in to tell her something.

  2. Inquiring

    Touch her hair, nails, or something she’s wearing and make a comment about it.  Example: “Wow those are some interesting nailsas you hold her hands and examine them. Complementing her figure works as well, just like how women use “have you been working out?” as an excuse to touch your biceps. You can say the same line as you touch her abs.Wow, you are so fit” “Flex your arm Make sure she has a flat stomach before you do this. Pinching her belly flab won’t be such a turn on.

  3. Leading

    While leading her from one place to the next you can hold her hand, go arm-in-arm or place your hand on her lower back.

  4. Correcting

    Fix something about her like her clothing, hair or posture. Example:Hold on let me fix your shirt. Okay there, much better.

  5. Playful

    If you are at a bar or on a date you can play a Fun game like thumb wrestling or slap hands

  6. Rewarding

    When she does or says something you like, simply reward her with a hug, high-five or kiss. Example: “Nice, high-five!”

  7. Direct

    Where she just knows that you are really attracted to her so you make your move. You typically need a higher level of attraction and compliance for this to work.

    There you have it, 7 ways to touch more without being creepy so you can release some Oxytocin, deepen your connection and lead things to a more intimate level!


Now if you just want to be better with women we created a “Free Escalation Cheat Sheet” that lists out some of our best ways to spark sensual tension, turn a girl on, and the relationship to a more intimate level.

It’s filled with Advanced Escalation Techniques that will help you turn a platonic – friendly interaction, into a more sensual – “I want to rip your clothes off” vibe.

This is very useful when you’re talking to a girl but it’s going nowhere.

Download the Escalation Cheat Sheet for more on what to say to take things to the next level!

And if you want us to personally show you how to meet women, click here for a free 1-on-1 breakthrough call.

I’m out! Cheers!